please give me tips on how not to get attached

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  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    polaris wrote:
    How not to get attached: Date me ... :p

    cool, give me your cell number and i'll be on my way to yours in no time :D:p
  • justam
    justam Posts: 21,415
    genie wrote:
    oh, i do want it to go and progress, it's just due to the circumstances he might be the one who will dump me. and i just want to protect myself.

    There's no protection anyway. Even when you try to, it just messes you up another way. :(
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  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    genie wrote:
    cool, give me your cell number and i'll be on my way to yours in no time :D:p

    google the only person in north america who doesn't own a cell phone nor drink coffee ... ;)
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    You're not gonna change him or save him.

    erm i might be guilty of thinking that i can save him...or make him feel better. :o you're right.

    but then what is love? if he cares for me....well i guess that could be enough for me.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    sponger wrote:
    honestly...if you miss soulsinging, then I'm not sure if you really are capable of knowing how to spot anything good in a man to begin with. All he ever did was open his mouth and allow a bunch of senseless drivel to come spilling out like sewage from a drain pipe. He was like Ahnimus, except with excellent grammar and rhetorical style. He was a hero to those who lacked personal conviction, and this is because he made an artform out of compensating for a lack of logic/reason with what basically amounted to well-articulated e-belligerence. I don't think he's missed by anyone with common sense.

    whatever...but i cannot avoid this post because you compared soulsinging with ahnimus. those guys are completely different! ahnimus is nice, a thinks like a robot when it comes to love and loves his wiki.

    as for soulsinging well that guy had character.....and in the end i've started enjoying his twisted character.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    anyway there are few things in my life right now that i feel like a cant deal with, last two weeks i've cried three times already: i've cried at home, in front of my work colleague, and in front of my boyfriend. eh, i'm going to detach myself from life itself...in other words i'm going to look at myself and see everything that's happening around me as if it's happening to someone else.
  • nothingman44
    nothingman44 Posts: 1,496
    my last girlfriend told me she loved me and then 2 weeks later, got rid of me to run off with another guy.

    i'm still not the same.

    my advice..be careful with who you let into your heart. you've only got one and it only takes one asswipe to break it big time.
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    genie wrote:

    so is there anything i can do not to fall in love with him?


    Sleep with his father.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    nothingman44 wrote:
    my last girlfriend told me she loved me and then 2 weeks later, got rid of me to run off with another guy.

    i'm still not the same.

    That sucks...I am very jaded about love right now. I'm starting to think there is no such thing.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • riffrandall
    riffrandall Posts: 685
    FinsburyParkCarrots wrote:
    Sleep with his father.

    Exactly!

    How not to get attached? Real easy. Don't fuck him.
    "If you're looking for someone to pull you out of that ditch, you're out of luck."
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    nothingman44 wrote:
    you've only got one and it only takes one asswipe to break it big time.

    :D

    that's why i'm not throwing around with those three words, so far i haven't told them to no one.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    FinsburyParkCarrots wrote:
    Sleep with his father.

    that's sick.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    riffrandall wrote:
    Exactly!

    How not to get attached? Real easy. Don't fuck him.

    i've been able to get attached to people whom i didn't fuck and i didn't even fancy. for me it's more about time spent together and their personality and our mind connection.
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    genie wrote:
    that's sick.


    Yep, but that's who he'll be in a few years time, for all men become their fathers. You may as well know what lies ahead. ;)
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    FinsburyParkCarrots wrote:
    Yep, but that's who he'll be in a few years time, for all men become their fathers. You may as well know what lies ahead. ;)

    :D i like your random jokes FinsburyParkCarrots :) they always make every serious thread turn to fun
  • JOEJOEJOE
    JOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,840
    genie wrote:
    whatever...but i cannot avoid this post because you compared soulsinging with ahnimus. those guys are completely different! ahnimus is nice, a thinks like a robot when it comes to love and loves his wiki.

    as for soulsinging well that guy had character.....and in the end i've started enjoying his twisted character.

    Whatever happened to that Ahnimus fella?
  • THC
    THC Posts: 525
    I DON´T TO THINK....I WANT TO FEEL.....

    take Eddie´s advice. don't create a self fulfilling prophecy...

    when we look back on life...i think we regret more those chances we never took.
    stop analyzing...and create! be flat out honest with him...have a real open talk, tell him you are starting to like him...want to see him more...but his comments have you thinking to hold back. see what he says...

    good luck...

    btw...soulsinging is gone aye? yes, interesting guy...funny...but def. doesnt rep. the mind of men...far from it...
    “Kept in a small bowl, the goldfish will remain small. With more space, the fish can grow double, triple, or quadruple its size.”
    -Big Fish
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    JOEJOEJOE wrote:
    Whatever happened to that Ahnimus fella?

    i have no idea, but him getting banned seems to me like an unlikely thing to happen.
  • JOEJOEJOE
    JOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,840
    genie wrote:
    i have no idea, but him getting banned seems to me like an unlikely thing to happen.

    He was way out there, and he really toe'd the line when it came to getting banned.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    THC wrote:
    I DON´T TO THINK....I WANT TO FEEL.....

    take Eddie´s advice. don't create a self fulfilling prophecy...

    when we look back on life...i think we regret more those chances we never took.
    stop analyzing...and create! be flat out honest with him...have a real open talk, tell him you are starting to like him...want to see him more...but his comments have you thinking to hold back. see what he says...

    good luck...

    btw...soulsinging is gone aye? yes, interesting guy...funny...but def. doesnt rep. the mind of men...far from it...

    i've already told him everything and he told me that if i start worrying about something going wrong then they will go wrong because i will push things to turn out that way. and i do see sense in what he is saying....

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