Why do I (or any other guy) get really nervous when talking to a hott girl?

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  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    Like others have said, I think that most simply can't think straight when they are around hot chicks. So many thoughts come crashing together all at once that it's hard to filter out the good ones/right ones and we then become flustered.

    This is why I believe really hot chicks often go for dim-witted douche bags.
    They don't have this mental mechanism that triggers the response most guys have when around really hot chicks. So instead of being confused by so many thoughts, they have a better shot at saying exactly what they want.

    There it is. The next time you see a really hot chick (who's probably dragging around her douche-sack boyfriend) you can take comfort in knowing that he's a simple-minded idiot...
    Wait a minute, I suppose you CAN'T take comfort in that cause he banging a super hot chick...

    Fuck, life isn't fair.
    LOL!

    :D
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    mca47 wrote:
    Like others have said, I think that most simply can't think straight when they are around hot chicks. So many thoughts come crashing together all at once that it's hard to filter out the good ones/right ones and we then become flustered.

    This is why I believe really hot chicks often go for dim-witted douche bags.
    They don't have this mental mechanism that triggers the response most guys have when around really hot chicks. So instead of being confused by so many thoughts, they have a better shot at saying exactly what they want.

    There it is. The next time you see a really hot chick (who's probably dragging around her douche-sack boyfriend) you can take comfort in knowing that he's a simple-minded idiot...
    Wait a minute, I suppose you CAN'T take comfort in that cause he banging a super hot chick...

    Fuck, life isn't fair.
    LOL!

    :D


    great post!! thanks for the laugh.....oh and for speaking the truth! :eek :D
  • patrickredeyes
    patrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    cutback wrote:
    great post!! thanks for the laugh.....oh and for speaking the truth! :eek :D


    I was feeling the same and you said it perfect. lol :D
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    cutback wrote:
    great post!! thanks for the laugh.....oh and for speaking the truth! :eek :D

    Hehehehe, I do what I can!


    :p
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Cos theres one of them on every street.. ;)

    Nothing too specific then J? :D
    Hey, so I'm a dreamer :D is that a bad thing?

    Seriously, if you know anyone who looks like this, hook me up ;)
    http://www.eddog.com/ij/pics/rouge_wet_hair.jpg

    gotta be french though. well, no. I can make concessions.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • LBC1076
    LBC1076 Posts: 224
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    Hey, so I'm a dreamer :D is that a bad thing?

    Seriously, if you know anyone who looks like this, hook me up ;)
    http://www.eddog.com/ij/pics/rouge_wet_hair.jpg

    gotta be french though. well, no. I can make concessions.

    I just saw her the other day, standing in front of a Wal-Mart in VIcksburg, MS.
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    LBC1076 wrote:
    I just saw her the other day, standing in front of a Wal-Mart in VIcksburg, MS.
    You bastard ;)
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • elmer
    elmer Posts: 1,683
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    Seriously, if you know anyone who looks like this, hook me up ;)
    http://www.eddog.com/ij/pics/rouge_wet_hair.jpg

    gotta be french though. well, no. I can make concessions.
    You must of seen or else have to see The Double Life of Veronique.
    An oil painting, though not an obvious beauty judging popular culture, you've acquired a fine tasty taste.
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    elmer wrote:
    You must of seen or else have to see The Double Life of Veronique.
    An oil painting, though not an obvious beauty judging popular culture, you've acquired a fine tasty taste.
    I have indeed seen it. I also watched Kieslowski's Rouge tonight :) A very beautiful woman indeed, whether conventionally or not.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • elmer
    elmer Posts: 1,683
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    I also watched Kieslowski's Rouge tonight
    Is jacob in that?

    I though some of his Decalogue films were the most haunting, maybe the grainy cinematography whether deliberate or not added to the sense of unease I felt watching, seemed more real.

    EDIT: suppose you mean one o fthe Three Colours.... now I think of it, never really got into those.
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    elmer wrote:
    Is jacob in that?

    I though some of his Decalogue films were the most haunting, maybe the grainy cinematography whether deliberate or not added to the sense of unease I felt watching, seemed more real.
    yeah she's in Rouge. I agree about the cinematography in the Dekalog. It was definitely intentiona I would think. Beautifully made films indeed.

    And to retain thread integrity, bugger me did Kieslowski pick some 'hott' women for his films :) Juliette Binoche in Bleu is amazing and there is the aforementioned Irene Jacob.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • elmer
    elmer Posts: 1,683
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    And to retain thread integrity, bugger me did Kieslowski pick some 'hott' women for his films :) Juliette Binoche in Bleu is amazing
    For sure. The scene that sticks from Bleu was where Binoche is in hospital and speaks to a nurse/doctor, the camera picks him up through the reflection from her eye. Really struck me at the time, wondered if this has been used before Kieslowki? In the Sopranos a similar technique was employed to a lesser aesthetic effect but straight away it reminded me of Binoche in that desolate(might be wrong here), silent hospital. Think it was where she discovers the unfortunate news.

    Oh, so I've well fell out of the thread topic here......Why do we feel nerves when approaching women we're desperate for? the courage to approach is the most important thing, if they're decent enough you won't come away feeling too bad anyhow. "Douche-bags"sometimes end up with beautys because they have no shame and a lesser sense of self-awareness, they keep trying and eventually......

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