I know this is a double standard but.....

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  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    GTFLYGIRL wrote:
    That right there is the double standard!

    Men = silly.

    Think I said that about 5 pages back.

    :rolleyes:

    men are a little more than just silly
    i know plenty of em

    many i know or don't even know are pretty fuckin stupid

    silly and fuckin stupid are not the same thing

    if i wanted to go into huge details i could give you a list of fuckin stupid
    shit dudes have done and continue on doing

    i myself am a man and i see, hear alot of it
    im not impressed all that much i can tell ya that

    you women are pretty fuckin far from perfect yourselves
    as a whole, people are pretty fucked up and fulla shit

    however, for the most part people are decent

    does that make sense? does to me :)
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • Dylan Stone
    Dylan Stone Posts: 1,145
    chadwick wrote:

    as a whole, people are pretty fucked up and fulla shit

    however, for the most part people are decent

    does that make sense? does to me :)

    Sure it makes sense.... :)

    But I'm not supposed to be posting on this thread!! ;):D
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    GTFLYGIRL wrote:
    Sure it makes sense.... :)

    But I'm not supposed to be posting on this thread!! ;):D

    yeah me either
    i said i was leavin it a few times
    told the OP i'd leave him alone a few times to, that didn't happen either

    oh well, free country internet thingy web

    fuck em

    im here...or not
    either way im cool :D
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • Whizbang
    Whizbang Posts: 1,314
    GTFLYGIRL wrote:
    To MY guy... please...if you really dig me....

    Talk about it!! Talk ALL about it.

    Tell... do tell.... about the hot girl on the crowded subway that was standing next to you and her ass was pressing against you and you could smell her... and how you wanted to just......

    And we can take it from there....

    WHATEVER YOU DO... JUST PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO KEEP ME IN THE DARK ABOUT YOUR FANTASIES LIKE I'M SOME WEAK AND NONSEXUAL BEING THAT COULDN'T HANDLE IT. BUT THEN POST ALL ABOUT IT ON SOME MESSAGE BOARD!!

    ENDULGE IT!

    ENDULGE ME!


    ...whatever....guys either get it or they don't. :(

    ...many women love sex and love the fact that they have a sexual man in their lives.



    Hail Hail!!

    Amen!

    But....if you ask me my thoughts and fantasies and I tell you? don't be all upset and turn your back on me when the thoughts and fantasies are 1)not of you and 2)dirtier than you ever expected. Don't ask if you expect my answers to be innocent, soft core. I dated one guy who thought it was some cool, kinky pillow talk to ask about certain things and being comfortable enough with myself and him, I told him. He was mortified to find out I wasn't the Virgin Mary. Women are sexual beings too, very much so.
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    GTFLYGIRL wrote:
    To MY guy... please...if you really dig me....

    Talk about it!! Talk ALL about it.

    Tell... do tell.... about the hot girl on the crowded subway that was standing next to you and her ass was pressing against you and you could smell her... and how you wanted to just......

    And we can take it from there....

    WHATEVER YOU DO... JUST PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO KEEP ME IN THE DARK ABOUT YOUR FANTASIES LIKE I'M SOME WEAK AND NONSEXUAL BEING THAT COULDN'T HANDLE IT. BUT THEN POST ALL ABOUT IT ON SOME MESSAGE BOARD!!

    ENDULGE IT!

    ENDULGE ME!


    ...whatever....guys either get it or they don't. :(

    ...many women love sex and love the fact that they have a sexual man in their lives.



    Hail Hail!!
    What she said :cool:

    Yeah - that seems to be the issue here for me. NOT that men fantasize about other women and want variety. No mystery there. It's the belief that women don't want the same things. Oh silly silly boys :p
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Whizbang wrote:
    Amen!

    But....if you ask me my thoughts and fantasies and I tell you? don't be all upset and turn your back on me when the thoughts and fantasies are 1)not of you and 2)dirtier than you ever expected. Don't ask if you expect my answers to be innocent, soft core. I dated one guy who thought it was some cool, kinky pillow talk to ask about certain things and being comfortable enough with myself and him, I told him. He was mortified to find out I wasn't the Virgin Mary. Women are sexual beings too, very much so.
    hell yeah! someone posted a while back that this is the reason men like porn. ummmm....some women like porn too :p Seriously - it's not all rose petals on pillows that gets us off - sure there can be a time and a place for that...but there's also a place for fantasies that can make a grown man blush :D
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Whizbang
    Whizbang Posts: 1,314
    comebackgirl wrote:
    hell yeah! someone posted a while back that this is the reason men like porn. ummmm....some women like porn too :p Seriously - it's not all rose petals on pillows that gets us off - sure there can be a time and a place for that...but there's also a place for fantasies that can make a grown man blush :D

    Seriously...I've said this as well- F**K the flowers, candy and romance and just give it to me, damn it.
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Whizbang wrote:
    Seriously...I've said this as well- F**K the flowers, candy and romance and just give it to me, damn it.
    You took the words right out of my mouth :D
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Whizbang wrote:
    Seriously...I've said this as well- F**K the flowers, candy and romance and just give it to me, damn it.


    that's what acoustic is looking for, i think you're set ;)
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • Dylan Stone
    Dylan Stone Posts: 1,145
    chadwick wrote:
    that's what acoustic is looking for, i think you're set ;)

    :D

    Nah...I think she'd scare the hell out of him!
  • Whizbang
    Whizbang Posts: 1,314
    GTFLYGIRL wrote:
    :D

    Nah...I think she'd scare the hell out of him!

    :eek:
    ;)
    :D
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    GTFLYGIRL wrote:
    :D

    Nah...I think she'd scare the hell out of him!

    funny stuff flychic

    poor lil mr. acoustic
    i think the poor guy has been beat down to a bloody nub
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    GTFLYGIRL wrote:
    To MY guy... please...if you really dig me....

    Talk about it!! Talk ALL about it.

    Tell... do tell.... about the hot girl on the crowded subway that was standing next to you and her ass was pressing against you and you could smell her... and how you wanted to just......

    And we can take it from there....

    i'm calling bullshit on this one. i'm sorry, in cyber land it's easy to say you're so super cool with all this, but in real life i have never even MET a woman who didn't flip the fuck out when she caught her guy checking out another girl. not just girls i've dated, ANY woman. i've seen whole parties ruined because some chick sees her dude eyeing another girl at a party and freaks and makes a huge scene. no girl i have ever known has been turned on by her guy talking about other girls. they get insecure and whiny or just righteously angry and pissed off and make you pay for it.

    i can guarantee you 95% of the guys on here speaking from experience dating women will tell you you do NOT talk about other girls that you're attracted to with your mate... EVER! at least not if you want to get laid or have a week that isn't a living hell as she wreaks vengeance on you for your mental infidelity.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • lalalalaaaaaaaa
    lalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    Whizbang wrote:
    Seriously...I've said this as well- F**K the flowers, candy and romance and just give it to me, damn it.
    lol

    Whiz has no time for your bullshit, gents.

    ::calls in WHEB and requests Maneater::
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    decides2dream wrote:
    also, you bring up honestly a very serious topic...but oh no! you can ONLY discuss it as a joke! all too serious! damn, just discussing it is 'serious'...? what, are all the guys supposed to come on in here, pat each other on the back and laugh...and say yea man...exactly! and all women are supposed to ignore...or just agree? then it'll be 'fun'...? damn....quite a few weighed in saying hey...a-ok.....just got to give to get, all play, etc.....why is that too serious? :p

    hey, it isn't his fault! people were ready to string him up from post one, so he HAS to say he's joking. double standard discussion or not, the second anyone brings up the idea that maybe it's ok for someone to have action on the side not with their s.o. people hit the fucking roof. i suspect it's because most of them are either terrified of their s.o. doing this or have some religious thing where they pass judgment on any lustful pervy sinner who would dare consider casual sex to be fun.

    he was backpedaling from moment one because people couldn't line up fast enough to tell him what a scumbag he was... and not just because of the double standard thing. just for floating the idea that maybe it's not SO bad to have sex with more than one person.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • iluvcats
    iluvcats Posts: 5,153
    Whizbang wrote:
    Seriously...I've said this as well- F**K the flowers, candy and romance and just give it to me, damn it.

    hey I want it all!
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  • lalalalaaaaaaaa
    lalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    catch22 wrote:
    i'm calling bullshit on this one. i'm sorry, in cyber land it's easy to say you're so super cool with all this, but in real life i have never even MET a woman who didn't flip the fuck out when she caught her guy checking out another girl. not just girls i've dated, ANY woman. i've seen whole parties ruined because some chick sees her dude eyeing another girl at a party and freaks and makes a huge scene. no girl i have ever known has been turned on by her guy talking about other girls. they get insecure and whiny and cry-ey.

    i can guarantee you 95% of the guys on here speaking from experience dating women will tell you you do NOT talk about other girls that you're attracted to with your mate... EVER! at least not if you want to get laid or have a week that isn't a living hell as she wreaks vengeance on your mental infidelity.
    All depends on the PERSON, dewd. Everything you're sayin' about girls could be said about a great many boys. Most PEOPLE are insecure about that stuff and would freak out if they caught their partner/mate/whatever scopin' out some foreign ass.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    I think Leo is realizing that maybe he "shouldn't " have started this thread!!Then again, maybe he's sitting at his job laughing HIS ASS OFF!! :D
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    Saturnal wrote:
    All depends on the PERSON, dewd. Everything you're sayin' about girls could be said about a great many boys. Most PEOPLE are insecure about that stuff and would freak out if they caught their partner/mate/whatever scopin' out some foreign ass.

    oh, no doubt. guys are 10 times as bad. i've seen twice as many parties ruined because some drunk dude starts a fight because his girl was flirting with some other guy. but at least in this thread, all the guys are saying girls shouldn't do this anyway ;) the girls are all in here acting like they're totally cool with their guy leering at other women and they want to hear all about it and egg him on and i think that is pure bullshit.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • Dylan Stone
    Dylan Stone Posts: 1,145
    catch22 wrote:
    i'm calling bullshit on this one. i'm sorry, in cyber land it's easy to say you're so super cool with all this, but in real life i have never even MET a woman who didn't flip the fuck out when she caught her guy checking out another girl. not just girls i've dated, ANY woman.

    Two questions...one honest and second sarcastic.

    1. Honestly...if you would care to respond? Approximately how old are you?

    2. Who the hell have you been hanging out with???

    And...for the record... ha... cyberspace.

    For many, many, many of us... this board is ANYTHING but anonymous!!! :D

    ANYTHING BUT!!!! :D

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    Can you see the real me????? ;)

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