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  • justam wrote:
    Can Mindi call the credit card company and deny the charge? Don't most companies have some kind of fraud policy?

    Maybe she can cancel the transaction and get her money back that way? :geek:
    Used paypal....
    30 days have passed....
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  • justamjustam Posts: 21,415
    justam wrote:
    Can Mindi call the credit card company and deny the charge? Don't most companies have some kind of fraud policy?

    Maybe she can cancel the transaction and get her money back that way? :geek:
    Used paypal....
    30 days have passed....

    Oh.
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  • Hey Mindi???
    Those tickets you bought????

    What night are you supposed to be on the lawn???
    Just curious....
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    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    justam wrote:
    justam wrote:
    Can Mindi call the credit card company and deny the charge? Don't most companies have some kind of fraud policy?

    Maybe she can cancel the transaction and get her money back that way? :geek:
    Used paypal....
    30 days have passed....

    Oh.
    And even if I could file a dispute, they would take it up with who I paid, and that was 10C directly. I have no issue with them.
    To 10c; "Your PJ tshirt should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." - bionicamy
  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    Hey Mindi???
    Those tickets you bought????

    What night are you supposed to be on the lawn???
    Just curious....
    Lawn Sunday.
    To 10c; "Your PJ tshirt should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." - bionicamy
  • E.KE.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    81 wrote:
    E.K wrote:
    mindi wrote:
    Well since I paid for all of the tickets, I really wish I could have all the $ back.

    And Eileen funny you should say that
    She told me Ed would be grossed out by MY lack of compassion.
    And also said I'm not being very Pearl Jam in this situation.

    So what was the exact cost of just the two PJ20 tickets??
    334 for a pair to each night

    once night seated, once night on teh lawn

    The purchase of the tickets from the 10 club is recorded on your bank statement, right? I wonder if Legal Aid could help you with some advice as to how to get your money back.
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  • SOLAT319SOLAT319 Posts: 4,609
    I have no patience for bad music and stupid people...

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  • E.KE.K New South Wales, Australia Posts: 7,726
    SOLAT319 wrote:

    Oohh.. I was there that night. Had the worst seats ever, so thanks for the video. :)
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  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    And I really am sitting here feeling so bad about the whole thing. Yeah I'm kinda angry for getting screwed, but really just more upset to be taken advantage of by who I thought was a good friend.

    I hate being called unstable. I really think I've been very calm and nice in this whole thing. I have such a bad self image problem, that all of this is making me think it is my fault. Maybe it is. Maybe I should have given in to her blackmail.
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  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    Yeah i know i keep saying im done here but
    I also offered to pay the fee for her to change her seattle to inch to ticket for her to fly here and then she could ride up with me and my other friends.
    Again she said no.

    Ok that should say seattle to indy, stupid auto correct on my phone :p
    To 10c; "Your PJ tshirt should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." - bionicamy
  • Better DanBetter Dan Posts: 5,684
    edited August 2011
    So is this the recap:

    Mindi thought someone was her friend so paid for fan club tickets using her "friend's" (BhagavadGita) account. Mindi and this person were going to be ticket buddies for the pj20 shows.
    BhagavadGita lives 5 hours out of the way from where Mindi lives to get to Alpine.
    BhagavadGita wants Mindi to go pick her up on the way to Alpine, at least 5 hours out of the way.
    This is hard for Mindi to do as she is traveling with friends.
    Mindi offers to pay airfare and train for BhagavadGita to get to Alpine or to where Mindi will be. BhagavadGita refuses.
    Mindi finds people who can pick up BhagavadGitaon the way to Alpine. BhagavadGita refuses because she says she won't ride with strangers.
    BhagavadGita sends nasty texts and messages to Mindi for not driving 5 hours to pick her up. In one text, BhagavadGita tells Mindi that BhagavadGita should be put before anything else in Mindi's life.
    BhagavadGita posts here that she is willing to drive with a stranger just to piss off Mindi.
    BhagavadGita refuses to pay Mindi back for the tickets Mindi paid for and has said that Mindi isn't getting anything (ticket or money).
    BhagavadGita has a probation officer.

    Is this about right? 8-)
    Post edited by Better Dan on
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  • CROJAM95CROJAM95 Posts: 10,802
    Better Dan wrote:
    So is this the recap:

    Mindi thought someone was her friend so paid for fan club tickets using her "friend's" (BhagavadGita) account. Mindi and this person were going to be ticket buddies for the pj20 shows.
    BhagavadGita lives 5 hours out of the way from where Mindi lives to get to Alpine.
    BhagavadGita wants Mindi to go pick her up on the way to Alpine, at least 5 hours out of the way.
    This is hard for Mindi to do as she is traveling with friends.
    Mindi offers to pay airfare and train for BhagavadGita to get to Alpine or to where Mindi will be. BhagavadGita refuses.
    Mindi finds people who can pick up BhagavadGitaon the way to Alpine. BhagavadGita refuses because she says she won't ride with strangers.
    BhagavadGita sends nasty texts and messages to Mindi for not driving 5 hours to pick her up. In one text, BhagavadGita tells Mindi that BhagavadGita should be put before anything else in Mindi's life.
    BhagavadGita posts here that she is willing to drive with a stranger just to piss off Mindi.
    BhagavadGita refuses to pay Mindi back for the tickets Mindi paid for and has said that Mindi isn't getting anything (ticket or money).
    BhagavadGita has a parole officer.

    Is this about right? 8-)


    I think it was a probation officer, no? Its a big difference
  • Better DanBetter Dan Posts: 5,684
    CROJAM95 wrote:
    Is this about right? 8-)


    I think it was a probation officer, no? Its a big difference[/quote]


    You're right.. just fixed it. :lol: That might have been the difference between getting the thread locked and keeping it open. ;)
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  • Better Dan wrote:
    So is this the recap:

    Mindi thought someone was her friend so paid for fan club tickets using her "friend's" (BhagavadGita) account. Mindi and this person were going to be ticket buddies for the pj20 shows.
    BhagavadGita lives 5 hours out of the way from where Mindi lives to get to Alpine.
    BhagavadGita wants Mindi to go pick her up on the way to Alpine, at least 5 hours out of the way.
    This is hard for Mindi to do as she is traveling with friends.
    Mindi offers to pay airfare and train for BhagavadGita to get to Alpine or to where Mindi will be. BhagavadGita refuses.
    Mindi finds people who can pick up BhagavadGitaon the way to Alpine. BhagavadGita refuses because she says she won't ride with strangers.
    BhagavadGita sends nasty texts and messages to Mindi for not driving 5 hours to pick her up. In one text, BhagavadGita tells Mindi that BhagavadGita should be put before anything else in Mindi's life.
    BhagavadGita posts here that she is willing to drive with a stranger just to piss off Mindi.
    BhagavadGita refuses to pay Mindi back for the tickets Mindi paid for and has said that Mindi isn't getting anything (ticket or money).
    BhagavadGita has a probation officer.

    Is this about right? 8-)
    Lmfao pretty much correct.
    Just, not enough.
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    Nothing seems to satisfy.
    I said, I dont want it.
    I just need it.
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  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    edited August 2011
    Yes Dan accurate recap.
    And im sure it will be locked and i'll be banned here, but like i said, at least 3 people so far have pm'd me thanking me for posting, so im glad i was able to save them from what i've been going through or losing money.
    Post edited by mindi on
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  • CROJAM95CROJAM95 Posts: 10,802
    Better Dan wrote:
    CROJAM95 wrote:
    Is this about right? 8-)


    I think it was a probation officer, no? Its a big difference


    You're right.. just fixed it. :lol: That might have been the difference between getting the thread locked and keeping it open. ;)[/quote]


    Haha

    Parole is hardcore, probation is anything
  • electronblueelectronblue Posts: 3,502
    do people really trust strangers, here?
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  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    do people really trust strangers, here?
    She wasn't a stranger, i've known her for two years. We went to the indy show together last year. I thought we were good friends, no clue why she seems to have turned on me.
    To 10c; "Your PJ tshirt should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." - bionicamy
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    When she goes to pick up tickets, ten club should just give her ONE ticket to ONE night but demand cash on the spot and have mindi standing by. OR, they should just see her I.d, say thank you but these tickets belong to someone else! Problem solved.
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  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    81 wrote:
    I was looking into small claims, but everything I read says I have to file where she lives. There's no way I have the $ to fly to Seattle.
    To 10c; "Your PJ tshirt should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." - bionicamy
  • PRL1JAMPRL1JAM Posts: 787
    edited August 2011
    So she had someone else pay for her tickets, decided she wasn't going to pay her back, and now she gets to go to PJ20 for free?

    unbelievable
    Post edited by PRL1JAM on
  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    And does anyone else remember how hard, the stress it was, that day to get tickets? I mean really it was hard.

    Anyway she was in Indy that day, no access to interent. She went to Starbucks and tried to log on there, but had a slow connection, so she gave me her info here and let me log in to buy the tickets. So damn not only did I pay for them. I got to live through the stress of the ticket buying! :(
    To 10c; "Your PJ tshirt should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." - bionicamy
  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,724
    no one here can play the judge,this isnt a public court...its a fan forum...this must stays in private..
    so sad some people know all, have opinion ,judge people just cos someone said something about someone else..i understand gossip is fun,but if you ever feel how it is YOU to be the one attacted,people do You a public trial ,then you see if gossip its fun...no matter if you are right or wrong the impressions stays,and this is what the one talks about someone else wants and not to find the solution for the problem,cos cant any find any solution in the forum...
    i hope 10c give the solution , and i m pretty sure the mods here will do the right thing..
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  • ilockyerilockyer Posts: 2,272
    Can you not mail the 10c a copy of your card statement, and your CC number it was paid from? They would be able to match from their records that you made the purchase and, at worst, refund you so you get your money back, even if you don't have 10c tickets?

    This is clearly a messy situation, hope it can be resolved.
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  • bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 16,240
    I thought the Ten Club policy was no refunds? This is just a bad case of a deal blowing up. I don't think the Ten Club should be involved at all.
  • Gary CarterGary Carter Posts: 14,077
    no one here can play the judge,this isnt a public court...its a fan forum...this must stays in private..
    so sad some people know all, have opinion ,judge people just cos someone said something about someone else..i understand gossip is fun,but if you ever feel how it is YOU to be the one attacted,people do You a public trial ,then you see if gossip its fun...no matter if you are right or wrong the impressions stays,and this is what the one talks about someone else wants and not to find the solution for the problem,cos cant any find any solution in the forum...
    i hope 10c give the solution , and i m pretty sure the mods here will do the right thing..
    Is there not enough negativity, bullying, and bullshit drama in everyones lives that people must feed on it here? Seriously. Everybody has been made known of what's going on Mindi. You did YOUR part and contacted 10C. So, your answers can be found there. If that fails, you need to contact people that can actually help you retrieve your money, not bash people on a band's fansite. I'm pretty sure there is MUCH more to both sides.... Let it be. I had a crazy situation with another member as well, but there is a time and a place and select people to involve in the bullshit...... Let's all stop the pity party, circle jerking nastiness and focus on something more positive.

    Let's all grow up.

    very well said

    it's amazing to see the amount of grown adults who still have that high school mentality. so glad i got away from bull shit like this and all.
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  • BhagavadGitaBhagavadGita Posts: 1,748
    Just breath...........

    Please again. I beg the moderators to shut this down. This is nothing but a one sided fight. I have not or will not read her response or anyone else as well. I just want to defend my honor and share a private message I got from another member. Thank you for reading and please join me in stopping this nonsense as this person is and will not communicate with me by phone, which i have encouraged for weeks.

    Sent: Mon Aug 08, 2011 6:17 am

    From: __________

    Question? "Why won't you refund Mindi's money?"

    Answer:

    Mindi promised to pick me up. I have witnesses. I'm on disability. I have bi polar and panic and am not able to drive without her. she promised as a friend to help me and knows i have no money, no car, no support and no confidence in driving alone. Especially when my friend said we would be taking a road trip together so she could use my seats.

    she chose to ride with her friends for some odd reason and now she is ganging up on me like a child and everyone believes her. Mindi is also bi polar so she must be going through something. the ten club is aware of what she is doing. they refuse to refund her money. i ask them to. they also don't transerfer tickets and if you ask me...it feels like she is manipulating a person with a mental illness who is not capable of driving herself on a long road trip and won't come to me to help. which seems logical since i have to pick up tickets. now i can't go either. :cry:

    I wish her well. I wish her happiness but she begged and begged me to go and I said no time and time again. She finally offered to come get me with another friend. Now none of these people with drive a bit out of there way to pick up a unemployed newly seperated single mom who needs to hang out with nice and compassionate people. I am practicing Buddhism, but to be honest this woman has harassed and harassed me to the point i need someone to help me.

    Does not her behavior seem childish to put it on the forum. She can't see she is the problem. I will not get mixed up with this bashing. I don't work like that. I guess I will let a bunch of people hate me..that is her revenge. I will turn the other cheek.

    If you would like to tell my perspective please...feel free. NO one stands up for people that are not capable of war. What would Eddie do? I just wish the ten club would give her the money back. She is going anyway.

    Would you travel and sit with a "friend" that would do this to you? Think about it?

    Thanks for asking me my side. :cry:
  • justamjustam Posts: 21,415
    So, essentially, you feel justified charging her $334 for breaking her promise to give you a ride? :shock:

    That doesn't seem right to me. :?
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  • 8181 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    justam wrote:
    So, essentially, you feel justified charging her $334 for breaking her promise to give you a ride? :shock:

    That doesn't seem right to me. :?


    nothing in this thread seems right.

    the lesson to learn here, IMO, is don't try to cheat the system for better seats by depending on someone else

    it's a sad situation all around
    81 is now off the air

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