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PJ_Soul wrote:Umm, yes, they are whores - that I wouldn't disagree with at all (can't see how anyone could), but what is your point?
I'm not sure that I would. I mean... it's just a job. The term "whore" is literally defined as a female prostitute and I only work with men. Although that's kinda splitting hairs.
And most of the performers I work with also just look at porn as a part-time hobby. They don't exchange sex for money off camera and they have control over their scene partners and what they're doing. While it's maybe not something you would personally do.. I would never work as a line chef but that doesn't mean that I think line chefs are whores.
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To "whore one's self out" means to debase one's self by doing something for unworthy motives. And while maybe having sex on camera is something that you would find debasing and unworthy... we're all adults. Nobody is there doing anything that they don't want to do. There isn't - for example - a three year old whose inclusion isn't really his decision.Just because someone is making money in the porn industry doesn't necessarily mean they are exploiting the workers (not that it doesn't happen, just like in many other industries, and probably more so than usual).
Actually... I saw a lot more drug abuse, sexual harassment, worker exploitation, back-stabbing, shady business practices and all-around lechery when I worked at a corporate purchasing office. You'd be amazed at how corporate and button-down we are behind the scenes.0 -
STAYSEA wrote:
...First-time host and self-proclaimed Hollywood elite,
Um... I don't think "Self-Proclaimed" means what you think it means.
Because I've never heard the first lady or anyone call themselves that.
I just hear people on the extreme right whining about the Hollywood Elite. Which I don't really get.0 -
i listened to her entire speech on xm. the patriot channel, to be exact. it struck me as nothing more than the same jingoistic crap that she is known for. throwing out zingers at obama and the gop leadership and the "lamestream media", and offeriing no solutions at all. anybody can do that. anybody can memorize a few zingers and throw them out there for consumption. anyone can go out there and gripe and offer no solutions. that is why the gop is a better minority party. they can sit back and complain and blame the other guy and not have to defend themselves or their record to the public. i found that the boob joke was in poor taste for a party who trumpets conservatism and family values, and the big gulp thing was nothing more than to provoke a reaction. if sarah palin is the future of the gop, the gop has no future.
i did find it telling that she basically committed political suicide by blasting karl rove and the koch brothers. she will never get their support or their money again. and that tells me that she will never run for office again. she can not raise enough money on her own and the kochs and rove's pac will invest many millions just to beat her."You can tell the greatness of a man by what makes him angry." - Lincoln
"Well, you tell him that I don't talk to suckas."0 -
Prince Of Dorkness wrote:PJ_Soul wrote:Umm, yes, they are whores - that I wouldn't disagree with at all (can't see how anyone could), but what is your point?
I'm not sure that I would. I mean... it's just a job. The term "whore" is literally defined as a female prostitute and I only work with men. Although that's kinda splitting hairs.
And most of the performers I work with also just look at porn as a part-time hobby. They don't exchange sex for money off camera and they have control over their scene partners and what they're doing. While it's maybe not something you would personally do.. I would never work as a line chef but that doesn't mean that I think line chefs are whores.
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To "whore one's self out" means to debase one's self by doing something for unworthy motives. And while maybe having sex on camera is something that you would find debasing and unworthy... we're all adults. Nobody is there doing anything that they don't want to do. There isn't - for example - a three year old whose inclusion isn't really his decision.Just because someone is making money in the porn industry doesn't necessarily mean they are exploiting the workers (not that it doesn't happen, just like in many other industries, and probably more so than usual).
Actually... I saw a lot more drug abuse, sexual harassment, worker exploitation, back-stabbing, shady business practices and all-around lechery when I worked at a corporate purchasing office. You'd be amazed at how corporate and button-down we are behind the scenes.
I have seen you say that nothing shady goes on as far as you're concerned, but that is your experience, and I believe that it's not going on where you're concerned. However, there IS exploitation in the industry - I've heard about it from the mouths of those who have been exploited in all kinds of terrible ways, as well as from those who try and support the exploited - namely young vulnerable girls. I know nothing as far as the gay porn industry goes. Maybe that is a whole other story... probably.With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0 -
PJ_Soul wrote:I say earning money by having sex makes someone a whore (male or female doesn't matter this day and age, does it?). If they do it for free, then no.
Well... My feeling is that people who will compromise their own selves for money are the whores. But I guess we have a different view of sex and what it is.
Personally, I think that people who work for companies that they are morally opposed to but do it for the money... THOSE are the whores.However, there IS exploitation in the industry - I've heard about it from the mouths of those who have been exploited in all kinds of terrible ways, as well as from those who try and support the exploited - namely young vulnerable girls.
OK yeah. But there's exploitation in EVERY industry and the porn industry is actually the only one where they women make more than the men. So if anyone is getting exploited....
It's the children who probably made our iphones and the below-minimum wage guy who delivered us pizza last week.0 -
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Prince Of Dorkness wrote:PJ_Soul wrote:I say earning money by having sex makes someone a whore (male or female doesn't matter this day and age, does it?). If they do it for free, then no.
Well... My feeling is that people who will compromise their own selves for money are the whores. But I guess we have a different view of sex and what it is.
Personally, I think that people who work for companies that they are morally opposed to but do it for the money... THOSE are the whores.However, there IS exploitation in the industry - I've heard about it from the mouths of those who have been exploited in all kinds of terrible ways, as well as from those who try and support the exploited - namely young vulnerable girls.
OK yeah. But there's exploitation in EVERY industry and the porn industry is actually the only one where they women make more than the men. So if anyone is getting exploited....
It's the children who probably made our iphones and the below-minimum wage guy who delivered us pizza last week.
And I'm obviously not claiming that other people in the world aren't exploited. I'm just saying that exploitation IS an issue in the porn industry - a problem that has ruined lives - and it kind of bugs me to see someone from within the industry pretending that it doesn't exist just because it isn't always an issue.With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0 -
PJ_Soul wrote:When I use the word, it means someone who takes money for sex. That's it. Because that's what the word means.
Well... technically, you're talking about an escort or a prostitute. But Ok. it's not a hair worth splitting.I'm just saying that exploitation IS an issue in the porn industry - a problem that has ruined lives - and it kind of bugs me to see someone from within the industry pretending that it doesn't exist just because it isn't always an issue.
Well... OK but I've worked in the adult industry for well over a decade and while there certainly are stories you hear... those are very much the exception and not the rule.
I saw and still see a LOT more worker exploitation out of the porn industry than I EVER have in it.
I know... I know... I saw Boogie Nights, too. That was a movie. The industry really isn't like what you're lead to believe from seeing it depicted in Mainstream movies and TV shows. And Fox news, John Stosel reports and stories you hear on CSPAN.
I mean... my doctor was a porn star. So was my lawyer and the guy who sold me my house up in San Francisco. And my best friend who now works at NASA on one of the Mars lander projects. But we seem to have gotten away from Sarah Palin making an ass of herself at CPAC so I guess next time I should just call Bristol Palin "a shitty mother who exploits her child and shames herself for cash."0 -
Prince Of Dorkness wrote:PJ_Soul wrote:When I use the word, it means someone who takes money for sex. That's it. Because that's what the word means.
Well... technically, you're talking about an escort or a prostitute. But Ok. it's not a hair worth splitting.I'm just saying that exploitation IS an issue in the porn industry - a problem that has ruined lives - and it kind of bugs me to see someone from within the industry pretending that it doesn't exist just because it isn't always an issue.
Well... OK but I've worked in the adult industry for well over a decade and while there certainly are stories you hear... those are very much the exception and not the rule.
I saw and still see a LOT more worker exploitation out of the porn industry than I EVER have in it.
I know... I know... I saw Boogie Nights, too. That was a movie. The industry really isn't like what you're lead to believe from seeing it depicted in Mainstream movies and TV shows. And Fox news, John Stosel reports and stories you hear on CSPAN.
I mean... my doctor was a porn star. So was my lawyer and the guy who sold me my house up in San Francisco. And my best friend who now works at NASA on one of the Mars lander projects. But we seem to have gotten away from Sarah Palin making an ass of herself at CPAC so I guess next time I should just call Bristol Palin "a shitty mother who exploits her child and shames herself for cash."
Screwing for cash and Making money off people screwing for cash is much worse. If it was not, why do people hide the fact that they do it.
Just because you hate her does not make her a bad Mother.“We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution.” Abraham Lincoln0 -
aerial wrote:Screwing for cash and Making money off people screwing for cash is much worse. If it was not, why do people hide the fact that they do it.
Because people like you have that attitude. Until they pay for porn, of course.
Maybe YOU can tell me why so many people hide that they're paying for it. Everyone seems to say that they don't watch it. But someone does because my paychecks don't bounce.Just because you hate her does not make her a bad Mother.
That's very true. But I'd say when your mothering skills include using your child to secure reality show deals, that's probably high in the "bad" column.0 -
Do people even pay for porn anymore? I never have.
Anyway, everyone judges. We're all entitled to, too.0 -
hedonist wrote:Do people even pay for porn anymore? I never have.
Anyway, everyone judges. We're all entitled to, too.
Yes. They do. And hey... judge away.
Clearly it's not something I hesitate to do when I think it's warranted and obviously not anything that I allow to bother me.0 -
Prince Of Dorkness wrote:hedonist wrote:Do people even pay for porn anymore? I never have.
Anyway, everyone judges. We're all entitled to, too.
Yes. They do. And hey... judge away.
Clearly it's not something I hesitate to do when I think it's warranted and obviously not anything that I allow to bother me.
All four sentences.
Howdy to the gander from the goose0 -
hedonist wrote:Howdy to the gander from the goose
Can I just thank you for making me the "boy" in that last bit? :twisted:0 -
Palin to Porn. I actually followed most of it.
Actually have a 50/50 agree/disagree split going on with a Princes OD on it all
& I would indulge this thread except I have not one emotion toward one Palin & as for porn, I've got nothing. Zilch. Nada. Except...maybe now's a good time to ask if there really is such a thing as a good porn show & if so, what's it called? Maybe I'd give it one more try....0 -
dancepartner wrote:maybe now's a good time to ask if there really is such a thing as a good porn show & if so, what's it called? Maybe I'd give it one more try....
Well, my movie from last year called Nightfall was nominated for Best Duo at the Grabby Awards this year.0 -
"Laaaaadies and Gentlemen, in far north corner, with her fifteen minutes of fame and a Big Gulp, SARAHHHHH PAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALIN!"
"And in the far corner to the left, the well tanned defender from Compton California, Miiiisssster muscle himself...
(wrestler grabs microphone and screams into it...) "PENCIL NECK!. NOTHING BUT A BUNCH O' PENCIL NECKS!"
Who started this mess?"It's a sad and beautiful world"-Roberto Benigni0 -
You!
No more big gulps for you.0 -
the Palins are an embarassing disaster. until her and Tina Fey, I've never watched a real person talk and think that the person who mocks them on tv is actually better at it than they are.Gimli 1993
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Hugh Freaking Dillon wrote:the Palins are an embarassing disaster. until her and Tina Fey, I've never watched a real person talk and think that the person who mocks them on tv is actually better at it than they are.
That is totally true!
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata0
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