Sometimes, I'd like my girlfriend to me a bit more sexually agressive.
I don't wantto be always the one who starts the thing...
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I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
Wanna fuck?
In retrospect, I think I should have.
But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.
Anyone else been in a situation like that?
yes i have... the exact situation... i made the mistake... i fucked her... several times... and lost her sister in the process... it was a mistake, i really liked the girl, not to mention it really hurt her which is not my style at all. i was young and horny (much like today ), she was hot... you know the rest
my friends thought i was the man because i banged a couple of hot sisters... i thought i was an idiot because i lost someone i cared for.
the other part of your question. i have no problem with aggresive women and am definitely not intimidated. no problem at all. they need it just like me... also, the agressive ones have the tide turned quickly, as i take control of the situation :cool:
yes i have... the exact situation... i made the mistake... i fucked her... several times... and lost her sister in the process... it was a mistake, i really liked the girl, not to mention it really hurt her which is not my style at all. i was young and horny (much like today ), she was hot... you know the rest
my friends thought i was the man because i banged a couple of hot sisters... i thought i was an idiot because i lost someone i cared for.
the other part of your question. i have no problem with aggresive women and am definitely not intimidated. no problem at all. they need it just like me... also, the agressive ones have the tide turned quickly, as i take control of the situation :cool:
The question is : Did you bang the hot sisters at the same time or on 2 different occasions?
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I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
Wanna fuck?
In retrospect, I think I should have.
But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.
Anyone else been in a situation like that?
I've been in a situation like this quite a few times, but I was older (early 20's). I remember being excited, but sorta confused. I mean, some of the girls hardly knew me. So I was kinda restrained and felt a sense of guilt, cause I wasn't sure these chicks really knew what they were asking for - especially if they had been drinkin. But I usually went for it anyways... Lookin back on it, I'm glad I did!!!! Now I have a girlfriend who makes me do all the work, which really makes me glad I had experiences with chicks that were agressive! I'm trying to bring that out in her, but it doesn't seem to be working.
it's ridiculous when men say that they want a woman that is sexually confident, when in reality a sexually confident woman scares them shitless
and by confident I don't mean dominate either
I think there are 2 sets of circumstances here.
1. the woman that is confident in bed. she is aware of her body and her partner and enjoys being in the moment vs the woman that is running to turn off the lights and doesnt want certain parts of her body to be seen or touched.
2. the woman that is sexually confident to the point where she intimidates men before they even approach the bedroom; like the one gue was talking about
Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
yeah - at 16 ... definitely would have been intimidated however, when you're walking around with a perpetual hard on - i probably wouldn't have enough blood to the head to say no ...
could be fake Robin Williams quote:
"See, the problem is God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time"
right now - i definitely prefer the sexually confident ... and the aggressive ... although, being in a relationship now - best to avoid them altogether ...
Thumbs up all around to confident, decisive, women who are comfortable with themselves. Wow is it freaking great (when you are single anyway)
Everyone differs from man to man woman to woman, so I don't doubt some people are freaked out by this or that as everyone has thier own hangups. But man when no one is worried about what the other one thinks about this or don't touch that or leave this off or blah blah... that's the best.
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Going back to the original post, I think there's a difference between a sexually aggressive woman and some jerk who asks her sister's boyfriend to fuck her. I would've said no there too. So good job to the OP.
I also think there's a difference between a sexually confident woman and someone who's just into hate-fucking. True female aggression is different from the male form (in general). A woman who tries to replicate male energy and aggression is not sexually confident in my eyes. I'd say she's more fearful than confident. I'm not afraid of this type of woman, but I am put off by that behavior. It just feels unbalanced to me.
I think there are 2 sets of circumstances here.
1. the woman that is confident in bed. she is aware of her body and her partner and enjoys being in the moment vs the woman that is running to turn off the lights and doesnt want certain parts of her body to be seen or touched.
2. the woman that is sexually confident to the point where she intimidates men before they even approach the bedroom; like the one gue was talking about
well yeah like what's already been said
1. would be sexually confindent
2. would be sexually aggressive
there is a definite difference, though most men can't seem to grasp that concept
there is a definite difference, though most men can't seem to grasp that concept
What I meant was that I think alot of men prefer #1. I don't think they are scared of her. At least the men I am aware of. Just my observations.
I am not talking about kinky and crazy, just open to things.
And what part of the story are you not telling us Gue??? lol
Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
Going back to the original post, I think there's a difference between a sexually aggressive woman and some jerk who asks her sister's boyfriend to fuck her. I would've said no there too. So good job to the OP.
I think this is relevant too. Why would she do that to her sister?
What I'm trying to say is confidence, like passion, IS attractive. But sometimes, overt sexuality of this kind can be a turn off. Far better to be subtly alluring
Agree totally....this is the key....overly aggressive for me big turn off...being confident, passionate and alluring...HOT!
Que...I'da probably done the same thing...especially if I liked the sister. And I'm betting the herb was an influence in your actions....or rather inaction.
I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
Wanna fuck?
In retrospect, I think I should have.
But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.
Anyone else been in a situation like that?
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What I meant was that I think alot of men prefer #1. I don't think they are scared of her. At least the men I am aware of. Just my observations.
I am not talking about kinky and crazy, just open to things.
And what part of the story are you not telling us Gue??? lol
well i agree with you trix.
not being a guy im gonna go out on a limb here and say that they prefer a woman who knows what she's doing, knows what she wants and knows how to get it. who wants to have to lead all the time?
as for kinky shit...well... thats open to negotiation.
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I recall my girlfriend's older sister, when i was sixteen, being alone with her,
smoking some herb, enjoying some music, and then all of the sudden she said:
Wanna fuck?
In retrospect, I think I should have.
But, I didn't. It really threw me off guard. I felt uncomfortable and goofy.
Anyone else been in a situation like that?
Never bothers me.
I enjoy initiating or being the aggressor, but I also enjoy a woman who intiates.
I mean, you have a woman who wants you and she communicates it effectively. What's not to like?
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I don't wantto be always the one who starts the thing...
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yes i have... the exact situation... i made the mistake... i fucked her... several times... and lost her sister in the process... it was a mistake, i really liked the girl, not to mention it really hurt her which is not my style at all. i was young and horny (much like today
my friends thought i was the man because i banged a couple of hot sisters... i thought i was an idiot because i lost someone i cared for.
the other part of your question. i have no problem with aggresive women and am definitely not intimidated. no problem at all. they need it just like me... also, the agressive ones have the tide turned quickly, as i take control of the situation :cool:
The question is : Did you bang the hot sisters at the same time or on 2 different occasions?
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not at the same time... i would have zero regrets about that...
i was between the age of 18-20... i really liked the girl. oh well.
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I've been in a situation like this quite a few times, but I was older (early 20's). I remember being excited, but sorta confused. I mean, some of the girls hardly knew me. So I was kinda restrained and felt a sense of guilt, cause I wasn't sure these chicks really knew what they were asking for - especially if they had been drinkin. But I usually went for it anyways... Lookin back on it, I'm glad I did!!!! Now I have a girlfriend who makes me do all the work, which really makes me glad I had experiences with chicks that were agressive! I'm trying to bring that out in her, but it doesn't seem to be working.
1. the woman that is confident in bed. she is aware of her body and her partner and enjoys being in the moment vs the woman that is running to turn off the lights and doesnt want certain parts of her body to be seen or touched.
2. the woman that is sexually confident to the point where she intimidates men before they even approach the bedroom; like the one gue was talking about
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
Some girl did this to him (in nearly the exact same way) and he found it very frightening too. So, I guess this is a common response?
yeah - at 16 ... definitely would have been intimidated however, when you're walking around with a perpetual hard on - i probably wouldn't have enough blood to the head to say no ...
could be fake Robin Williams quote:
"See, the problem is God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time"
right now - i definitely prefer the sexually confident ... and the aggressive ... although, being in a relationship now - best to avoid them altogether ...
Everyone differs from man to man woman to woman, so I don't doubt some people are freaked out by this or that as everyone has thier own hangups. But man when no one is worried about what the other one thinks about this or don't touch that or leave this off or blah blah... that's the best.
I also think there's a difference between a sexually confident woman and someone who's just into hate-fucking. True female aggression is different from the male form (in general). A woman who tries to replicate male energy and aggression is not sexually confident in my eyes. I'd say she's more fearful than confident. I'm not afraid of this type of woman, but I am put off by that behavior. It just feels unbalanced to me.
well yeah like what's already been said
1. would be sexually confindent
2. would be sexually aggressive
there is a definite difference, though most men can't seem to grasp that concept
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I am not talking about kinky and crazy, just open to things.
And what part of the story are you not telling us Gue??? lol
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
You coundnt get it up son!
I think this is relevant too. Why would she do that to her sister?
Agree totally....this is the key....overly aggressive for me big turn off...being confident, passionate and alluring...HOT!
Que...I'da probably done the same thing...especially if I liked the sister. And I'm betting the herb was an influence in your actions....or rather inaction.
smoked weed
Uh love them.....duh?
the other foot in the gutter
sweet smell that they adore
I think I'd rather smother
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He would have gotten a video camera and then sold the sex tape.
the other foot in the gutter
sweet smell that they adore
I think I'd rather smother
-The Replacements-
well i agree with you trix.
not being a guy im gonna go out on a limb here and say that they prefer a woman who knows what she's doing, knows what she wants and knows how to get it. who wants to have to lead all the time?
as for kinky shit...well... thats open to negotiation.
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lie beside me
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Never bothers me.
I enjoy initiating or being the aggressor, but I also enjoy a woman who intiates.
I mean, you have a woman who wants you and she communicates it effectively. What's not to like?