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gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
edited November 2007 in A Moving Train
are you intimidated?

I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
Wanna fuck?

In retrospect, I think I should have.

But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.

Anyone else been in a situation like that?
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  • g under pg under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,200
    My hot headed, red headed girlfriend does that all the time. Being a Physical Trainer and constantly working out causes that kind of action I gather. :)

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  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    Bring 'em on. Saves me the hassle of dating them.
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    Cosmo wrote:
    Bring 'em on. Saves me the hassle of dating them.

    But we don't usually react that way, in the moment. Do we? I can respond to a sexually aggressive woman in a relationship, to an extent. But, it seems like it's better if the man makes the first move. Do you know what I mean?
    Why is that?
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    gue_barium wrote:
    are you intimidated?

    I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
    smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
    Wanna fuck?

    In retrospect, I think I should have.

    But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.

    Anyone else been in a situation like that?

    yeah you fucking should have. pussy!

    my thoughts is the easier they make my job, the happier i am. as long as they're not ugly. in which case, i'm flattered but no thanks.
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    gue_barium wrote:
    But we don't usually react that way, in the moment. Do we? I can respond to a sexually aggressive woman in a relationship, to an extent. But, it seems like it's better if the man makes the first move. Do you know what I mean?
    Why is that?

    it seems to me no. i'd love to not have to make the first move for once.
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    gue_barium wrote:
    are you intimidated?

    I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
    smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
    Wanna fuck?

    In retrospect, I think I should have.

    But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.

    Anyone else been in a situation like that?

    yes ive been in this situation. and i have to say some boys learn faster and better than others.

    you were 16 gue. give yourself a break. im sure you'd handle it better now, yes?
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    soulsinging wrote:
    yeah you fucking should have. pussy!

    my thoughts is the easier they make my job, the happier i am. as long as they're not ugly. in which case, i'm flattered but no thanks.

    But I'm talking about, generally, being single and out and about, and there are the women that fawn all over you, worship you even, and then there are the women that have that certain look about them, usually very attractive, and they're not messing around. They are genuinely aggressive, just not in a passive way like the submissives. They want control. You know what kind I'm talking about?
    Sometimes it's like finding the way you've been to women all the sudden turned around on you. Lots of flattery, lots of sexual innuendo, some physicality to it, mysteriousness, like where the heck is this leading?
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  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    gue_barium wrote:
    But we don't usually react that way, in the moment. Do we? I can respond to a sexually aggressive woman in a relationship, to an extent. But, it seems like it's better if the man makes the first move. Do you know what I mean?
    Why is that?
    ...
    I have no defense... I'm a slut.
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    gue_barium wrote:
    But I'm talking about, generally, being single and out and about, and there are the women that fawn all over you, worship you even, and then there are the women that have that certain look about them, usually very attractive, and they're not messing around. They are genuinely aggressive, just not in a passive way like the submissives. They want control. You know what kind I'm talking about?
    Sometimes it's like finding the way you've been to women all the sudden turned around on you. Lots of flattery, lots of sexual innuendo, some physicality to it, mysteriousness, like where the heck is this leading?

    i'm not seeing the problem here. that sounds pretty great to me.
  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    soulsinging wrote:
    it seems to me no. i'd love to not have to make the first move for once.
    If you're in a meaningfull relationship, then it makes more sense. When you're first meeting somone, though, it's different, I think to be approached like I've described above.
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    catefrances wrote:
    yes ive been in this situation. and i have to say some boys learn faster and better than others.

    you were 16 gue. give yourself a break. im sure you'd handle it better now, yes?

    um, yeah, i'm over it. but i'm still mildy intimidated by some women. honest.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    gue_barium wrote:
    But I'm talking about, generally, being single and out and about, and there are the women that fawn all over you, worship you even, and then there are the women that have that certain look about them, usually very attractive, and they're not messing around. They are genuinely aggressive, just not in a passive way like the submissives. They want control. You know what kind I'm talking about?
    Sometimes it's like finding the way you've been to women all the sudden turned around on you. Lots of flattery, lots of sexual innuendo, some physicality to it, mysteriousness, like where the heck is this leading?

    so let me get this straight gue. you dont like women who know what they want and want it from you?
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    gue_barium wrote:
    um, yeah, i'm over it. but i'm still mildy intimidated by some women. honest.

    oh i believe you. :)
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    catefrances wrote:
    so let me get this straight gue. you dont like women who know what they want and want it from you?

    I think I'm generally attracted to the more passive personality of a woman. Note I say generally. There is such a thing as being too passive.
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    gue_barium wrote:
    I think I'm generally attracted to the more passive personality of a woman. Note I say generally. There is such a thing as being too passive.

    But this isn't about me.

    I would love to hear cornifer chime in on this one.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    gue_barium wrote:
    I think I'm generally attracted to the more passive personality of a woman. Note I say generally. There is such a thing as being too passive.

    yes there is. not sure whether passivity is attractive. need something to work with i reckon.
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    catefrances wrote:
    yes there is. not sure whether passivity is attractive. need something to work with i reckon.
    everyone is suited to somebody, i think.

    it's a beautiful game it is, really, if you think about it, finding your match.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    gue_barium wrote:
    everyone is suited to somebody, i think.

    it's a beautiful game it is, really, if you think about it, finding your match.

    yes this is true. but you have to be prepared to trust enough to find that out. trust them and trust yourself.
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    catefrances wrote:
    yes this is true. but you have to be prepared to trust enough to find that out. trust them and trust yourself.

    trust and honesty. honesty and trust.
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    who's the boss?
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    gue_barium wrote:
    trust and honesty. honesty and trust.

    and a nice bottle of red. :)
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    catefrances wrote:
    and a nice bottle of red. :)

    nah. i mean, sure, on a given night.

    love, love, love,
    all you need is love.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    gue_barium wrote:
    nah. i mean, sure, on a given night.

    love, love, love,
    all you need is love.

    any night for me's a given night for red.

    the beatles lied. :):p
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  • Rats of MultaRats of Multa Posts: 250
    gue_barium wrote:
    But I'm talking about, generally, being single and out and about, and there are the women that fawn all over you, worship you even, and then there are the women that have that certain look about them, usually very attractive, and they're not messing around. They are genuinely aggressive, just not in a passive way like the submissives. They want control. You know what kind I'm talking about?
    Sometimes it's like finding the way you've been to women all the sudden turned around on you. Lots of flattery, lots of sexual innuendo, some physicality to it, mysteriousness, like where the heck is this leading?


    i hear ya Q. cougars are great fun, chasing yarn and such, but i'm always reminded of mr. cobain.

    we all have to pick and choose our fun i guess.
    we don’t know just where our bones will rest,
    to dust i guess,
    forgotten and absorbed into the earth below,..
  • Rats of MultaRats of Multa Posts: 250
    gue_barium wrote:
    who's the boss?


    is this a rhetorical question?
    we don’t know just where our bones will rest,
    to dust i guess,
    forgotten and absorbed into the earth below,..
  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    Rats of Multa wrote:
    i hear ya Q. cougars are great fun, chasing yarn and such, but i'm always reminded of mr. cobain.

    we all have to pick and choose our fun i guess.

    I think cougars are older, financially well-off women, if i'm not mistaken.

    No thanks.

    I'm speaking more in terms of someone your own age, or thereabouts, maybe a little richer or poorer, but not much.
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    Rats of Multa wrote:
    is this a rhetorical question?

    yes.
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    catefrances wrote:
    any night for me's a given night for red.

    the beatles lied. :):p
    no they didn't. love is understanding. even when you're a bottle-a-day
    red drinker.
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  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    gue_barium wrote:
    no they didn't. love is understanding. even when you're a bottle-a-day
    red drinker.

    ah right, that explains it. im not understanding anything atm. :D
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    catefrances wrote:
    ah right, that explains it. im not understanding anything atm. :D
    no wonder i love you.
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