Why do I (or any other guy) get really nervous when talking to a hott girl?

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  • Posts: 6,020
    given2fly10 wrote:
    hott girls are so not my thing, to fake and all. give me a cute nerdy girl anyday of the week
    i dont mean hott but like girls that are exactly your type or someone you are interested in
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  • Posts: 485
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    i dont mean hott but like girls that are exactly your type or someone you are interested in
    my bad, i read that wrong. just go up to them and say a funny line. if you make them laugh or giggle right away it will help your nerves
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    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    Like...I have hott friends that are girls and we just talk and laugh and I'm fine. But why is there nothing to talk about when you meet a girl whos gorgeous and extremely nice? Not just that, but why do we get nervous and all the sudden its like 30 degrees warmer in the room.

    Curse you gorgeous women!

    it's very simple you want to be liked by them but don't know what she will like or how to act to be liked...........and all that goings on in your head makes you stressed in turn making you nervous.

    btw, i'm a girl and i'd have a difficult time being with a gorgeous guys........erm...apart from one time, when for some unknown reason i was with my male friend who was talking to his good looking male friend and i was talking easily with him too.....i just simply couldn't give a fuck :D
  • Posts: 4,315
    given2fly10 wrote:
    well yes a cute nerdy girl is hot in my opinon. but i think the op was talking bout the typical blonde hair, big boobs, nice ass type of girl. i hate labels to. but society and hollywood has made us categorise things sadly enough


    I think he meant just whomever you think is hot in your opinion!!
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    in_hiding79 wrote:
    I think he meant just whomever you think is hot in your opinion!!
    see above post by me. :)
    And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly

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  • Posts: 4,315
    given2fly10 wrote:
    see above post by me. :)


    hehehehe

    I missed it...sorry!! I'm such a goofball!! :o
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • Posts: 2,222
    genie wrote:
    it's very simple you want to be liked by them but don't know what she will like or how to act to be liked...........and all that goings on in your head makes you stressed in turn making you nervous.

    btw, i'm a girl and i'd have a difficult time being with a gorgeous guys........erm...apart from one time, when for some unknown reason i was with my male friend who was talking to his good looking male friend and i was talking easily with him too.....i just simply couldn't give a fuck :D

    actually i think i know answer to this one, i'm not looking for a boyfriend right this minute, so although he was hot and all, i just remembered how much freedom means to me :D
  • Posts: 485
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    hehehehe

    I missed it...sorry!! I'm such a goofball!! :o
    awww dont be :o. you NERD :)
    And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly

    no bed=no brian

    coke sucks
  • i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    Like...I have hott friends that are girls and we just talk and laugh and I'm fine. But why is there nothing to talk about when you meet a girl whos gorgeous and extremely nice? Not just that, but why do we get nervous and all the sudden its like 30 degrees warmer in the room.

    Curse you gorgeous women!

    Because you are insecure? Young? Lack confidence?
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  • Posts: 4,315
    I am definitely a nerd!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • Posts: 4,315
    tish wrote:
    Because you are insecure? Young? Lack confidence?


    Not true at all!!!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • Posts: 399
    given2fly10 wrote:
    if you make them laugh or giggle right away it will help your nerves

    Unless they are laughing at you :p

    I guess it's difficult to explain, i get the same feeling if I talk to a gorgeous girl i get so damn nervous :eek: but what can you do, girls have the winning hand when it comes to decide whether they want to go on chatting or get lost :o

    And I don't know why, but also it's getting quite complicated to talk to girls these days...don't be so hard on us!! :D
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  • Posts: 485
    tachepiranha wrote:
    Unless they are laughing at you :p
    thats a given with me :p
    And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly

    no bed=no brian

    coke sucks
  • Posts: 7,170
    given2fly10 wrote:
    hott girls are so not my thing, to fake and all. give me a cute nerdy girl anyday of the week
    Agreed. 9/10 times, a cute girl > a hot girl.


    In fact, my preference is slightly forlorn, vulnerably beautiful french girls with short-ish brown/black hair but we're getting too bogged down in details here.
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  • Posts: 10,829
    There is a lot of uncertainty when it comes to talking with people of the opposite sex.....both people may have intentions that are 180 degrees apart!

    You may be talking to your future spouse, or you may be luring someone to come home with you (voluntarily, I hope!), so the stakes may be high!

    There is also the slight chance that you may not think you are in the same league as the hot girl, so hence, you get nervous!
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    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    Agreed. 9/10 a cute girl > a hot girl.


    In fact, my preference is slightly forlorn, vulnerably beautiful french girls with short-ish brown/black hair but we're getting too bogged down in details here.
    Cos theres one of them on every street.. ;)

    Nothing too specific then J? :D
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    urbanhippie wrote:
    Cos theres one of them on every street.. ;)

    Nothing too specific then J? :D

    I tend to like women who live in industrialised towns but are tree huggers at heart.. ^^^^^ ;)
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    GTFLYGIRL wrote:
    My question is...What's up with this HOTT spelling?

    If I know a hot dude...he is just that...a hot dude.

    Hott?

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    eyedclaar wrote:
    Phew. I was starting to think I was the only one who didn't graduate from Paris Hilton's sKooL O' WordZ.
    Hott is hotter than hot ;)
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  • Posts: 1,240
    I don't get nervous around hot chicks................especially when you're this bad ass.
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