What DID NOT make your day (part deux)???

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  • he still stands
    he still stands Posts: 2,835
    Drowned Out wrote:
    he still stands wrote:
    I saw on facebook that my ex (we've been separated for 6 months) has a family portrait picture of her, her boyfriend, and my son... as her profile picture. And, she says she won't let me have him anymore. I've been taking care of him Friday night through Sunday night (every weekend) and most Wednesday nights.

    The anger is coursing through my veins. Tears are welling. I don't know what to do...

    Fathers' rights are basically non-existent... I have none.
    ya man...you have rights, you just have to pay a lawyer to exercise them :roll:
    There is probably a way to have your lawyer request his/her fee as part of the access claim. Might help pressure her into folding.
    She can't deny you access to your son without a legit reason. If she just wants to play house with her new bf, a judge will put her in her place right quick.
    And ya...unless you're a crackhead or abusive, no parent in their right mind would keep a kid from a healthy relationship with the other parent. Selfish.
    Good luck. This shit is super tough. :(

    Actually, I do have an attorney. I left a message with him about this but he said a few months ago that this could happen - which is why I'm filing for FULL CUSTODY. If she wants to play these games I can play them, too. And my dad has committed to paying anything it takes to get full custody. There is only an "agreement" not a court order so since she has primary custody (more than 60% of the time she takes care of him) she can withhold access... just because she wants to. Seriously, fathers have almost no rights... and no there is no reason to withhold access from me. I think I'm a pretty kick-ass dad.
    Everything not forbidden is compulsory and eveything not compulsory is forbidden. You are free... free to do what the government says you can do.
  • dottles
    dottles Posts: 9,206
    Restructuring :cry::cry:
    2009 - Manchester. 2010 - Dublin, Belfast, London, Berlin, Arras, Werchter. 2011 - PJ20 i & ii, Montreal, Toronto i & ii, Ottawa, Hamilton. 
    2012 - Manchester i & ii, Berlin i & ii, Stockholm. 2014 - Amsterdam i & ii, Trieste, Vienna, Berlin, Leeds, Milton Keynes.
    2016 - Boston Fenway i & ii, 2018 - Amsterdam i & ii, Pinkpop, London i & ii, Padova, Krakow, Barcelona, Seattle i & ii. 
  • tinkerbell
    tinkerbell New Zealand Posts: 2,161
    he still stands wrote:
    I think I'm a pretty kick-ass dad.

    You sound like an awesome dad!!! Good luck.
    all you need is love, love is all you need
  • Franny
    Franny Posts: 2,054
    tinkerbell wrote:
    he still stands wrote:
    I think I'm a pretty kick-ass dad.

    You sound like an awesome dad!!! Good luck.


    Chin up dude! I only wish my sons father had some of your desire to parent and the willingness to fight to be part of his life. Hope everything works out the best for you and your son.
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    where do i start?

    it will actually just be easier for me to be post in the "what made your day" thread.....

    one thing there versus 100 things in this thread is much easier to type...
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • Franny
    Franny Posts: 2,054
    Picking up my 5yo from school to find that he has a big blue bruise under his eye and a swollen and bruised cheek. :shock: Wonder if he has learnt that little boys can't fly yet?? :roll:
  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    Sagittarius Crux wrote:
    Wonder if he has learnt that little boys can't fly yet?? :roll:

    That's so sweet!
    <a href="http://s952.photobucket.com/albums/ae8/catkinson_2009/?action=view&current=domo.jpg&quot; target="_blank"><img src="http://i952.photobucket.com/albums/ae8/catkinson_2009/domo.jpg&quot; border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a>
  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    Was driving to do a home visit, got a bit zoned out, realised I couldn't remember the last mile or so, then realised I had forgotten to make a turn, rounded a corner and ended up in a herd of sheep. Not a good trip.
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  • he still stands
    he still stands Posts: 2,835
    Claireack wrote:
    Was driving to do a home visit, got a bit zoned out, realised I couldn't remember the last mile or so, then realised I had forgotten to make a turn, rounded a corner and ended up in a herd of sheep. Not a good trip.

    Actually, that would be a flock of sheep. Better than a band of gorillas! Or a surfeit of skunks!
    Everything not forbidden is compulsory and eveything not compulsory is forbidden. You are free... free to do what the government says you can do.
  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    he still stands wrote:
    Claireack wrote:
    Was driving to do a home visit, got a bit zoned out, realised I couldn't remember the last mile or so, then realised I had forgotten to make a turn, rounded a corner and ended up in a herd of sheep. Not a good trip.

    Actually, that would be a flock of sheep. Better than a band of gorillas! Or a surfeit of skunks!

    Obviously was in such a traumatised state, forgot my English :oops:
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  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,724
    you didnt let me try.....
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
    "..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
    “..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    Someone just asked me what i'm getting my Dad for father's day.
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    Someone just asked me what i'm getting my Dad for father's day.

    Aww, sorry Sian :cry: Hugs to you. You can still get a card and lay it at his grave if you feel up to it. Again, {{{hugs}}}
    "What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    Fifthelement wrote:
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    Someone just asked me what i'm getting my Dad for father's day.

    Aww, sorry Sian :cry: Hugs to you. You can still get a card and lay it at his grave if you feel up to it. Again, {{{hugs}}}

    Thanks Selena. I'm going to his grave on Sunday to lay flowers and his card. My Dad always made such a fuss of getting presents on father's day... I used to really love this time of year. I guess I always knew the first one after he passed would be the hardest.

    It can't be helped though, the guy at work hasn't been here long, didn't know and just asked to be polite... I actually felt quite sorry for him.
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • Franny
    Franny Posts: 2,054
    edited June 2010
    Claireack wrote:
    Sagittarius Crux wrote:
    Wonder if he has learnt that little boys can't fly yet?? :roll:

    That's so sweet!


    Yeah the thing is he WILL probably do it again! No fear.
    Have a look at some of the pics

    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4249969&id=699734031
    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4249969&id=699734031#!/photo.php?pid=4249976&id=699734031&fbid=401344949031
    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4249969&id=699734031#!/photo.php?pid=4244809&id=699734031&fbid=401104069031
    Post edited by Franny on
  • Franny
    Franny Posts: 2,054
    Stupid dream about someone who is dead and who caused a lot of problems and heartache for me when he was here. In the dream he was alive and told me that it was all set up and faked. ANd then wanted me to start life up with him again as if nothing had happened. Stupid stupid dreams, wish they would go away and just stop. :evil:
  • DreamOfAngels
    DreamOfAngels Posts: 829
    he still stands wrote:
    Actually, I do have an attorney. I left a message with him about this but he said a few months ago that this could happen - which is why I'm filing for FULL CUSTODY. If she wants to play these games I can play them, too. And my dad has committed to paying anything it takes to get full custody. There is only an "agreement" not a court order so since she has primary custody (more than 60% of the time she takes care of him) she can withhold access... just because she wants to. Seriously, fathers have almost no rights... and no there is no reason to withhold access from me. I think I'm a pretty kick-ass dad.
    That part I made bold wouldn't fly in Indiana. Can I ask what state you are in?
  • mikalina
    mikalina Posts: 7,206
    Oh - how I curse every time I need to fill up my gas tank :x
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  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    England - 0
    Algeria - 0

    SHIT game.
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    Sagittarius Crux wrote:
    Claireack wrote:
    Sagittarius Crux wrote:
    Wonder if he has learnt that little boys can't fly yet?? :roll:

    That's so sweet!


    Yeah the thing is he WILL probably do it again! No fear.
    Have a look at some of the pics

    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4249969&id=699734031
    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4249969&id=699734031#!/photo.php?pid=4249976&id=699734031&fbid=401344949031
    http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4249969&id=699734031#!/photo.php?pid=4244809&id=699734031&fbid=401104069031

    Awww, it wouldn't let me look at the pictures.
    <a href="http://s952.photobucket.com/albums/ae8/catkinson_2009/?action=view&current=domo.jpg&quot; target="_blank"><img src="http://i952.photobucket.com/albums/ae8/catkinson_2009/domo.jpg&quot; border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a>

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