Should I ask Agnes out on a date?

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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    Spiritual_Chaos said:
    Fuck The Simpsons (post what, season 6?)

    I understand why you didn't go, but I think it had more to do with it "being easier" not going because you were a bit scared. 
    More that I am half asleep after a busy day but I've chickened out of meeting new people before.
    Social anxiety....
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    Hopefully next time. I told her that it was late notice and I wouldn't make it on time and she said all good, not a problem.
    If I knew in advance I'd have made a quick and easy dinner. Made some Moroccan dish for the first time tonight and it took 3 long hours, plus dishes grrrr.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Spiritual_Chaos
    Spiritual_Chaos Posts: 31,445
    edited December 2018
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Spiritual_Chaos said:
    Fuck The Simpsons (post what, season 6?)

    I understand why you didn't go, but I think it had more to do with it "being easier" not going because you were a bit scared. 
    More that I am half asleep after a busy day but I've chickened out of meeting new people before.
    Social anxiety....
    Yes, I'm the same. You always find something to blame it on, but in the end if you didn't have those social barriers making you passive you would have been out of your home and on your way to her.

    But as I said, I'm the same. "Oh, but I need to work on this or that at home anyways... so I'll skip it..." etc.

    AND THAT'S WHY I'M ONE LONELY MOFO
    "Mostly I think that people react sensitively because they know you’ve got a point"
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    Yeah, I probably would've chickened out but this time I am seriously half asleep and my legs and feet are sore from standing all day and night. Couldn't be bothered standing at a bar till past midnight. 
    I am regretting not being there. Not sure if she was going alone or with friends.
    She seems to have tonnes of friends going by her photos online.
    A real social butterfly. I am the opposite. But boy do I find her attractive and cool. She's a talented painter too but she hardly paints, she's a photographer. I paint but not often. 
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • HughFreakingDillon
    HughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 39,449

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  • HughFreakingDillon
    HughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 39,449
    hopefully she invites you again! (i was just kidding with the pic, btw-I get it-I sooooooo get it)
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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,875
    Yes
    I think it's easier to not go. But nothing is easy that has a reward. You must walk through the fire. If you know what i mean. Feel the fear and do it anyway
     You really have nothing to lose. Friendship is a real possibility  . And then see what happens. Regrets are far worse than any chances taken 


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    No
    Spiritual_Chaos said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Spiritual_Chaos said:
    Fuck The Simpsons (post what, season 6?)

    I understand why you didn't go, but I think it had more to do with it "being easier" not going because you were a bit scared. 
    More that I am half asleep after a busy day but I've chickened out of meeting new people before.
    Social anxiety....
    Yes, I'm the same. You always find something to blame it on, but in the end if you didn't have those social barriers making you passive you would have been out of your home and on your way to her.

    But as I said, I'm the same. "Oh, but I need to work on this or that at home anyways... so I'll skip it..." etc.

    AND THAT'S WHY I'M ONE LONELY MOFO
    No, you're not...you have exes in Texas. Don't give us that crap.

  • dankind
    dankind Posts: 20,841
    Yes
    OffSheGoes35 said:
    Spiritual_Chaos said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Spiritual_Chaos said:
    Fuck The Simpsons (post what, season 6?)

    I understand why you didn't go, but I think it had more to do with it "being easier" not going because you were a bit scared. 
    More that I am half asleep after a busy day but I've chickened out of meeting new people before.
    Social anxiety....
    Yes, I'm the same. You always find something to blame it on, but in the end if you didn't have those social barriers making you passive you would have been out of your home and on your way to her.

    But as I said, I'm the same. "Oh, but I need to work on this or that at home anyways... so I'll skip it..." etc.

    AND THAT'S WHY I'M ONE LONELY MOFO
    No, you're not...you have exes in Texas. Don't give us that crap.

    That's why he hangs his hat in TenneSwede.
    I SAW PEARL JAM
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    No
    :cowboy:

  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    No
    HughFreakingDillon said:

    You playing hooky today?  =)
  • HughFreakingDillon
    HughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 39,449
    OffSheGoes35 said:
    HughFreakingDillon said:

    You playing hooky today?  =)
    haha. I can post images, just can't see them. I can't even see the image I posted. 
    Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall




  • dankind
    dankind Posts: 20,841
    Yes
    HughFreakingDillon said:
    OffSheGoes35 said:
    HughFreakingDillon said:

    You playing hooky today?  =)
    haha. I can post images, just can't see them. I can't even see the image I posted. 
    Wait, so you can't see the screengrab from "two girls, one cup" that you posted?
    I SAW PEARL JAM
  • HughFreakingDillon
    HughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 39,449
    dankind said:
    HughFreakingDillon said:
    OffSheGoes35 said:
    HughFreakingDillon said:

    You playing hooky today?  =)
    haha. I can post images, just can't see them. I can't even see the image I posted. 
    Wait, so you can't see the screengrab from "two girls, one cup" that you posted?
    HAHAHAHA
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  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    No
    Thoughts_Arrive found someone he is genuinely interested in, that is great news!!! :joy::joy::joy:
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    OffSheGoes35 said:
    Thoughts_Arrive found someone he is genuinely interested in, that is great news!!! :joy::joy::joy:
    Yeah but is she interested in me? Who knows. 
    Thanks but.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    No
    Sounds like she's interested to me. If a different guy wrote those same posts, you'd be thinking, "hell yes, she's interested." You would encourage him, wouldn't you? 
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    We'll see. People are different online than in person usually (or in my personal experience they are). 
    I've had girls approach me online before and we've chatted and they were like a completely different person face to face.
    I'd prefer an older woman after seeing the way girls younger than me act. They all look like Kim Kardashian clones. Materialistic people.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • OffSheGoes35
    OffSheGoes35 Posts: 3,517
    No
    I see. Well, maybe she will turn out to be an older woman when you meet IRL.
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Yes
    Yep.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014

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