Beware Alert - belinda27

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  • Mr. Fixer
    Mr. Fixer Posts: 593
    cmalisze said:
    I want my money or item AND her to be well. 

    For the good of the argument..it IS possible to have mental health issues and be a terrible person. They are not mutually exclusive. 

    Sadly, this may be an example. 

    Also for the record, providing another member with a grail is AWESOME and I wish we did it more. 
    Next Grail for Ninersfan, or maybe Seattle Batman? Seattle Batman definitely needs more chachkies. 
  • Brane_of_JFK
    Brane_of_JFK Maryland Posts: 1,901
    edited April 2022
    2-feign-reluctance said:
    andrew68 said:
    cmalisze said:
    mcgruff10 said:
    cmalisze said:
    pledgeagrievance said:
    rustneversleeps said:
    pledgeagrievance said:
    rustneversleeps said:
    bump for a great seller
    Is this sarcasm? If so, hilarious. If not, I’ve seen people keep defending her. Not sure what it would take for ppl to see that maybe she’s not a good seller 
    where's your sympathy? lets be patient.
    I just read through the thread again, so I know where you’re coming from. Thoughts and prayers 
    Anyone that knows me would attest to my concern for just about anyone, Belinda included. However, she has messaged me a few times to tell me there will be an update. Then I'm ghosted for weeks. I gave her $375 for a Mercer photo and am left with nothing. Seems she needs the $375 more than me but I'd recommend nobody buy from her ever again. 

    To think if I had that $375 I would have enough for 1 PJ Premium in Oakland!  B)
    If you have time to message someone then you obviously have time to send money via PayPal or Venmo since it takes all of three seconds.  
    I've tried suggesting that to Belinda as well.....deaf ears.....
    maybe her fan-club could pitch in?  
    That’s a ridiculous comment my friend. People can both disagree and be empathetic. Those that have shown compassion here surely agree that this is extremely bad form. Bad form that has permanently damaged this person’s reputation as a seller without a doubt. 
    While I've reiterated it time and time again that I hope she is indeed ok, that statement is absolutely ridiculous. She, and only she, has destroyed her reputation as a seller. Anything else that has been said is simply overkill and should act as a warning to others when deciding whether or not to do business with her.
  • HughFreakingDillon
    HughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 39,473
    I think you read that wrong Brane. 2 Feign is in fact saying that she has damaged her own reputation as a seller. At least I'm pretty sure that's what he meant. 
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  • 100 Pacer
    100 Pacer Toronto, ON Posts: 9,321
    DavidD said:
    Is she friends with don white?  
    Looks like they both play from the same game book. 
    So sad. 
    He’s still active on the Facebook or did I hear wrong?
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  • pdalowsky
    pdalowsky Doncaster,UK Posts: 15,214
    anyone hear from Belinda recently?
  • DavidD
    DavidD Posts: 2,544
    100 Pacer said:
    DavidD said:
    Is she friends with don white?  
    Looks like they both play from the same game book. 
    So sad. 
    He’s still active on the Facebook or did I hear wrong?
    I’m not on FB, so I have no idea. But that is what I’ve heard.  

  • pearljim10
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  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,118
    It seems Belinda sold a bunch of stuff on here over the years. Is this the first time the buyer did not receive the item? Sucks to be out that much money. Trusting someone with that much sight unseen is a big risk, even if it is with members of the PJ community.  And if she is getting in patient care, it could last a long time and would not be that easy to refund the money or ship the item. Just saying.  
  • cmalisze
    cmalisze Posts: 2,636
    Belinda responded to me today via a FB message. She stole 350 from me as I was buying a photo from her and it was never sent or received. She responds periodically saying she will message me another day. I tell her to stop and send my 350 back immediately. Then she ghosts again. Unreal 
  • Loujoe
    Loujoe Posts: 11,706
    Really stinks^^ I wonder what happened. Sad all around (and criminal you were robbed)
  • on2legs
    on2legs Posts: 15,955
    Hope you get your funds back!

    Makes me even more grateful for all the people here that I’ve done deals with… thankfully I’ve never had an issue. 
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  • 2-feign-reluctance
    2-feign-reluctance TigerTown, USA Posts: 23,459
    Hope you get a resolution OP! 
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  • cmalisze
    cmalisze Posts: 2,636
    belinda27 said:
    Hello there, 

    Please give me some time to work on this,

    I have been and am experiencing mental illness beyond my capacity to function independently. 

    I recognise I should have managed this situation better and I am sorry for the delay and confusion caused. 

    I am fixing things up as fast as I can, 

    as a priority. 

    Please know I will follow this up. 

    Regards,

    Belinda. 


    Still waiting for my money or my photo.
  • SVRDhand13
    SVRDhand13 Posts: 26,998
    Mental illness doesn’t stop someone from refunding $350 immediately.  We need to stop allowing that excuse. 
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  • andrew68
    andrew68 Toronto Posts: 1,845
    SVRDhand13 said:
    Mental illness doesn’t stop someone from refunding $350 immediately.  We need to stop allowing that excuse. 
    100 % agree
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  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,808
    edited December 2022
    SVRDhand13 said:
    Mental illness doesn’t stop someone from refunding $350 immediately.  We need to stop allowing that excuse. 
    I'm not saying anyone should excuse someone ripping others off,  but mental illness can do a heck of a lot more than that.  Sounds like you are fortunate to not know anyone who has serious mental illnesses, but stealing/not paying people back could be one of the better "messed up things" done by some people I've known.

    I hope everyone can get made whole, not making excuses. 
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  • mookieblalock
    mookieblalock Posts: 3,568
    edited December 2022
    F Me In The Brain said:
    SVRDhand13 said:
    Mental illness doesn’t stop someone from refunding $350 immediately.  We need to stop allowing that excuse. 
    I'm not saying anyone should excuse someone ripping others off,  but mental illness can do a heck of a lot more than that.  Sounds like you are fortunate to not know anyone who has serious mental illnesses, but stealing/not paying people back could be one of the better "messed up things" done by some people I've known.

    I hope everyone can get made whole, not making excuses. 
    I’ve worked in mental health for over 20 years, have had immediate family members, as well as many friends deal with very significant, life threatening mental illness. Belinda was capable enough to log into her email/PJ account and craft a coherent message with all of her wits…yet, somehow, couldn’t take an extra 30 seconds to log into her PayPal account to refund the money. The limits of mental capacity never cease to amaze me.
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,808
    mookieblalock said:
    F Me In The Brain said:
    SVRDhand13 said:
    Mental illness doesn’t stop someone from refunding $350 immediately.  We need to stop allowing that excuse. 
    I'm not saying anyone should excuse someone ripping others off,  but mental illness can do a heck of a lot more than that.  Sounds like you are fortunate to not know anyone who has serious mental illnesses, but stealing/not paying people back could be one of the better "messed up things" done by some people I've known.

    I hope everyone can get made whole, not making excuses. 
    I’ve worked in mental health for over 20 years, have had immediate family members, as well as many friends deal with very significant, life threatening mental illness. Belinda was capable enough to log into her email/PJ account and craft a coherent message with all of her wits…yet, somehow, couldn’t take an extra 30 seconds to log into her PayPal account to refund the money. The limits of mental capacity never cease to amaze me.
    I can imagine (from folks I've known) how this can happen.  Not a good thing but who knows.  
    I'm sorry that this person messed so many over.

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  • 1ThoughtKnown
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    mookieblalock said:
    F Me In The Brain said:
    SVRDhand13 said:
    Mental illness doesn’t stop someone from refunding $350 immediately.  We need to stop allowing that excuse. 
    I'm not saying anyone should excuse someone ripping others off,  but mental illness can do a heck of a lot more than that.  Sounds like you are fortunate to not know anyone who has serious mental illnesses, but stealing/not paying people back could be one of the better "messed up things" done by some people I've known.

    I hope everyone can get made whole, not making excuses. 
    I’ve worked in mental health for over 20 years, have had immediate family members, as well as many friends deal with very significant, life threatening mental illness. Belinda was capable enough to log into her email/PJ account and craft a coherent message with all of her wits…yet, somehow, couldn’t take an extra 30 seconds to log into her PayPal account to refund the money. The limits of mental capacity never cease to amaze me.
    Down to brass tacks. Makes a lot of sense.
  • HughFreakingDillon
    HughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 39,473
    lot of people don't seem to understand the potential implications of mental illness. it can lead to impulsive behaviour, which can mean she no longer has the cash nor the means to make good on the goods. being able to log into an account does not equate to be a functional human being. 

    as F Me said, not excusing, but these things can be a complex set of circumstances. 
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