men: sexually aggressive women. thoughts.

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  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    gue_barium wrote:
    Q: Are you telling us the whole story here?
    A: Kind of.
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    A: I'd rather not say.

    You're odd....

    I like it..:)
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  • Julien
    Julien Posts: 2,457
    Sometimes, I'd like my girlfriend to me a bit more sexually agressive.
    I don't wantto be always the one who starts the thing...
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  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    gue_barium wrote:

    Anyone else been in a situation like that?

    All the time, but still not often enough.
  • my2hands
    my2hands Posts: 17,117
    gue_barium wrote:
    are you intimidated?

    I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
    smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
    Wanna fuck?

    In retrospect, I think I should have.

    But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.

    Anyone else been in a situation like that?

    yes i have... the exact situation... i made the mistake... i fucked her... several times... and lost her sister in the process... it was a mistake, i really liked the girl, not to mention it really hurt her which is not my style at all. i was young and horny (much like today :p), she was hot... you know the rest

    my friends thought i was the man because i banged a couple of hot sisters... i thought i was an idiot because i lost someone i cared for.

    the other part of your question. i have no problem with aggresive women and am definitely not intimidated. no problem at all. they need it just like me... also, the agressive ones have the tide turned quickly, as i take control of the situation :cool:
  • satansbedbugs
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    my2hands wrote:
    yes i have... the exact situation... i made the mistake... i fucked her... several times... and lost her sister in the process... it was a mistake, i really liked the girl, not to mention it really hurt her which is not my style at all. i was young and horny (much like today :p), she was hot... you know the rest

    my friends thought i was the man because i banged a couple of hot sisters... i thought i was an idiot because i lost someone i cared for.

    the other part of your question. i have no problem with aggresive women and am definitely not intimidated. no problem at all. they need it just like me... also, the agressive ones have the tide turned quickly, as i take control of the situation :cool:

    The question is : Did you bang the hot sisters at the same time or on 2 different occasions?
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  • my2hands
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    satansbedbugs wrote:
    The question is : Did you bang the hot sisters at the same time or on 2 different occasions?

    not at the same time... i would have zero regrets about that...

    i was between the age of 18-20... i really liked the girl. oh well.

    i fucked it up
  • NCfan
    NCfan Posts: 945
    gue_barium wrote:
    are you intimidated?

    I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
    smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
    Wanna fuck?

    In retrospect, I think I should have.

    But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.

    Anyone else been in a situation like that?

    I've been in a situation like this quite a few times, but I was older (early 20's). I remember being excited, but sorta confused. I mean, some of the girls hardly knew me. So I was kinda restrained and felt a sense of guilt, cause I wasn't sure these chicks really knew what they were asking for - especially if they had been drinkin. But I usually went for it anyways... Lookin back on it, I'm glad I did!!!! Now I have a girlfriend who makes me do all the work, which really makes me glad I had experiences with chicks that were agressive! I'm trying to bring that out in her, but it doesn't seem to be working.
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    prism wrote:
    it's ridiculous when men say that they want a woman that is sexually confident, when in reality a sexually confident woman scares them shitless




    and by confident I don't mean dominate either
    I think there are 2 sets of circumstances here.
    1. the woman that is confident in bed. she is aware of her body and her partner and enjoys being in the moment vs the woman that is running to turn off the lights and doesnt want certain parts of her body to be seen or touched.

    2. the woman that is sexually confident to the point where she intimidates men before they even approach the bedroom; like the one gue was talking about
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  • justam
    justam Posts: 21,415
    This is an interesting thread to read...I don't have much to add except that I heard a similar story from one of my best friends in high school.

    Some girl did this to him (in nearly the exact same way) and he found it very frightening too. So, I guess this is a common response?
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  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    funny MT thread - from what i've read so far ...

    yeah - at 16 ... definitely would have been intimidated however, when you're walking around with a perpetual hard on - i probably wouldn't have enough blood to the head to say no ...

    could be fake Robin Williams quote:

    "See, the problem is God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time"

    right now - i definitely prefer the sexually confident ... and the aggressive ... although, being in a relationship now - best to avoid them altogether ... :)
  • Pacomc79
    Pacomc79 Posts: 9,404
    Thumbs up all around to confident, decisive, women who are comfortable with themselves. Wow is it freaking great (when you are single anyway)

    Everyone differs from man to man woman to woman, so I don't doubt some people are freaked out by this or that as everyone has thier own hangups. But man when no one is worried about what the other one thinks about this or don't touch that or leave this off or blah blah... that's the best.
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  • InHiding19
    InHiding19 Posts: 2,385
    I love it when they come after me hard..........then I can just shrug it off and play hard to get like most women do and it feels good for a change!!
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  • lalalalaaaaaaaa
    lalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    Going back to the original post, I think there's a difference between a sexually aggressive woman and some jerk who asks her sister's boyfriend to fuck her. I would've said no there too. So good job to the OP.

    I also think there's a difference between a sexually confident woman and someone who's just into hate-fucking. True female aggression is different from the male form (in general). A woman who tries to replicate male energy and aggression is not sexually confident in my eyes. I'd say she's more fearful than confident. I'm not afraid of this type of woman, but I am put off by that behavior. It just feels unbalanced to me.
  • prism
    prism Posts: 2,440
    TrixieCat wrote:
    I think there are 2 sets of circumstances here.
    1. the woman that is confident in bed. she is aware of her body and her partner and enjoys being in the moment vs the woman that is running to turn off the lights and doesnt want certain parts of her body to be seen or touched.

    2. the woman that is sexually confident to the point where she intimidates men before they even approach the bedroom; like the one gue was talking about

    well yeah like what's already been said

    1. would be sexually confindent

    2. would be sexually aggressive

    there is a definite difference, though most men can't seem to grasp that concept
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  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    prism wrote:
    well yeah like what's already been said

    1. would be sexually confindent

    2. would be sexually aggressive

    there is a definite difference, though most men can't seem to grasp that concept
    What I meant was that I think alot of men prefer #1. I don't think they are scared of her. At least the men I am aware of. Just my observations.
    I am not talking about kinky and crazy, just open to things.


    And what part of the story are you not telling us Gue??? lol
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  • elmer
    elmer Posts: 1,683
    gue_barium wrote:



    But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.

    You coundnt get it up son!
  • justam
    justam Posts: 21,415
    Saturnal wrote:
    Going back to the original post, I think there's a difference between a sexually aggressive woman and some jerk who asks her sister's boyfriend to fuck her. I would've said no there too. So good job to the OP.

    I think this is relevant too. Why would she do that to her sister?
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  • callen
    callen Posts: 6,388
    urbanhippie wrote:
    What I'm trying to say is confidence, like passion, IS attractive. But sometimes, overt sexuality of this kind can be a turn off. Far better to be subtly alluring :)

    Agree totally....this is the key....overly aggressive for me big turn off...being confident, passionate and alluring...HOT!

    Que...I'da probably done the same thing...especially if I liked the sister. And I'm betting the herb was an influence in your actions....or rather inaction.
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  • callen
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    elmer wrote:
    You coundnt get it up son!
    and.....??? if your not comfortable with the situation..and aren't mentally turned on thats what happens.....
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  • fanch75
    fanch75 Posts: 3,734
    I wonder what Snoop Dogg would have done in that situation?
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