Is it bad..

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  • I was just joking ;)
    But it all depends on the kind of girl she is. I actually don't like it if a guy drinks alcohol before a date. I don't drink any myself.
  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    Stonerlady wrote:
    I was just joking ;)
    But it all depends on the kind of girl she is. I actually don't like it if a guy drinks alcohol before a date. I don't drink any myself.


    And you're from Germany?

    What about those big litre beers? We have a German bar/restaurant here in Sydney called the lowenbrau, I' love those beers, And some apple schnapps, yum yum yum. Not to mention the nice German meat, saurkraut and mashed kartoffle :). .

    Next time I go on a date, I am going to the lowenbrau :)
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  • Really, Löwenbrau (in Germany it's written with a 'ö' which is a special letter)??? It's not very popular in Germany as it's a real big brewery. We got a lot of small breweries everywhere which are way more popular. especially in my town there's Europe's largest beer festival - I only have to walk about 2 minutes to get ther. But I don't like beer or any alcohol. but that's something about my past.
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    dunkman wrote:
    its quite an easy mistake to make... i used to see a girl called Julie... but i always spelled it "fucktoy"

    wow ! I think I dated her a few times too.... weird.
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  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    pjfan31 wrote:
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Stonerlady wrote:
    Still bad. Sorry. Maybe I'm a weird woman, but I wouldn't want to wait so long if I like a guy...

    Me either....but if she was keen, there's nothing stopping her from initiating the first move! Doesn't always have to be up to the guy!


    I like your thinking, I like it when a girl makes the first move.

    AS for not kissing her. If you met her in a gay bar, and its 5 dates, dude, maybe she's going to start thinking 'Maybe there was a reason I met this guy in a gay bar, maybe he's gay'
    Again, technically last night was date 3. I wouldn't count it as 4 because we met in person for the first time briefly for date one with a bunch of people. Loud music, very little talking.
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    to have a really awesome date with a girl, but then spell her name wrong while texting her on the way home after dropping her off?


    8-)


    Epic fail.

    She'll forgive me, right? lol.


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  • JD Sal
    JD Sal Posts: 790
    Careful, if you haven't kissed her by date 4 or 5, you're treading water in the 'friend pool' and you may not be able to swim out of it.
    "If no one sees you, you're not here at all"
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    the american dating system is kinda strange to us UK'ers.. dates and meals and cinema.. perhaps a kiss, perhaps not.. all the stuff with bases.

    basically in Britain if you're not humping each other by 3am on the first night then it just isnt gonna work out! :thumbup:
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    dunkman wrote:
    the american dating system is kinda strange to us UK'ers.. dates and meals and cinema.. perhaps a kiss, perhaps not.. all the stuff with bases.

    basically in Britain if you're not humping each other by 3am on the first night then it just isnt gonna work out! :thumbup:

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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    to have a really awesome date with a girl, but then spell her name wrong while texting her on the way home after dropping her off?


    8-)


    Epic fail.

    She'll forgive me, right? lol.


    nah, no biggie. you're texting!
    i am one of the world's worst typists. i am an excellent speller, and yet i am utterly dyslexic when i type. :oops:
    next time tho, just give a quick review of your message before you hit send. :D
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  • peacegirl
    peacegirl Posts: 841
    pjfan31 wrote:
    I was with a girl once. HEr name was Rachael. I always spelt it Rachel. Not intentionally, but she was getting annoyed with it.

    She was a little boring. When I started yawning when she was talking to me, I decided that this bird is not for me. And I was on my bike.

    :lol: that's funny...my name is Rachel but people always want to spell it Rachael
  • QuarterToTen
    QuarterToTen Cincinnati, Ohio Posts: 3,652
    hopefully you'll both end up laughing about it.

    a sense of humor is everything in a relationship.
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  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    dunkman wrote:
    its quite an easy mistake to make... i used to see a girl called Julie... but i always spelled it "fucktoy"
    dunkman wrote:
    the american dating system is kinda strange to us UK'ers.. dates and meals and cinema.. perhaps a kiss, perhaps not.. all the stuff with bases.

    basically in Britain if you're not humping each other by 3am on the first night then it just isnt gonna work out! :thumbup:

    Have we met before? You sound so familiar.

    Julie
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    Claireack wrote:
    dunkman wrote:
    its quite an easy mistake to make... i used to see a girl called Julie... but i always spelled it "fucktoy"
    dunkman wrote:
    the american dating system is kinda strange to us UK'ers.. dates and meals and cinema.. perhaps a kiss, perhaps not.. all the stuff with bases.

    basically in Britain if you're not humping each other by 3am on the first night then it just isnt gonna work out! :thumbup:

    Have we met before? You sound so familiar.

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  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    Yes, many times, you'll often find me hanging around with an old ruin or two. :D
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    to have a really awesome date with a girl, but then spell her name wrong while texting her on the way home after dropping her off?


    8-)


    Epic fail.

    She'll forgive me, right? lol.


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  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    blame it on the phone and doing whilst driving on the way home. As long as it was the right name just spelt wrong. :D

    all will be forgiven, have faith
    I did, and texted her I was driving and blamed it on that.. I misplaced a "c" with a "k"..


    Another question.. is it wrong date 4 was the best yet, and she's already planned date 5, and talking about date 12 and 13, but we haven't even kissed yet?

    Why don't You STOP "Stressing" enjoy it and JUST go with the Flowwwww...:)
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    eyedclaar wrote:
    dunkman wrote:
    the american dating system is kinda strange to us UK'ers.. dates and meals and cinema.. perhaps a kiss, perhaps not.. all the stuff with bases.

    basically in Britain if you're not humping each other by 3am on the first night then it just isnt gonna work out! :thumbup:

    Get in and out before sobriety rears its ugly head?

    pretty much. Now that i think of it... my closest friends all met their ladies in a pub or club... not one of them went on dates.

    I dont think the UK does the dating thing... not to the extent of you guys anyway.
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    Claireack wrote:
    dunkman wrote:
    its quite an easy mistake to make... i used to see a girl called Julie... but i always spelled it "fucktoy"
    dunkman wrote:
    the american dating system is kinda strange to us UK'ers.. dates and meals and cinema.. perhaps a kiss, perhaps not.. all the stuff with bases.

    basically in Britain if you're not humping each other by 3am on the first night then it just isnt gonna work out! :thumbup:

    Have we met before? You sound so familiar.

    Julie

    fucktoy... you've come back!!! :wave:
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • inlet13
    inlet13 Posts: 1,979
    Dude, you got to kiss her on the next date. Not trying to be a pain in the ass, but it's weird to not have kissed her by the fourth/sixth date. She may thinking that too... and if she's cool/cute but shy... she may not be use to having to make the first move. She's leaving it up to you.

    I can see date one or two ending with hugs, but eventually you need to kiss her. Next date, make it a point to get her in a position at the end of the night where you can kiss her good-bye. End of story.

    Ironically, this happened to me with my wife. On our first date, we hugged good-bye. Our second date, same deal... I went home pissed I didn't kiss her. On the third date, we were meeting at a bar she was with her friends... I was hanging with my friends having a few beers before hand and told them I haven't kissed her. They told me it was a must to kiss her that night, or I could kiss the relationship good-bye. So, after doing some shots, we ended up hooking up at a bar. I'm not that type of person (bar hookup type), and neither is she, but that's how much I forced the issue. Anyway, I married this chick...

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