Why do men feel women are so disposable?

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  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Jeanie wrote:
    :D Well except Rock on, cutback, chaddles, trailer, the wolf, patrick.......I could go on but I'm bound to miss someone and land myself in it. :p

    You know, from this side of the world, in another time I could have made that comment but it would read:

    Oh, sorry, let me be more specific....AUSTRALIAN MEN!!

    You know what? Some men do think women are disposable, some of them grow out of it, some of them do not. I realize if you've just been on the receiving end of some nasty shit from a man, or even several in a row, that you would be feeling that ALL men are bastards. But they're not you know. :)

    When you've got that nasty taste in your mouth from the bad behaviour of an individual the best thing to recover, in my experience, is to label the bastard you're dealing with and then forget him! Spend your time looking at the men around you that are great and reinforce to yourself that there are some really great guys in the world. Why give the arsehole more power than he deserves to have? Don't let him shape your view because if you do allow that to happen you'll be missing out on some really great people, men included, even AMERICAN MEN! ;)

    thank you very much Jeanie for dropping my name up above, nice, very nice.
    you are right, i am one awesome dude ;)
    i am sure the others you mentioned are as well.
    so yes, Jeanie can vouch for me.
    i am a gentleman through and through.

    thank you Jeanie,
    hugs..
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    human beings should *never* be treated as disposable, acting in such a way is a lack of decency. and it's wrong for either gender to do. being an asshole isn't gender specific.
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    chadwick wrote:
    thank you very much Jeanie for dropping my name up above, nice, very nice.
    you are right, i am one awesome dude ;)
    i am sure the others you mentioned are as well.
    so yes, Jeanie can vouch for me.
    i am a gentleman through and through.

    thank you Jeanie,
    hugs..

    You, my friend, are MOST WELCOME. :)

    I now have absolute proof that ALL AMERICAN men aren't utter, utter bastards! :p

    And I'd even go so far as to say that of the American men I've had the pleasure of spending time with, you lot are so far and above fabulous that it makes the bottom feeders pale to insignificance. :) Thank you for that. :)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    chiquimonkey wrote:
    human beings should *never* be treated as disposable, acting in such a way is a lack of decency. and it's wrong for either gender to do. being an asshole isn't gender specific.

    Completely agree chiq. :)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    chadwick wrote:
    thank you very much Jeanie for dropping my name up above, nice, very nice.
    you are right, i am one awesome dude ;)
    i am sure the others you mentioned are as well.
    so yes, Jeanie can vouch for me.
    i am a gentleman through and through.

    thank you Jeanie,
    hugs..


    yeah, you rock . ;)
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Jeanie wrote:
    You, my friend, are MOST WELCOME. :)

    I now have absolute proof that ALL AMERICAN men aren't utter, utter bastards! :p

    And I'd even go so far as to say that of the American men I've had the pleasure of spending time with, you lot are so far and above fabulous that it makes the bottom feeders pale to insignificance. :) Thank you for that. :)

    you are a gd champion, Jeanie
    that's truly outstanding

    i must say i am grateful that i have you as a friend
    you are one awesome woman
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    the wolf wrote:
    yeah, you rock . ;)

    yes Sir,

    so do you
    so.... do you
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    chadwick wrote:
    you are a gd champion, Jeanie
    that's truly outstanding

    i must say i am grateful that i have you as a friend
    you are one awesome woman

    the man speaks the truth :)
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    jesus you 3 are making me puke with this lovefest. why dont y'all get a room. :p:D
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    cutback wrote:
    the man speaks the truth :)

    yes mr. cutback i do
    i heard you had the privilege of meeting her yourself
    to bad Rock dude couldnt have made it down to you as well
    he's cool, all laid back and stuff

    very cool people, the two of them
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    chadwick wrote:
    you are a gd champion, Jeanie
    that's truly outstanding

    i must say i am grateful that i have you as a friend
    you are one awesome woman

    :D Yeah, you're not so bad yaself Chaddles! :p You know, for a yank and all! ;)


    One of the best days of my life with you and sitka and the waterfall. :)
    I'm still on a buzz from getting to spend the time with such a great bloke. :)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    catefrances wrote:
    jesus you 3 are making me puke with this lovefest. why dont y'all get a room. :p:D

    fuck you cate :D
    you're a cranky lil prick :)
    why don't you go write a poem some place ;)
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • OffHeGoes29
    OffHeGoes29 Posts: 1,240
    It goes both ways sweetheart.
    BRING BACK THE WHALE
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    cutback wrote:
    the man speaks the truth :)

    :D Any man that would swap and drink that vile root beer is a true gentleman as far as I'm concerned! ;)

    Oh and I owe you dinner so best you be getting down here to collect. :)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    chadwick wrote:
    fuck you cate :D
    you're a cranky lil prick :)
    why don't you go write a poem some place ;)

    yeah fuck you too chad.


    im in too murderous a mood to be trusted with any weapon. even if it is just words.
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    catefrances wrote:
    yeah fuck you too chad.


    im in too murderous a mood to be trusted with any weapon. even if it is just words.


    waterfalls? ;):p:D
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Jeanie wrote:
    :D Yeah, you're not so bad yaself Chaddles! :p You know, for a yank and all! ;)


    One of the best days of my life with you and sitka and the waterfall. :)
    I'm still on a buzz from getting to spend the time with such a great bloke. :)

    and i thought i was the only nutty one in the group
    nope i am not
    our Jeanie here was all up in this badass waterfall that i always climb around on
    she was not afraid to get wet
    Rock dude was all taking pictures like a madman
    Chadwick with a gallon of water in his left boot
    slippery mossy rock
    me all stepping into a deep hole for my left leg to swim in
    funny shit i'll never forget
    me sitting on a log, dumping water out of boot
    ringing out my sock
    and Jeanie like a chipmunk scurrying from rock to rock
    big tall waterfall crashing sounds
    good fucking times
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    Jeanie wrote:
    waterfalls? ;):p:D

    if only to drown under.
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    catefrances wrote:
    yeah fuck you too chad.


    im in too murderous a mood to be trusted with any weapon. even if it is just words.

    yeah Cate
    what Jeanie says

    waterfall
    breathe it in
    become a drop of life
    for poetry through the ceiling. ISBN: 1 4241 8840 7

    "Hear me, my chiefs!
    I am tired; my heart is
    sick and sad. From where
    the sun stands I will fight
    no more forever."
    Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    yahamita wrote:
    the society we live in today, where everything seems to be so easily disposed of and replaceable, what has this done to our men? The way they use and treat woman like a used car, trade her in for something that looks better! I would love to see a study done on how many marriages or relationships were destroyed because of sleeze internet dating sites.
    When will our men return to being a man of honor to his woman, thinking the grass is always greener on the other side, however, that beautiful green grass you once had is gone, and all you have left is dead hay!

    Well, as long as we're generalizing, I think you're on the right track comparing women to commodities. In this society, the media, consumer culture, etc. have represented women as objects to be used by men merely as a means to an end. It's no surprise, then, when men treat us that way.

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