Pleasure Theory

Claireack

I don't know if it's conditioning, but I feel odd if I 'you know' and he doesn't. Happened recently and I felt really guilty (I will say it was voluntarily on his part). Didn't feel right at all. However, that doesn't seem to be the case other way round. To be honest, I don't mind if he does and I don't. Just as long as it isn't all of the time.

I do wish there was a nudge, nudge, wink, wink smilie.

of.the.girl

Claireack wrote:

I don't know if it's conditioning, but I feel odd if I 'you know' and he doesn't. Happened recently and I felt really guilty (I will say it was voluntarily on his part). Didn't feel right at all. However, that doesn't seem to be the case other way round. To be honest, I don't mind if he does and I don't. Just as long as it isn't all of the time.

I do wish there was a nudge, nudge, wink, wink smilie.

my other half pulls that "conditioning" shit out all the time....I say bullshit. Plus, do you think a guy feels guilty when he's and we get the :( :? i doubt it...but then again I can be wrong. There might be that one or select few men.

RKCNDY

sometimes I'd rather...'you know' he's almost ...and I just say 'oh! I'm done! nighty night!' roll over and go to sleep....leave him feeling... :evil:

of.the.girl

RKCNDY wrote:

sometimes I'd rather...'you know' he's almost ...and I just say 'oh! I'm done! nighty night!' roll over and go to sleep....leave him feeling... :evil:

I've done that...and let me tell you...They think twice when they do it to us. at least sometimes in my case.

of.the.girl

here's a question....are there men out there that can "keep it going" and hold off on their until the other party has their and then have their own
just curious.

of.the.girl

I should clarify that the is their "O" face.

decides2dream

Claireack wrote:

Ummmmm ....

I think some people have sex to fulfil their emotional needs. Does a woman hit the big 'O' every time? Isn't their pleasure in just giving someone else pleasure.

I think I'll shut up, I don't really know where I'm going.

sure.
isn't that, for some anyway, a part of pleasure?
i think the whole point is simply pointing out, men, women, we go for it for pleasure....not the old attitude. or at least, that is the theory brought up, and i personally agree to it....b/c yes, it is exactly how i am. haha.

and errr, well.......yes. every time. otherwise, what's the point? hahahahahaha. (eh, in a lifetime of it, sure, not. every. single. time.....but......damn near close to it. think too that shows we all have different things/ideas of what constitutes 'pleasure'....thing is tho, we're still persuing pleasure when going for sex. and sure, making someone else happy is a pleasure....but giving and getting is even better.

mca47

sheila0225 wrote:

here's a question....are there men out there that can "keep it going" and hold off on their until the other party has their and then have their own
just curious.

Indeed.
I've got pretty good control over most of the time...well, some of the time.
After a couple of drinks, the can be delayed for a good amount of time.

small town beck

mca47 wrote:

sheila0225 wrote:

here's a question....are there men out there that can "keep it going" and hold off on their until the other party has their and then have their own
just curious.

Indeed.
I've got pretty good control over most of the time...well, some of the time.
After a couple of drinks, the can be delayed for a good amount of time.

How you doin'?

RKCNDY

small town beck wrote:

mca47 wrote:

sheila0225 wrote:

here's a question....are there men out there that can "keep it going" and hold off on their until the other party has their and then have their own
just curious.

Indeed.
I've got pretty good control over most of the time...well, some of the time.
After a couple of drinks, the can be delayed for a good amount of time.

How you doin'?

nice to know some guys actually do 'care' about their partner!

Drowned Out

Aaaaaand this thread is exactly why d2d has been so sorely missed.....she's the queen of girls vs boys relationship/sex threads! And those threads always made the AET more fun.
I didn't think this one was headed in that direction, but the comment above me is making me think otherwise

mca47

RKCNDY wrote:

nice to know some guys actually do 'care' about their partner!

Even if is quick, you'd think he'd find other means to get to ....Hahahaha, I couldn't figure out the smiley that was on my mind...

mca47

:-p or is it ...

You get the idea!

RKCNDY

mca47 wrote:

:-p or is it ...

You get the idea!

it would be (the second one...with capital 'P') but in smiley it looks like :P but this more accurately 'looks' like it :think: just ignore the shifty eyes...

I'm loving how this conversation can be conducted with smileys, and no words that would result in a locking/banning....

decides2dream

Drowned Out wrote:

Aaaaaand this thread is exactly why d2d has been so sorely missed.....she's the queen of girls vs boys relationship/sex threads! And those threads always made the AET more fun.
I didn't think this one was headed in that direction, but the comment above me is making me think otherwise

Hey now, how is this a boy vs. Girl thread?
I actually was suggesting, as is the pleasure theory....that were all on the same page here and have one goal when it comes tosexual relations....pleasure! Now I am not out to define. What that pleasure may be for everyone, but yea......



And seriously,if your man cant hold off his until you reach your .....well, that's just selfish and rude IMHO. :evil: Everyone gives, everyone gets.....it's the dreaming way...... Happiness for all!

norm

decides2dream wrote:

And seriously,if your man cant hold off his until you reach your .....well, that's just selfish and rude IMHO. :evil: Everyone gives, everyone gets.....it's the dreaming way...... Happiness for all!

OR

you ladies can move it along! help out, will ya?!!

:P


btw, this thread needs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aiHxIdkjA5U

small town beck

norm wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

And seriously,if your man cant hold off his until you reach your .....well, that's just selfish and rude IMHO. :evil: Everyone gives, everyone gets.....it's the dreaming way...... Happiness for all!

OR

you ladies can move it along! help out, will ya?!!

:P


btw, this thread needs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aiHxIdkjA5U

I do my part, thank you very much

Thanks for the video

decides2dream

small town beck wrote:

norm wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

And seriously,if your man cant hold off his until you reach your .....well, that's just selfish and rude IMHO. :evil: Everyone gives, everyone gets.....it's the dreaming way...... Happiness for all!

OR

you ladies can move it along! help out, will ya?!!

:P


btw, this thread needs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aiHxIdkjA5U

I do my part, thank you very much

Thanks for the video

i LOVE that scene!
and sweet bejeebus norm, idk who you hook up with, but if they require HOURS?! my dear sweet friend, if i may...perhaps you ain't doin' something quite right there? :P

norm

decides2dream wrote:

and sweet bejeebus norm, idk who you hook up with, but if they require HOURS?! my dear sweet friend, if i may...perhaps you ain't doin' something quite right there? :P

well that was the last time i look for dates on a porn set :problem:

decides2dream

norm wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

and sweet bejeebus norm, idk who you hook up with, but if they require HOURS?! my dear sweet friend, if i may...perhaps you ain't doin' something quite right there? :P

well that was the last time i look for dates on a porn set :problem:

errr, yea...i don't really think those are truly designed for pleasure. well except for the viewers. :P