Ladies, would you do this to a guy?

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  • AtlantaJammer
    AtlantaJammer Posts: 2,611
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Go on 7 or 8 dates with him, really good dates, the last date make plans yourself for future dates, borrow his movies, but then barely communicate with him for over a month now?

    Granted she took a two week vacation on the other side of the world and her job has been working her crazy hours, but a simple text, "hey, hows it going" or a response to a "hey, how's it going" text would suffice.. She texted me once since when she got back over two weeks ago saying she wanted to go as soon as work wasn't working her crazy. That's our communication for the month. :?

    Does this mean I'm shit out of luck? Time to move to the next fish?

    Sometimes I just don't understand human behavior.


    Atleast baseball season is only a couple weeks away!
  • Starfall
    Starfall Posts: 548
    scb wrote:
    He should move on when he feels like moving on, not because of some preconceived notion of what her busy work schedule means about her feelings for him. Of course, I guess "responding favorably" could mean different things. Sounds to me like she's been responding favorably by telling him she wants to get together as soon as she's available.

    Exactly. However, only he can decide what is or isn't right for him - I certainly don't intend for him to follow a strict formula, and I regret any such inferences I may have made.
    Also, what does her being on anxiety meds have to do with HIM getting hung up over her not contacting him?

    He mentioned a few things - including that - which seem to suggest codependent behavior on his part. I recognized a few of the symptoms listed here, and here. This does not imply a diagnosis of any sort, however, as I am not a qualified therapist or psychiatrist.
    "It's not hard to own something. Or everything. You just have to know that it's yours, and then be willing to let it go." - Neil Gaiman, "Stardust"
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    AtlantaJammer wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Go on 7 or 8 dates with him, really good dates, the last date make plans yourself for future dates, borrow his movies, but then barely communicate with him for over a month now?

    Granted she took a two week vacation on the other side of the world and her job has been working her crazy hours, but a simple text, "hey, hows it going" or a response to a "hey, how's it going" text would suffice.. She texted me once since when she got back over two weeks ago saying she wanted to go as soon as work wasn't working her crazy. That's our communication for the month. :?

    Does this mean I'm shit out of luck? Time to move to the next fish?

    Sometimes I just don't understand human behavior.


    Atleast baseball season is only a couple weeks away!
    Well thank god!


    Can this thread die now. 8-)
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Can this thread die now. 8-)

    Okay - sorry & good luck! :)
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    scb wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Can this thread die now. 8-)

    Okay - sorry & good luck! :)
    I hope so.. three weeks now though. I have my doubts. It's not that I need to call her and express to her how I feel. She was a good looking and funny girl, but I will move on.. Its just the mixed signals, and me trying to figure out why people act the way they do.. I don't play games and I don't like to be part of them.. If she wants to hang out again, trust me, she will have some explaining to do, just so I know what page we'd be on.
  • Franny
    Franny Posts: 2,054
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    I wouldnt call her again...
    I wouldnt text her again...
    I wouldnt e-mail her again......

    I just wouldnt give a fuck about her again.....

    Then, if I were you, I would try my best, to fuck one of her best friends......
    lol, I agree.

    It seems like I can't get a break in the love department lately. I'm 31, funny, good looks, have lots of friends, all of whom can't believe I'm still single. It's become a joke with them.

    Maybe the fact that this girl is on heavy anti-depressants and anxiety meds plays into her actions. I sure know how to pick the ones to chase after. :?


    Thank god its Friday and thank god for alcohol! 8-)


    Fuck it! The good ones are always married or one the wrong side of world!!! LOL :lol: ...oooh and drink up!
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    sounds like she joebucked you :lol:
    81 is now off the air

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  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,051
    So???

    Whats up???

    Any news???????????

    Has she disappeared forever????
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    So???

    Whats up???

    Any news???????????

    Has she disappeared forever????
    Can't you let this thread die, Speedy?

    No. Nothing. I gave up. She can keep my stupid movies.
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    So???

    Whats up???

    Any news???????????

    Has she disappeared forever????
    Can't you let this thread die, Speedy?

    No. Nothing. I gave up. She can keep my stupid movies.


    wow really??

    that sucks man
  • SPEEDY MCCREADY
    SPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 27,051
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    So???

    Whats up???

    Any news???????????

    Has she disappeared forever????
    Can't you let this thread die, Speedy?

    No. Nothing. I gave up. She can keep my stupid movies.
    Hey...

    Im sorry....

    Was just my way of saying "whats up???"........

    Sorry.....
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • Ms. Wes C.addle
    Ms. Wes C.addle Posts: 2,559
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    So???

    Whats up???

    Any news???????????

    Has she disappeared forever????
    Can't you let this thread die, Speedy?

    No. Nothing. I gave up. She can keep my stupid movies.
    Hey...

    Im sorry....

    Was just my way of saying "whats up???"........

    Sorry.....
    Salt. Wound. ;)
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    So???

    Whats up???

    Any news???????????

    Has she disappeared forever????
    Can't you let this thread die, Speedy?

    No. Nothing. I gave up. She can keep my stupid movies.
    Hey...

    Im sorry....

    Was just my way of saying "whats up???"........

    Sorry.....
    No, it's cool. I'm not upset about it. Just was really confused for a while. Thrown off a little.. It's my fault, because given the situation I told myself from the beginning it probably wouldn't go anywhere. At some point I think I just believed otherwise and then the reality of the situation finally came.
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Can't you let this thread die, Speedy?

    No. Nothing. I gave up. She can keep my stupid movies.
    Hey...

    Im sorry....

    Was just my way of saying "whats up???"........

    Sorry.....
    No, it's cool. I'm not upset about it. Just was really confused for a while. Thrown off a little.. It's my fault, because given the situation I told myself from the beginning it probably wouldn't go anywhere. At some point I think I just believed otherwise and then the reality of the situation finally came.

    What were the movies? Maybe we should all pitch in and replace them for you.... Speedy first! ;)
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    No, it's cool. I'm not upset about it. Just was really confused for a while. Thrown off a little.. It's my fault, because given the situation I told myself from the beginning it probably wouldn't go anywhere. At some point I think I just believed otherwise and then the reality of the situation finally came.


    well it's her loss

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