So fkn depressed
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That sucks. :( When it starts feeling that way, the sense that you will never feel better can make things worse... Just remember, that feeling is not what's true. This is a good place to come and chat and find understanding I think. And, of course, never underestimate the power of music.
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Do you see the way that tree bends? Does it inspire? Hey, we all get in the shits every now and again but all you might need to do is check out the way that tree bends. You'd be surprised what it might do for you. And as someone else so eloquently put it, there is one hell of a community here that you can turn to for a good laugh, some serious thought, a tear or two or just some WTFs.
Be cool, reach out if you need to, PM me your address if you want something to show up in your mailbox that might make you laugh or might leave you scratching your head or maybe it'll just reaffirm what you probably already know. Choice is yours, no pressure. We're here arms aloft.
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Thank you all for your kind words.
Afroannie, that thread brought a smile to my face.
Iluvcats, yep that is me, forgot I had that avatar actually, thank you for your wise words.
I dragged myself outside and went on a quick run, still feel anxious but.
I've just had personal, family, friend, work issues lately that have gotten me down, been feeling like this for weeks.
But I've had bouts before.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140 -
Thoughts_Arrive wrote:Thank you all for your kind words.
Afroannie, that thread brought a smile to my face.
Iluvcats, yep that is me, forgot I had that avatar actually, thank you for your wise words.
I dragged myself outside and went on a quick run, still feel anxious but.
I've just had personal, family, friend, work issues lately that have gotten me down, been feeling like this for weeks.
But I've had bouts before.
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As soon as you don't feel in controll of your own life, the world becomes a bit of an overwhelming place.
if your in a rut, get out. If your depressed, theres a reason why. if you feel like chatting PM me. I totally beat my depression. Kicked it's ass. I went from not leaving the house to three years, total nervous recluse ... to well, i made some changes and kicked my ass, (pearl jam helped) made a complete career change and a few years down the line life is actually pretty sweet
who would have thought it. Literally, Just had an interview done by the Eden Project in Cornwall about a course I did there, it's only short, but it all began when I beat my depression with pursuing the things i was passionate about. When I was down, the only thing i only ever enjoyed was being outside in the garden, so i went from there...
This just got posted the other day, so don't laugh, Go to the second paragraph - starting a career in Horticulture & thats me
http://www.edenproject.com/blog/index.p ... re-course/
Pearl jam helped me make those changes, A live show wil change your life Some songs that help me get through the badtimes - Present tense, in hiding, Life wasted & Small town.
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Thank you for your support.
The only thing I can be bothered doing is playing guitar.
My passion is music but I cannot write nor sing and I ain't no virtuoso on the guitar.
I was in the process of a career change but I've hit a mental hurdle.
Nice article and photos.
Nirvana helps. I could kiss Kurt now.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140 -
Funny you say that, I was starting to feel a bit blue the other day so I bought a digital piano
Can't play the thing ... yet, but it's a nice thing to do for a few hours everyday.
so theraputic, plus it keeps my brain occupied, there are some grat you tube videos made by bored music teacher in their holidays, all the basics. Chords, how to sight read (not that diifcult once you get going) I found some sheet music PDF files and printed them off and so far it's been a nice thing to do with my day, definatley better than sitting around feeling grubbish. I'm not great yet, but getting better Shall we both try to learn a song today, i might make that my sunday challenge.
Mental hurdles eh, tell me about it.
Remember depression is that little gremlin who lives in your brain constantly telling you your essentially an oxygen thief. This is of course Bollocks. Everyone has talents & unique skills. things that make them shine. I suffered mostly from anxiety. But when good things started happening I still felt anxious, i spent a good 4 years saying No to a lot of great opportunites, family gatherings, reunions with friends, So I started to make a concious effort to start saying yes... Thats when life started to change and suddenly i wanted good things to happen to me and started to pursue it. So ignore that little gremlin or at least try to prove it wrong.
I don't know if any of this is relevant but heres some other advice I have treasured over the years....
They can't take your hands away - Dont stare up the steps, step up the stairs - be nice to yoursef-
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& the harshest one of all - No ones going to do it for you - but thats the good part, because if you take control of your own life it will be so much sweeter on the otherside. Oh & your friends are key, surround yourself with all the people you love, i wouldn't be here today without my wonderful friends Sometimes I speak of nothing at all.0 -
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You are welcome, Thoughts Arrive.
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Depression is such a horrible feeling and a crappy state-of-being, and I feel for you right now. Just wanted to say HANG IN THERE! And know there's a bunch of people who do care and are willing to talk on here. Also music! Can't stress music enough. It's helped pull me out of pretty rough, dark times (that mofo depression is no agist!). Find the little things that make you happy/smile, try as hard as you can to bring things into a more positive light. Stay strong and keep pushing forward!"Sometimes you find yourself having to put all your faith in no faith."
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so bad to hear it but it's true we're here for you!!
Sending lots of positive vibes your way
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:( I'm sorry to hear this, but on the bright side, there is a lot of good advice in this thread. Samjam is right, depression is horrible, but it is so common and there are so many who can relate, and that you can talk to, including just about everyone on the board. Keep hanging in there, things will improve and get better! Rose Garden Arena - Nov 02, 2000, Key Arena - Oct 22, 2001, Key Arena - Dec 08, 2002, Key Arena - Dec 09, 2002, Clark County Amphitheater - Sep 26, 20090
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Whenever I feel down, question the path Ive chosen, or feel like engaging in self destructive behavior, I just watch 10 minutes of the Jerry Springer show. It helps me realize just how good my life actually is.
Then I watch some stand up comedy. It forces me to laugh. Trust me it helps.0 -
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Thank you all.
Felt better yesterday and most of today.
It's like it comes and goes, Monday was as if I was never down the past few days then this afternoon I felt a bit grumpy.
81, I love your words of advice.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140 -
Glad you feel better. When I get down, usually with worry, I always seem to forgetThoughts_Arrive wrote:Thank you all.
Felt better yesterday and most of today.
It's like it comes and goes, Monday was as if I was never down the past few days then this afternoon I felt a bit grumpy.
81, I love your words of advice.
that it will pass. I wish I could remember that at the time, because it is true.
I have found its ok to be down, to lay down, give up, cry, beg, pray ...
succumb
it's ok for me because it's a part of me and how I cope.
I think this may help me to live longer, not fighting it or worrying about it,
there is enough to worry about then how I react to worries.0 -
Hope you have a great day today! Also, try not to worry or dwell on those things that are completely out of your control like financial markets, oil prices, etc., etc. Focus on you and those things that you can control or have sway over. And, be kind to yourself.
Hang in there, thigs will get better!
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