My job-nightshift, depression and a change of pace

How about a job as a pussy because after you report me to the mods you will have
some experience in that field.

In the real world, employers don't really care what you want. They (rightfully so), want what's best for their business.

It's gonna be tough finding a job that'll give you everything you're looking for, especially if it's not a "career" job. Working in stores and such isn't generally considered to be a career.

Also, not to sound rude, but, it sounds to me like your work ethic is not so great. First job ever was after college? Most of the people on this board probably worked, or are working, their way through school. It's tough to find sympathy from people who have worked harder than you and don't have the luxuries you claim to have (ie. getting a free ride through school, saving up money while you're working, etc.). I'm not trying to be a dick here, and I'm actually happy for you that you've gotten such great opportunities. It just seems like, judging by your post, you're a bit ungrateful and you don't really understand the plight of an average person.

It also sounds like you are a bit selfish and don't understand that other people have worked in the same place as you for longer, and deserve to get the better shifts. Your inability to take criticism and hear difficult truths will not make this any easier. Report me all you want for this post, as I am not trying to be rude, but trying to help you understand that just because you want something, doesn't mean you can have it. You're an adult, and, this is something you have to learn. Had you worked at a younger age, you might have a clearer understanding of this now.

My hobbies are Jiu Jitsu and boxing, and they're very important to me, but, work comes first for most people. Right now I'm stuck in the middle of a 48-hour shift. I didn't have a say in working the 48 hours, as I was mandatoried. I'd love to be boxing or grappling instead, but, fuck it man, I've got bills to pay and I need my job.

My advice would be, get some counseling. If you think you're depressed, the PJ message board isn't your answer. You need professional help for this. Also, if your art is truly that important to you, I'm going to assume you're good at whatever art you do. Make that your career. Seriously, that might be the only thing that makes you happy.

Finally, at a time when many people are struggling simply to find a job in any field, or keep jobs they've held for 20+ years, you're here complaining that your employers aren't being fair to you. How many people are being laid off in this economy, and you're quitting your job because your employers aren't sensitive enough to your long list of demands. Good luck.

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

First time I have seen you make a serious post

I just thought exactly the same thing!

To be honest, I'm tired of hearing people complain about jobs like working in a supermarket causing them "depression."

I come home from work sometimes and sit in my bed in silence, trying to erase images of mangled bodies out of my head from my job.

Social workers see all kinds of abuse and neglect. Nurses and doctors and Firemen and cops see horrific things. So on and so forth, and you have people getting depressed because they can't have better shifts at a grocery store. A dose of reality is what people need.

I mean, I know, I chose my career path. Also, all jobs can be stressful and difficult, but come on. Working nights in a grocery store is the kind of second job I'd go pick up to make an extra bunch of money in the Summer to go away in the Winter. I can't understand how this kid is depressed from this. He needs counseling.

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

Johnny America = Dr Phil

I was thinking of joining the Police force but I don't think I could cope with attending accident scenes.

Cops don't do shit on accident scenes except for direct traffic. We're the ones that do the tough part.

Still, being a cop is a lot more difficult than being a Fireman.

johnny america wrote:

To be honest, I'm tired of hearing people complain about jobs like working in a supermarket causing them "depression."

I come home from work sometimes and sit in my bed in silence, trying to erase images of mangled bodies out of my head from my job.

Social workers see all kinds of abuse and neglect. Nurses and doctors and Firemen and cops see horrific things. So on and so forth, and you have people getting depressed because they can't have better shifts at a grocery store. A dose of reality is what people need.

I mean, I know, I chose my career path. Also, all jobs can be stressful and difficult, but come on. Working nights in a grocery store is the kind of second job I'd go pick up to make an extra bunch of money in the Summer to go away in the Winter. I can't understand how this kid is depressed from this. He needs counseling.

OP, if you think it's bad now, you're going to be in for a fucking shock over the next decade. This is life -- doing shit you don't want to do....and not being able to do shit you really want to do.

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

OP stated "If you wish to judge me or make fun of me, please go elsewhere. I will report rude comments to the Mods. Im very serious about this."

Johnny and Ziggy, expect to hear from Kat

How is what I wrote "judging or making fun" of him?? I'm just telling him the facts.

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

He could see it as judging, just saying.

I'm sure he will....he's seems like the sensitive type.

johnny america wrote:

Ziggy and I are a united front, always.

How can I resist your pretty face?

Thoughts_Arrive wrote:

I see a romance beckoning!
Yesterdays Johnny America is tomorrows Johnny Townsville!

haha Johnny Townsville....has a nice ring to it!