Why do men feel women are so disposable?

BinGnarly · October 2008

yahamita wrote:

the society we live in today, where everything seems to be so easily disposed of and replaceable, what has this done to our men? The way they use and treat woman like a used car, trade her in for something that looks better! I would love to see a study done on how many marriages or relationships were destroyed because of sleeze internet dating sites.
When will our men return to being a man of honor to his woman, thinking the grass is always greener on the other side, however, that beautiful green grass you once had is gone, and all you have left is dead hay!

You must be looking in all the wrong places lady.

Lizard · October 2008

Lisa--sorry this shit happened to you.

I think you picked a crappy guy--there are crappy people in both genders.

Take care~~hope things get brighter soon!

yahamita · October 2008

nuffingman wrote:

Jacqueline and her husband Marc went for counselling after 25 years of marriage.
When asked what the problem was, Jacqueline went into a passionate, painful tirade listing every problem they had ever had in the 25 years they had been married.

She went on and on and on: neglect, lack of intimacy, emptiness, loneliness, feeling unloved and unlovable, an entire laundry list of unmet needs she had endured over the course of their marriage.

Finally, after allowing this to go on for a sufficient length of time, the therapist got up, walked around the desk and, after asking Jacqueline to stand, unbuttoned her blouse, embraced her, put his hands on her breasts, and kissed her passionately as her husband Marc watched with a raised eyebrow.

Jacqueline shut up, buttoned up her blouse, and quietly sat down as though in a daze..
The therapist turned to Marc and said, 'This is what your wife needs at least three times a week. Can you do this?'
Marc thought for a moment and replied, 'Well, I can drop her off here on Mondays and Wednesdays, but on Fridays, I play golf.'

I sooooooooooo needed this laugh today, thank you soooooooooooo much!

AnnaMelinda · October 2008

yahamita wrote:

I would love to see a study done on how many marriages or relationships were destroyed because of sleeze internet dating sites.

Or even just this site. :rolleyes:

Sorry to hear you're having a rough time of things.

Remember: No matter how cold the winter.... there's a spring time ahead

yahamita · October 2008

Heineken Helen wrote:

ah yahamita... sorry you're going through this... and I understand you're just venting right now :( it's good to go through phases of staying away from the opposite sex too and clearing your head. Although there really are some GREAT men out there... some of my very very best friends are men and I can talk to them even better than my female friends. Don't let this one prick destroy your view of all men! :(

Thanks Helen! All of my friends are guys except for 3..Its easier that way. I see how my guy friends treat their women, and I do know there are decent ones out there, but yes, I am venting at the moment.

Lizardjam · October 2008

the wolf wrote:

i just read this statistic last night, and it blew me away. i hate to say it, but it was on some website that is affilated with Oprah. i feel dirty.

anyway, 75% of marriages that end are ended by the woman.

just saying. sounds to me like the women are doing there share of "going through" men.

anyway, men suck, get over it. i thought all you gals were pulled aside at like the age of 13 and told that !?!?!?

Someone may have already said this, I am quoting the first page and all...but I would attribute some of this to men's ability to ignore things that make them unhappy. Women tend to not put up with it or live with it(not all, mind you). The men just go on with their lives, cheating or being unhappy, or just plain living without any regard to their wife until she finally ends it. Doesn't mean it's the women discarding the men....sometimes the men don't have the balls to end it when they want to.

yahamita · October 2008

Lizardjam wrote:

Someone may have already said this, I am quoting the first page and all...but I would attribute some of this to men's ability to ignore things that make them unhappy. Women tend to not put up with it or live with it(not all, mind you). The men just go on with their lives, cheating or being unhappy, or just plain living without any regard to their wife until she finally ends it. Doesn't mean it's the women discarding the men....sometimes the men don't have the balls to end it when they want to.

Very well said, my thoughts exactly! Has anyone on here divorced over a cheating bf/spouse who couldn't stay off of those dating sites? don't they realize people post their BEST pic they have of themselves for you to fantasize over, you build this image/person up in your head, and once you meet them, they are never their pic! If you are lucky, you could get 20 dates off of the site, but reality is, you will spend alot of time and money weeding them out. They are just a picture on a page! One out of the 20 just might be a connection. Then you have to start all over again, searching, looking, hoping you will find the right one on a different site...CRAZY!

Heineken Helen · October 2008

yahamita wrote:

Thanks Helen! All of my friends are guys except for 3..Its easier that way. I see how my guy friends treat their women, and I do know there are decent ones out there, but yes, I am venting at the moment.

well then vent! Every man who has ever lived anywhere has been a piece of shit

I know when you're going through shit like this that you don't REALLY wanna hear how there ARE actually good men everywhere... you just wanna grab him by the balls and twist... slowly!

Hmm... drink brings out the evil in me

yahamita · October 2008

Heineken Helen wrote:

well then vent! Every man who has ever lived anywhere has been a piece of shit

I know when you're going through shit like this that you don't REALLY wanna hear how there ARE actually good men everywhere... you just wanna grab him by the balls and twist... slowly!

Hmm... drink brings out the evil in me

Just had a few myself. Now the asshole is texting me telling me how much he loves and misses me..I need to go smoke a bowl..Life as a grownup sucks!

writersu · October 2008

chadwick wrote:

and i thought i was the only nutty one in the group
nope i am not
our Jeanie here was all up in this badass waterfall that i always climb around on
she was not afraid to get wet
Rock dude was all taking pictures like a madman
Chadwick with a gallon of water in his left boot
slippery mossy rock
me all stepping into a deep hole for my left leg to swim in
funny shit i'll never forget
me sitting on a log, dumping water out of boot
ringing out my sock
and Jeanie like a chipmunk scurrying from rock to rock
big tall waterfall crashing sounds
good fucking times

what are you in a "Survivor" series I know nothing of?

Yellow Ledbelly · October 2008

I've never thought of women as disposable at all but rather the most precious things in the world. The main women in my life right now -- my mother and two very wonderful and special friends -- are anything but disposable. I couldn't live without any one of the three....one of the friends and I had a bit of a hiatus around this time last year that lasted several months and it was very hard for me not to be able to talk to her....but she came back thank goodness

The Champ · October 2008

yahamita wrote:

I need to go smoke a bowl..Life as a grownup sucks!

I don't want to get into it, but the above is rather amusing

..good luck and how old are you btw?

eyedclaar · October 2008

The Champ wrote:

I don't want to get into it, but the above is rather amusing ..good luck and how old are you btw?

Don't want to get into it, eh? Well, that's too bad, buddy! Ah, just kidding, but I'd almost engage in a senseless arguement just for something to do around here. What a snooze fest.

The Champ · October 2008

eyedclaar wrote:

Don't want to get into it, eh? Well, that's too bad, buddy! Ah, just kidding, but I'd almost engage in a senseless arguement just for something to do around here. What a snooze fest.

Seriously, I haven't been here all week and by the looks of it, haven't missed much....your attempts are appreciated though

..

yahamita · October 2008

The Champ wrote:

I don't want to get into it, but the above is rather amusing ..good luck and how old are you btw?

Just turned 41 on Friday, the day I dumped him! Now he's texting, writing, how much of a mistake he made(again) and he loves me, blah blah blah...

Why do men feel women are so disposable?

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