I lost my wife a week ago (play Come Back at Wrigley)

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  • dasvidana
    dasvidana Grand Junction CO Posts: 1,356
    Peace to you and all who love her. Please, PJ, play Comeback at Wrigley!
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  • so sorry for your loss. life (and death) can be so cruel and so hard to understand sometimes. thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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  • pdalowsky
    pdalowsky Doncaster,UK Posts: 15,214
    So so sorry to read your posts today,

    I cant even comprehend what you are dealing with, life is cruel and unfair at times, but you will always have the memories. They are precious.

    I sincerely hope you get this song.....Its an absolute stunner, and in this context would be so special.
  • Tom K
    Tom K Posts: 842
    Really tragic and heartbreaking...

    Hold your head up brother.. What a tragedy..

    Music seems a bit trivial at times, but I hope you are finding some comfort in PJ.. It sounds trite, but I think we have all used the music to help us through difficult times..

    I hope you get your request but more importantly some solace and peace..
    I'm gone ..Long gone..This time I'm letting go of it all...So long...Cause this time I'm gone
  • IcemanDorval
    IcemanDorval Posts: 494
    Sorry for your loss.

    PJ, please play Come Back at Wrigley!
  • Choccoloccotide
    Choccoloccotide A grass shack nailed to a pinewood floor Posts: 1,235
    You and your family will be in my prayers.
  • DamianK
    DamianK Posts: 192
    So sorry to hear about your loss! That's tragic & heartbreaking I hope PJ play "Come Back" for you at Wrigley! Stay strong!!
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    So sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you and your family.
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  • veddertown
    veddertown Scotland Posts: 5,260
    Deeply saddened to read this my friend. What a sharp reminder how fragile this life is. I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now. The time you have spent together means more than anything now and I know you'll cherish all the memories to keep her with you in spirit. I have lost many friends over the years and I find Come Back to be one of the most emotional songs PJ have. The version they played at Berlin 10 is one of the most powerful things I've ever witnessed and I hope you can get your wish. This is a side of the forums that thankfully doesn't show up that often but to see such overwhelming support is very heartening. It's real stories like this that make you notice how much of the content of threads on here are based around petty squabbles and people fishing for a reason to argue. Life is too important for this type of nonsense and this is a cold reminder that we take it for granted and that one person's life can so quickly be turned upside down. You seem to be handling this in the most positive and mature manner. I really hope you can move forward and keep her spirit alive with you on your long road. May she rest in peace and I hope you can live a long life without reaching depths like these again. All the best for the future and for your request at Wrigley. You deserve to have this one happen. Take care man.... ;)
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  • PillowPants
    PillowPants Posts: 4,877
    My thoughts are with you and your family -



    Do not stand at my grave and weep,
    I am not there, I do not sleep.
    I am in a thousand winds that blow,
    I am the softly falling snow.
    I am the gentle showers of rain,
    I am the fields of ripening grain.
    I am in the morning hush,
    I am in the graceful rush
    Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
    I am the starshine of the night.
    I am in the flowers that bloom,
    I am in a quiet room.
    I am in the birds that sing,
    I am in each lovely thing.
    Do not stand at my grave and cry,
    I am not there. I did not die
  • greasyt
    greasyt Posts: 49
    I'm very sorry for your loss.
  • letim
    letim Posts: 60
    I am so sorry for your loss, I cant imagine how hurtful this is. I lost my love who was also a huge PJ fan. It has been 8 years and some days are harder than others. I feel as though he is with me especially when I listen to our favorite PJ songs. The other day was his 8 year death anniversary and randomly Come Back started playing. I know your story is getting out there, Hopefully PJ will do this for you, Sarah and the PJFAM! I will be at Wrigley too, hopefully the PJ FAM can surround you with love and comfort. Take care.
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  • RedMosquito02
    RedMosquito02 Posts: 2,560
    So sorry for your loss :cry:
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  • PeArLgOoNeR
    PeArLgOoNeR Posts: 1,250
    Come Back needs to be played!

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  • PJForceofNature
    PJForceofNature Posts: 3,087
    I am so sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you, and that I wish you much comfort and peace. I am hoping that "Come Back" is played for you at Wrigley. May your loving memories of your wife bring much comfort to you, and may she rest in peace.
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  • Condolences my friend. I am very sorry for you and your families loss. She sounds like an amazing woman with a heart of gold. I hope they play Comeback for you. Again, sorry man.
  • mrluthor9
    mrluthor9 Posts: 264
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please play Come Back at Wrigley.
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  • maynardsux
    maynardsux Posts: 1,100
    I am so sorry for your loss...my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family
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  • I'm so sorry. I hope they play the song for you :)
  • slobberdog68
    slobberdog68 Posts: 692
    I'm so sorry to hear about your beautiful wife. What a beautiful video.
    Try and take good care of yourself, I hope they play your song.
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