Pleasure Theory

norm · June 2011

decides2dream wrote:

norm wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

and sweet bejeebus norm, idk who you hook up with, but if they require HOURS?! my dear sweet friend, if i may...perhaps you ain't doin' something quite right there? :P

well that was the last time i look for dates on a porn set :problem:

errr, yea...i don't really think those are truly designed for pleasure. well except for the viewers. :P

now you tell me! :twisted:

decides2dream · June 2011

norm wrote:

now you tell me! :twisted:

oh dear.... :?

small town beck · June 2011

norm wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

and sweet bejeebus norm, idk who you hook up with, but if they require HOURS?! my dear sweet friend, if i may...perhaps you ain't doin' something quite right there? :P

well that was the last time i look for dates on a porn set :problem:

I told you it wasn't a porn set...we just...er had recording equipment set up. :evil:

decides2dream · June 2011

small town beck wrote:

norm wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

and sweet bejeebus norm, idk who you hook up with, but if they require HOURS?! my dear sweet friend, if i may...perhaps you ain't doin' something quite right there? :P

well that was the last time i look for dates on a porn set :problem:

I told you it wasn't a porn set...we just...er had recording equipment set up. :evil:

omg!!!
tears!

norm · June 2011

small town beck wrote:

norm wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

and sweet bejeebus norm, idk who you hook up with, but if they require HOURS?! my dear sweet friend, if i may...perhaps you ain't doin' something quite right there? :P

well that was the last time i look for dates on a porn set :problem:

I told you it wasn't a porn set...we just...er had recording equipment set up. :evil:

small town beck · June 2011

norm wrote:

ZiggyStar · June 2011

Claireack wrote:

Does a woman hit the big 'O' every time?

Fuck yes! Every time.

ZiggyStar · June 2011

Claireack wrote:

To be honest, I don't mind if he does and I don't. Just as long as it isn't all of the time.

But why? What's the point if you don't O....that's the best part. Sure the beginning and middle is fun too but you've got to O!! What are you building up to? Hell, I feel ripped off if I don't manage at least two Os. Claire, it's all about the O!!

Do you feel really frustrated sometimes because of it? I'd be bouncing off walls if I got all hot and heavy and then failed to finish. Hopefully you're finishing yourself off.

ZiggyStar · June 2011

decides2dream wrote:

And seriously,if your man cant hold off his until you reach your .....well, that's just selfish and rude IMHO. :evil: Everyone gives, everyone gets.....it's the dreaming way...... Happiness for all!

Oh I fucking agree! I like this girl!!!

Claireack · June 2011

What if you are out somewhere? Or you only have a quick 5 mins before your son comes home? I quite like it if we have a quickie against a tree or having a sneaky one before an arrival. In 5 mins I know I'm not going to have an 'O' but it's still fun. I still get pleasure from it. Yes I love a nice relaxing time with an '0' here there and everywhere and I have more than enough to keep me happy.

Maybe I am odd in thinking this, I don't know. Without going into too many details, I find it quite fun to sneak up on hubby when he isn't expecting it and y'know, nudge, nudge, wink, wink. He gets the pleasure but I get pleasure too, maybe from being mischievious, maybe control - I don't know, maybe I am odd. Or maybe there's just more to it than the big 'O' for me. It can just be an experience full of laughing with just an intense bit at the end.

I could waffle on for ages but it's difficult to not say too much and I don't want a smacked wrist.

Mmmmm - my mind is churning now, where has he gone???

polaris_x · June 2011

I'm pretty sure getting to bed at 1 but not actually sleeping til 2:30 last nite had everything to do with pleasure.

i_lov_it · June 2011

paysonites wrote:

What's that one saying. One must pleasure one's self before pleasuring others. Just kidding.

Nothing wrong with Cleaning out the "Pipes" on a regular basis!...lol :P

small town beck · June 2011

I have a bottle of red and some chocolate cupcakes for tonight...now I just need one other ingredient.

locked · June 2011

I recommend that women exclusively seek out and bed men who have been on anti depressants for some time..
like the shirt that Ed wears onstage sometimes that reads :

marathon man

!
BTW
ladies

please keep your pm's to a minimum with only the most basic contact information and photos.
I am only one man but I will provide as many suffered females relief as best I can..

ZiggyStar · June 2011

Claireack wrote:

What if you are out somewhere? Or you only have a quick 5 mins before your son comes home? I quite like it if we have a quickie against a tree or having a sneaky one before an arrival. In 5 mins I know I'm not going to have an 'O' but it's still fun. I still get pleasure from it. Yes I love a nice relaxing time with an '0' here there and everywhere and I have more than enough to keep me happy.

Hmmm....personally, if I knew there wasn't enough time, I'd probably opt for a BJ instead of a 5 min quickie where I didn't finish. Can't O in 5 mins? Did you know that if you self pleasured more, you would probably learn to have quicker Os? Then you could squeeze two or three or even four in! Yay!

pandora · June 2011

Claireack wrote:

What if you are out somewhere? Or you only have a quick 5 mins before your son comes home? I quite like it if we have a quickie against a tree or having a sneaky one before an arrival. In 5 mins I know I'm not going to have an 'O' but it's still fun. I still get pleasure from it. Yes I love a nice relaxing time with an '0' here there and everywhere and I have more than enough to keep me happy.

Maybe I am odd in thinking this, I don't know. Without going into too many details, I find it quite fun to sneak up on hubby when he isn't expecting it and y'know, nudge, nudge, wink, wink. He gets the pleasure but I get pleasure too, maybe from being mischievious, maybe control - I don't know, maybe I am odd. Or maybe there's just more to it than the big 'O' for me. It can just be an experience full of laughing with just an intense bit at the end.

I could waffle on for ages but it's difficult to not say too much and I don't want a smacked wrist.

Mmmmm - my mind is churning now, where has he gone???

Great post :thumbup: and I so get this 8-)

its all good and its all fun and it all about the bonding

Drowned Out · June 2011

decides2dream wrote:

Drowned Out wrote:

Aaaaaand this thread is exactly why d2d has been so sorely missed.....she's the queen of girls vs boys relationship/sex threads! And those threads always made the AET more fun.
I didn't think this one was headed in that direction, but the comment above me is making me think otherwise

Hey now, how is this a boy vs. Girl thread?
I actually was suggesting, as is the pleasure theory....that were all on the same page here and have one goal when it comes tosexual relations....pleasure! Now I am not out to define. What that pleasure may be for everyone, but yea......

That's why I said I didn't think it was headed that way...but then again,this is still the kind of topic you often posted in the past....by girl vs boy, I meant youre threads often questioned roles in relationships, the differences between genders, and are sexually charged enough to be interesting, but not so much that they get locked

And I have to agree that sex isnt' always about the O. I mean, it's obviously the best part. but it's not like sex isn't worth having if one or both don't get off. imo anyway. And the pleasure theory is common sense if you ask me...any creature that is self aware, even at the most basic level, is going to repeat acts that result in pleasure, for pleasure...the most influential difference between male and female sex drives, imo, is the differences in the repercussions - namely the threat of pregnancy and of sti's. I would hope that men are also evolving - to take more responsibility for their roles in those repercussions, for themselves and their partners....

small town beck · June 2011

Drowned Out wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

Drowned Out wrote:

Aaaaaand this thread is exactly why d2d has been so sorely missed.....she's the queen of girls vs boys relationship/sex threads! And those threads always made the AET more fun.
I didn't think this one was headed in that direction, but the comment above me is making me think otherwise

Hey now, how is this a boy vs. Girl thread?
I actually was suggesting, as is the pleasure theory....that were all on the same page here and have one goal when it comes tosexual relations....pleasure! Now I am not out to define. What that pleasure may be for everyone, but yea......

That's why I said I didn't think it was headed that way...but then again,this is still the kind of topic you often posted in the past....by girl vs boy, I meant youre threads often questioned roles in relationships, the differences between genders, and are sexually charged enough to be interesting, but not so much that they get locked

And I have to agree that sex isnt' always about the O. I mean, it's obviously the best part. but it's not like sex isn't worth having if one or both don't get off. imo anyway. And the pleasure theory is common sense if you ask me...any creature that is self aware, even at the most basic level, is going to repeat acts that result in pleasure, for pleasure...the most influential difference between male and female sex drives, imo, is the differences in the repercussions - namely the threat of pregnancy and of sti's. I would hope that men are also evolving - to take more responsibility for their roles in those repercussions, for themselves and their partners....

And this is why you remain one of my all time faves

ZiggyStar · June 2011

Drowned Out wrote:

And I have to agree that sex isnt' always about the O. I mean, it's obviously the best part. but it's not like sex isn't worth having if one or both don't get off.

I'd prefer to not have it than get all pent up and not finish....wouldn't you be horny as fuck all day long or until you next get to O? If I even wake up really horny and can't do anything about it, it ruins my concentration for the entire day....my brain just doesn't stop thinking about sex and I start daydreaming. It's not like it just goes away (for me anyway)....that sexual build up stays there and frustrates the hell out of me. And this is precisely why if I can't O from sex or didn't have enough Os (because sometimes one just doesn't do it....I'm sure I'm not alone on this one), I'll make myself O at the end....otherwise I turn into a bitch! :twisted:

Claireack · June 2011

Zig - I guess it all comes down to horses for courses. Everyone is different and everyones needs are different and hopefully we all meet someone that meets those needs. I think I have and it sounds like you have too. Although I will consider the practising on my own although I think if hubby knew that was what i was up to I might have an audience

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