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  • ThecureThecure Posts: 814
    Get_Right wrote:
    that has absolutely nothing to do with it. thats work, not family.
    that you share similar ideals, or enjoying helping others does not translate into " i am going to ignore my family's wishes"

    and the otherside, although this may be harsh, is she is not willing to do it for you. at least now anyway. And to me 8 months is not a long time.

    i know that was a stupid post. don't know what i was thinking. what you say is correct just got to get over it. hopefully it all works out in soem way either she meets someone who is great or we just move on to remain single. :)
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  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,316
    Thecure wrote:
    i know that was a stupid post. don't know what i was thinking. what you say is correct just got to get over it. hopefully it all works out in soem way either she meets someone who is great or we just move on to remain single. :)

    There is a big world of beautiful women out there-meet them-enjoy them-experience them, cerish them, and find one without these complications my friend. Its tough enough to make a relationship last.
  • ThecureThecure Posts: 814
    Get_Right wrote:
    There is a big world of beautiful women out there-meet them-enjoy them-experience them, cerish them, and find one without these complications my friend. Its tough enough to make a relationship last.

    hard to meet women in my world. i work alot and all my friends are married with kids so they don't go out much. also i am quite shy when it comes to women. never learned how to interact with them. rolleyes
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  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    LongRd. wrote:
    This statement is very true, that's way most of my relatives hate me, because I'm just too American. They're still pissed off that I forgot my own language for God sakes.

    You could just be like me an never have learned it at all ;)

    I think Thai restaurants poison my food because of it.



    I say, stay away from this girl. It's hard enough dealing with Christian religions let alone one with a much different set of values.
    NERDS!
  • ThecureThecure Posts: 814
    South of Seattle wrote:
    You could just be like me an never have learned it at all ;)

    I think Thai restaurants poison my food because of it.



    I say, stay away from this girl. It's hard enough dealing with Christian religions let alone one with a much different set of values.

    i am not staying away from her, we decided that we shall remain friends. we go to teh gym together. we still talk about the issues that her dad has about not just me but about non-indian people.
    People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid."
    - Soren Aabye Kierkegaard (1813-1855)

    If you haven't got anything nice to say about anybody, come sit next to me."
    - Alice Roosevelt Longworth (1884-1980)
  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    Thecure wrote:
    i am not staying away from her, we decided that we shall remain friends. we go to teh gym together. we still talk about the issues that her dad has about not just me but about non-indian people.

    I meant stay away from her . . . in the romantic sense. By all means stay friends with her.
    NERDS!
  • InHiding19InHiding19 Posts: 2,385
    This is another fine example of girls sucking...............................
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  • ThecureThecure Posts: 814
    Oxxys wrote:
    This is another fine example of girls sucking...............................

    wow r u more bitter than me. she doesn't suck it is just difficult.
    People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid."
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    If you haven't got anything nice to say about anybody, come sit next to me."
    - Alice Roosevelt Longworth (1884-1980)
  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Seems like her parents are the ones doing all the sucking...
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  • duffyduffy Posts: 74
    Thecure wrote:
    hello all, i have been dating my girlfriend for a while. things are going great and we really like each other. so yesterday, i took the day off from work and so did she. we decided to go out to the gym and do some shopping and eating. i met her at the gym and when we went to the mall to buy soem clothes she sees her father and he freaks out that i am with her. i have never met the father but he is very conservative. the father is hindu and does not want his daughter dating any one who is not from India or from teh different caste. my girlfriend goes hoem with the father as she is afraid. she texts me later that night when everyone is asleep at her house. she informs me that she has to break up with me. we start to talk and she tells me that there are family problems and that her father has todl her that he will disown her if she contuines to see me. i really like this girl and don't know what to do. any advice?



    that's obnoxious. send the dad a note telling him you'd like to meet him but won't because he's hindu and see how he likes it.

    :rolleyes:
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