So it's over now...

DS1119
DS1119 Posts: 33,497
edited November 2011 in All Encompassing Trip
My fiance'/girlfriend of 8 years...I guess I need to start referring to her as my ex, moved most of her stuff out of our house today. :cry: I'm so fucked up right now. I still love her with all of my heart. She says she doesn't. Over the past few years I have been so consumed with work and other issues that I let her slip away. :( I'm so sad.
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  • rick1zoo2
    rick1zoo2 between a rock and a dumb place Posts: 12,632
    sorry to hear that. hang in there.
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    ((((hugs)))) I'm so sorry :(
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  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    So sorry dude...
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  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    so sorry to hear this. Focus on you right now.
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    ahhh, go have a mic ultra or 50

    it's all up hill from here. enjoy the freedom, enjoy the new chases, and enjoy not having to deal with crappy gf friends. :P

    seriously, enjoy it....
    81 is now off the air

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  • Indifference71
    Indifference71 Chicago Posts: 14,911
    Sorry to hear that...
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    viewtopic.php?f=4&t=5445
    81 is now off the air

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  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,130
    sack up
    go out
    and meet some strange :!:


    Look forward and save your energy for making yourself feel good. I suggest an eddie murphy marathon for starters.

    Seriously, there are so many beautiful, wonderful women out there to get to know.
    A world of new experiences just opened up for you man!



    And I am jealous as hell! :D
  • DS1119
    DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    81 wrote:

    seriously, enjoy it....


    I can't. :( You don't understand that I love her with all of my heart. :(
  • Mamasan23
    Mamasan23 Posts: 16,390
    So sorry to hear that DS, that's one of the toughest things in the world to have to go through but you'll get through it. The one upside is that at least this happened before you got married.

    One day at a time man!
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    what's the rule...you can feel bad for one week per year together?

    fine....you can have until jan to feel bad...but after that...damn it....
    81 is now off the air

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  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,502
    81 wrote:
    http://forums.pearljam.com/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=5445
    :think: :think: :think: :problem: :thumbdown: :wtf: too soon.
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  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    Sorry you are sad, DS.



    and 81 sounds jealous! ;)
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • conman
    conman Posts: 7,493
    as soon as i opened this thread, Present Tense came on my itunes.... i think that's a sign


    seriously though, my advice from before still stands and so does my offer
  • Nami
    Nami Newfoundland Posts: 5,999
    Sorry to hear DS....

    go get drunk as fuck and crank the fuck outta PJ!
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  • Dissidentman
    Dissidentman Posts: 15,378
    Drinks are on me...
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YYqnoULgD30



    seriously though, sorry about what happened ds...ultra lights are on 81!
  • BinauralJam
    BinauralJam Posts: 14,158
    Eat, Drink, Smoke, Whack Off and hit the bed, hopefully You'll feel a tiny bit better tomorrow.
  • F Me In The Brain
    F Me In The Brain this knows everybody from other commets Posts: 31,818
    Tomorrow is Day 1 after what sounds like a definitive end date today. It could take a while but things will get better. I think I posted this a previous but put on Present Tense, listen to the words and try to accept that things are over, go through your mourning period and you must carve out a new path.
    There is no retreating -- only moving forward. Sometimes life can suck balls.
    To quote a great, great man -- Sometimes you eat the bar, sometimes the bar eats you.

    Keep your chin up bro.
    The love he receives is the love that is saved
  • GivenToLukinKP
    GivenToLukinKP Chicago Posts: 3,076
    I'm sorry...I went through this a couple years ago. My ex moved out after living for 4 years together--and he did it the the day after xmas.

    If you want to vent or talk or anything, PM me. I've been there. I know what its like to live with a partner long term and having it end--and desperately not wanting it to.

    You don't want to hear this, but it DOES get better. In the meantime, once you get over the initial shock and sadness, find a FWB--someone with no strings- and F your brains out. That helps.
    Makes much more sense...

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