Is it bad..

LikeAnOcean

inlet13 wrote:

Dude, you got to kiss her on the next date. Not trying to be a pain in the ass, but it's weird to not have kissed her by the fourth/sixth date. She may thinking that too... and if she's cool/cute but shy... she may not be use to having to make the first move. She's leaving it up to you.

I can see date one or two ending with hugs, but eventually you need to kiss her. Next date, make it a point to get her in a position at the end of the night where you can kiss her good-bye. End of story.

Ironically, this happened to me with my wife. On our first date, we hugged good-bye. Our second date, same deal... I went home pissed I didn't kiss her. On the third date, we were meeting at a bar she was with her friends... I was hanging with my friends having a few beers before hand and told them I haven't kissed her. They told me it was a must to kiss her that night, or I could kiss the relationship good-bye. So, after doing some shots, we ended up hooking up at a bar. I'm not that type of person (bar hookup type), and neither is she, but that's how much I forced the issue. Anyway, I married this chick...

... so it works. Do it. Just do it.

lol, well so far evenings have pretty much ended passing out drunk with her friends.. so the opportunity hasn't really been there.. last night she was tired and hopped out of my car after discussing the next date before I could even move in. lol.. soon!

81

couple things to review

no kiss by date 3/4 = failure. you should have gone in for the kiss by date 2

talking about date 11/12 when you have only been on 4/5 dates = red flag for crazy/needy woman

texting while driving = failure. you don't call a girl on the way home from a date. you call her the next day. this is worse than drunk dialing.

texting while driving = double failure. i hope you get a ticket. really. while driving you need to pay attention to what's on the road.

LikeAnOcean

81 wrote:

couple things to review

no kiss by date 3/4 = failure. you should have gone in for the kiss by date 2

talking about date 11/12 when you have only been on 4/5 dates = red flag for crazy/needy woman

texting while driving = failure. you don't call a girl on the way home from a date. you call her the next day. this is worse than drunk dialing.

texting while driving = double failure. i hope you get a ticket. really. while driving you need to pay attention to what's on the road.

She texted me.. I was responding. I know, I usually don't text and drive. No one else was on the road anyhow.


I'm not sure why I'm even asking for advice here. I know I'm doing the right thing. She hasn't even given me the opportunity to kiss her yet, so I'm on her pace. People who put rules and standards on this stuff are no fun sheep anyhow. I've made out with women on first dates. I know what I'm doing. Thanks for the professional advice though. :P

81

LikeAnOcean wrote:

81 wrote:

couple things to review

no kiss by date 3/4 = failure. you should have gone in for the kiss by date 2

talking about date 11/12 when you have only been on 4/5 dates = red flag for crazy/needy woman

texting while driving = failure. you don't call a girl on the way home from a date. you call her the next day. this is worse than drunk dialing.

texting while driving = double failure. i hope you get a ticket. really. while driving you need to pay attention to what's on the road.

She texted me.. I was responding.


I'm not sure why I'm even asking for advice here. I know I'm doing the right thing. She hasn't even given me the opportunity to kiss her yet, so I'm on her pace. People who put rules and standards on this stuff are no fun sheep anyhow. I've made out with women on first dates. I know what I'm doing. Thanks for the professional advice though. :P

just because she texted you, doesn't mean you have to reply while driving around. it's ok to put the phone down until you get home. really it is. the world isn't going to stop if you don't text her back for 15 minutes or whatever while you are driving.

if you know what you are doing, why are you asking for adivce. we all understand relationships move at different paces, however, non moving in for the kiss now is troubling. date 3 is the max

Random_Wookie

just do it and stop over thinking it, whats the worst that can happen?

mr.pink

Next date could be a six pack at your place or her place, and start the kissing after beer one. And that kiss needs to be... one that doesn't want to stop. Since you've gone slow, you can go from zero to 100 all at once, like you can't hold it in any longer. Don't do some unpassionate "kiss good-bye" thing, make sure she knows the kissing/ groping/ ect is what you're all about. Its time, dude :!:

LikeAnOcean

Random_Wookie wrote:

just do it and stop over thinking it, whats the worst that can happen?

Wow, how did the focus of this thread shift? I'm not over thinking about it. The moment just hasn't arrived. Besides the original point of this thread, I was just asking if anyone thought that was odd.. Obviously I don't care about everyone's opinions anymore because everyone seems to have expectations and guidelines they follow when living their lives.

Wether you kiss them before you "meet" them or 10 dates in, who gives a fuck.

I'll let everyone know how I knocked her up on date 4.5

DeLukin

Here's what you do: On your next date, ask her if she has any hot friends that you can call. She'll be all over you like flies on jelly... chicks dig it when you make them jealous. Trust me.

LikeAnOcean

DeLukin wrote:

Here's what you do: On your next date, ask her if she has any hot friends that you can call. She'll be all over you like flies on jelly... chicks dig it when you make them jealous. Trust me.

lol.. ok this thread needs to die. Too many pervs on this board.

Random_Wookie

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Random_Wookie wrote:

just do it and stop over thinking it, whats the worst that can happen?

Wow, how did the focus of this thread shift? I'm not over thinking about it. The moment just hasn't arrived. Besides the original point of this thread, I was just asking if anyone thought that was odd.. Obviously I don't care about everyone's opinions anymore because everyone seems to have expectations and guidelines they follow when living their lives.

Wether you kiss them before you "meet" them or 10 dates in, who gives a fuck.

I'll let everyone know how I knocked her up on date 4.5

it has shifted focus, but perhaps it may be peremptive on your next thread is it bad that we havent had sex

DeLukin

LikeAnOcean wrote:

lol.. ok this thread needs to die. Too many pervs on this board.

Ok, how about this one: on your next date ask her if she has any hot friends that I can call...

mr.pink

DeLukin wrote:

LikeAnOcean wrote:

lol.. ok this thread needs to die. Too many pervs on this board.

Ok, how about this one: on your next date ask her if she has any hot friends that I can call...

no shit!

Dude, we're just reading your business and all thinking that you're on the road to fucking this up and not getting any from this "ten". No matter how, "shy" or "smart" or "good" she is, she wants someone to slam it like a screen door in a hurricane. We're on your side, Bro!

Whizbang

LikeAnOcean wrote:

to have a really awesome date with a girl, but then spell her name wrong while texting her on the way home after dropping her off?


8-)


Epic fail.

She'll forgive me, right? lol.

dude...even with my one good eye, I'd drop you like 3rd period French.

OffHeGoes29

I'm bad with names and spelling, so I avoid spelling there name or calling them by their name as long as possible. "Hey you" or "Woman" works well, try it.

Random_Wookie

OffHeGoes29 wrote:

I'm bad with names and spelling, so I avoid spelling there name or calling them by their name as long as possible. "Hey you" or "Woman" works well, try it.

yeah just dont use 'it' some people dont like it