I'll admit that I've cheated before. Almost 7 years later and I still haven't forgiven myself. Will I do it again? I can honestly say that I wouldn't. And mine wasn't your typical situation. More on that in the bipolar thread. I don't feel like diving into that. So, I think that a cheater can learn from their error and not do it again.
I'll admit that I've cheated before. Almost 7 years later and I still haven't forgiven myself. Will I do it again? I can honestly say that I wouldn't. And mine wasn't your typical situation. More on that in the bipolar thread. I don't feel like diving into that. So, I think that a cheater can learn from their error and not do it again.
I wonder how many of us have cheated.
The worst of times..they don't phase me, even if I look and act really crazy.
I'll admit that I've cheated before. Almost 7 years later and I still haven't forgiven myself. Will I do it again? I can honestly say that I wouldn't. And mine wasn't your typical situation. More on that in the bipolar thread. I don't feel like diving into that. So, I think that a cheater can learn from their error and not do it again.
I wonder how many of us have cheated.
not I!
If I had known then what I know now...
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and I've got women throwing themselves at me on a regular basis
If I had known then what I know now...
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I'll admit that I've cheated before. Almost 7 years later and I still haven't forgiven myself. Will I do it again? I can honestly say that I wouldn't. And mine wasn't your typical situation. More on that in the bipolar thread. I don't feel like diving into that. So, I think that a cheater can learn from their error and not do it again.
I agree that they can learn from their mistakes. But I also know that more often than not it is a repeated offense. It's sad, but very true.
why is everybody shocked? why is angelina surprised? if Brad was willing to 'canoodle' with her while he was married to Jen, then he is willing to canoodle with another lady.
I don't see any truth to this or any of the "cheaters always cheat" lines.
Believe me, there's more truth in that last line than you think!
"cheaters ALMOST always cheat", especially if they say they aren't.
I see a therapist on the reg, and she puts it at about 2/3 of Americans cheat. The kicker? She says that is on the low end.
Yeah, sounds right from what I've read. Supposedly it's about 80% of men and 50% of women. I have personally never cheated and can't see myself ever doing so. I think those stats are probably real, but I can't say I understand why. This apparent widespread willingness to cheat makes no sense to me. I don't get how the urge could be so important that it couldn't wait for a breakup. I personally think that betraying someone is the lowest you can go. If you're going to cheat and know it would be a betrayal of someone who loves you, have some respect for them and you and dump them first or ask for an open relationship. If you're not willing to do that, then have some self-control and don't fucking cheat. It's not hard if you have any real sense of right and wrong and some self-respect.
Anyway, why are we talking about cheating? Did Brad Pitt cheat again?? I thought she dumped him because he smokes pot, lol.
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I see a therapist on the reg, and she puts it at about 2/3 of Americans cheat. The kicker? She says that is on the low end.
Yeah, sounds right from what I've read. Supposedly it's about 80% of men and 50% of women. I have personally never cheated and can't see myself ever doing so. I think those stats are probably real, but I can't say I understand why. This apparent widespread willingness to cheat makes no sense to me. I don't get how the urge could be so important that it couldn't wait for a breakup. I personally think that betraying someone is the lowest you can go. If you're going to cheat and know it would be a betrayal of someone who loves you, have some respect for them and you and dump them first or ask for an open relationship. If you're not willing to do that, then have some self-control and don't fucking cheat. It's not hard if you have any real sense of right and wrong and some self-respect.
Anyway, why are we talking about cheating? Did Brad Pitt cheat again?? I thought she dumped him because he smokes pot, lol.
different reports. one says she hired a PI and they caught him cheating with his current movie costar. others say it's pot and alcohol abuse.
"every society honours its live conformists and its dead troublemakers"
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So, I think that a cheater can learn from their error and not do it again.
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even if I look and act really crazy.
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Vegas 93, Vegas 98, Vegas 00 (10 year show), Vegas 03, Vegas 06
VIC 07
EV LA1 08
Seattle1 09, Seattle2 09, Salt Lake 09, LA4 09
Columbus 10
EV LA 11
Vancouver 11
Missoula 12
Portland 13, Spokane 13
St. Paul 14, Denver 14
I have personally never cheated and can't see myself ever doing so. I think those stats are probably real, but I can't say I understand why. This apparent widespread willingness to cheat makes no sense to me. I don't get how the urge could be so important that it couldn't wait for a breakup. I personally think that betraying someone is the lowest you can go. If you're going to cheat and know it would be a betrayal of someone who loves you, have some respect for them and you and dump them first or ask for an open relationship. If you're not willing to do that, then have some self-control and don't fucking cheat. It's not hard if you have any real sense of right and wrong and some self-respect.
Anyway, why are we talking about cheating? Did Brad Pitt cheat again?? I thought she dumped him because he smokes pot, lol.
even if I look and act really crazy.