Could you date a musician...

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  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    CityMouse wrote:
    ...If you weren't really into their music?

    just curious.

    So what kind of music does he/ she play?
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    genie wrote:
    and as long as they don't screw groupies, then i'm cool with that.

    awww man... you're no fun:)
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    Trailer wrote:
    So what kind of music does he/ she play?

    oh it's not really a specific person, a specific person just brought the question to my mind. I had formed a little "crush" if you will on a local musician, but never intending to ask him out or anything. his music is ok, and he's got a nice voice and stuff, but it's not really my thing, it's like very soft singer/songwritery (and I could be totally off but may have some influence of DMB in there). So I just got thinking, like what impact someone's music would have on how you feel toward them.
  • totaledhead
    totaledhead Posts: 197
    well i used to date a guy who played shred metal in a band... it didn't really bother me, i went to gigs and such. It's not really my taste in music, but i still loved him a lot. I don't think it makes much difference really!
  • PJGARDEN
    PJGARDEN Posts: 1,484
    In the beginning I think you will love their music no matter how bad it is b/c you always think everything about the other person is cute for a couple of months. So what do you do when you "wake up" one day and realize your spending all your time in hick bars???? I don't think I could do it.
  • CityMouse
    CityMouse Posts: 1,010
    PJGARDEN wrote:
    In the beginning I think you will love their music no matter how bad it is b/c you always think everything about the other person is cute for a couple of months. So what do you do when you "wake up" one day and realize your spending all your time in hick bars???? I don't think I could do it.

    haha I think you've hit the nail on the head.
  • samick
    samick Posts: 373
    nope never
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    If he's really a great person maybe I could learn to love his music one day.
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    samick wrote:
    nope never

    so if she was a sexy redhead with big boobies and was the sweetest person ever, you still wouldn't?
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  • samick
    samick Posts: 373
    libragirl wrote:
    so if she was a sexy redhead with big boobies and was the sweetest person ever, you still wouldn't?


    nope..........big boobs are overrated anyway.........same thing goes for someone with bad taste in music and movies.........

    i'm gonna die alone I know........but oh well
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    samick wrote:
    nope..........big boobs are overrated anyway.........same thing goes for someone with bad taste in music and movies.........

    i'm gonna die alone I know........but oh well

    lol..no offense but you are kind of a snob:p...It's the person you are dating. So if they are shitty and have great taste in music, etc..they are a keeper?

    but props about the big boobs are overrated.
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  • samick
    samick Posts: 373
    libragirl wrote:
    lol..no offense but you are kind of a snob:p...It's the person you are dating. So if they are shitty and have great taste in music, etc..they are a keeper?

    but props about the big boobs are overrated.


    If they are a shitty person they are gone as well.........

    and don't worry you won't offend me.......but you should know that I have plenty of friends who have different tastes in music than I do..........
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    samick wrote:
    If they are a shitty person they are gone as well.........

    and don't worry you won't offend me.......but you should know that I have plenty of friends who have different tastes in music than I do..........

    well you mean just dating though...not friends? I don't know I guess that really doesn't matter to me..but I will say I need to have some stuff in common with someone Im dating...I really couldn't date a guy who listened to just Ricky Martin and that's it..lol..now that would be a dealbreaker.
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  • suns rival
    suns rival Posts: 15,926
    CityMouse wrote:
    ...If you weren't really into their music?

    just curious.

    sure...why not. :)
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    CityMouse wrote:
    ...If you weren't really into their music?

    just curious.

    Do you mean if you didn't like their style of music, or if you just thought they sucked at it?

    I think it would be hard to be with someone if you didn't respect and/or take seriously their job, their music, or whatever is is they did that defines who they are. (Does that make sense?)
  • wolfbear
    wolfbear Posts: 3,965
    decides2dream wrote:
    probably not. i find most musicans practice, practice, practice...incessantly...at home.....so yea, if i didn't enjoy it, i would probably go mad.


    for the record my husband is a musician, not originals though....and overall we have very, very similar tastes in music, probably one of our biggest bonding factors. he's an awesome bass player and sure, sexy too ;)...but hell yea, if he were playing top 40 BS or country.......:eek: even now, with similar tastes his band plays some songs i really don't enjoy and when he practices them too much, i let him know. :p



    and sure, you could fall in love with the person. live with them? maybe not. :D
    I agree with this. If music is a big part of your life then you have definite opinions about it. You may appreciate lots of different sounds, but if you don't like it much you couldn't live with it for very long. :)
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  • Kilgore_Trout
    Kilgore_Trout Posts: 7,334
    i have a hard time dating someone who even LIKES bad music... let alone MAKES bad music...

    NO WAY

    though id make an exception for rihanna :D
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  • ladygooddiva
    ladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    do zou want to date a musician and you don t like his music just curious???

    well if he is my type of guy i would not mind
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    no.
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  • itsevobaby
    itsevobaby Posts: 1,809
    do you think many deaf people date musicians? if i was deaf i think i'd like to date a painter. is that insensitive? it's not meant to be, just thinking with my fingers :o
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