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bren_cocol wrote:

blenderman69 wrote:

bren_cocol wrote:

Yes me too...I am so tired,Uffff I just wanna sleep during 45454 days

?????what are 45454 days?

Well here in my country it's really normal say 45454 days XD it's like say: I wanna sleep lot offff days.Now do you understand ?

i do now thanks for explaining it to me.i've never been the brightest bulb in the box

I learned something useful from teaching and observing a group of people this week--> it's more helpful to be honestly critical of people than to be too kind. They put out more effort. People don't feel they need to do their best unless they're pushed. :geek: It's a mistake to be too soft.

Well here in my country it's really normal say 45454 days XD it's like say: I wanna sleep lot offff days.Now do you understand ?[/quote]
bye the way welcome to the jamily :crazy: :wave:[/quote]

Thank so you much I am glad to be here

it's been soooo long since i felt this way... but... right now... i really don't like you! :twisted:

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

sign on
sign off
sign on
sign off
text
don't respond
text
go silent
ask my schedule
don't make plans
sweet words
smile
make me swoon
you know what you're doing to me
don't you ?

It's official- Men Suck......

ms. wes c.addle wrote:

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

sign on
sign off
sign on
sign off
text
don't respond
text
go silent
ask my schedule
don't make plans
sweet words
smile
make me swoon
you know what you're doing to me
don't you ?

It's official- Men Suck......

no shit.

for a few months everytime we'd run into each other...
mr. kind, smart, attractive, funny, affectionate
tells me he's single divorced...w/ kids eow-end"
then a few weeks ago
asks for my numbers + e-mail
a few calls...lovely convos
a couple nice, flirty IMs
third IM...going nicely...
sudden log off.
doesn't log back on.
dead give away that wifey/gf just walked in
next day casually ask one of his co-workers just to confirm his status
he and his wife & kids are still together "happily" married
he calls...tries to say "the power went out" :shifty:
"save it for your wife...bye."



guess some guys think chics are too dumb to get it? or they figure that they're just sooo great that a chic won't care that he's married and just playing her? :roll:


whatever the reason...i'm not gonna be a side dish

Every relationship is a power struggle. Most people don’t see it that way, but really it is. No two people are the same, therefore one has to be the
dominant one in the relationship. This goes for friends, siblings, whatever,..
Nothing is 50/50, and those that say a relationship is 50/50 are full of it. It can be close, it can be 49/51 but nothing is equal. We aren’t built that way.

My point? If the men in your “relationships” suck, it’s because you have relinquished control over the relationship to him. You have in some way
given him the upper hand. Take it back, or move on.

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

the wolf wrote:

My point? If the men in your “relationships” suck, it’s because you have relinquished control over the relationship to him. You have in some way
given him the upper hand. Take it back, or move on.

Oh I so have done this..... and for good reason. Though I just can't help but yearn for more, but you can't squeeze water from a stone... even I know that.

well, at least you know you have. good luck B.

Just wondering - where is everyone looking for Love, not everyone can be jerks out there. I refuse to believe it.

mikalina wrote:

Just wondering - where is everyone looking for Love, not everyone can be jerks out there. I refuse to believe it.

I wouldn't qualify them as jerks, just not in the same place as I am.