Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hhhhh !!!!!

luxpjamer
luxpjamer Posts: 837
edited April 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
my girlfriend told me yesterday that she hadn't her period and that it's two weeks too late !!!


3 tests positif ....

I'm becoming a dad !!!!! :eek: ;)

25 years, I'm still acting like a child...many questions like will I be able to go to concerts ;), will I act like I have too, will I be a good dad, what the Fuck do I have to do ???

10.01.08:
That was my first reaction and after some trouble during the first 5 months, we had a calm time. Then on a sunny epiphany sunday our Child Mattéo was born. In this thread you can read how things changed and which precious replies,comments and help I got from the members of this board. Maybe there are some who'd like to post in it who are in the same case as I or people which need some help because they just heard that they are gonna be parents soon.
I'll keep you informed about how our child has develloped and I surely need some help from people who are already parents and who got trough this...Thanks
Beavis : Is this Pearl Jam?
Butt-head: This guy makes faces like Eddie Vedder.
Beavis: No, Eddie Vedder makes faces like this guy.
Butt-head: I heard these guys, like, came first and Pearl Jam ripped them off.
Beavis: No, Pearl Jam came first.
Butt-head: Well, they both suck.
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  • western pearl
    western pearl Posts: 632
    luxpjamer wrote:
    my girlfriend told me yesterday that she hadn't her period and that it's two weeks too late !!!


    3 tests positif ....

    I'm becoming a dad !!!!! :shock: ;)

    25 years, I'm still acting like a child...many questions like will I be able to go to concerts ;), will I act like I have too, will I be a good dad, what the Fuck do I have to do ???


    Well, first off....congratulations. Just be glad it happened now rather than when you were a teenager or something.

    Just be happy. If you love the girl than it'll all work itself out in the end :)
    "Everyone is a patriot in some form or another.... i prefer the intelligent ones."

    "She fell funny"

    "Klaus Daimler, 40, engineer, calm, collected, German"
  • disconnected
    disconnected Posts: 2,875
    Concrats
    Ofcourse you will be able to go to concerts...
    I'm 29, a dad and still go to concerts when i like to...
    I still drink beers and wine in the evenings...
    My friend is dad still uses weed...

    Act natural, do what you think is best... Everybody can become a good dad when he's open for it...
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    I'm sorry, or congrats...

    That is one of my biggest fears at this point in my life.
    I can't even imagine!!

    Yikes!
  • luxpjamer
    luxpjamer Posts: 837
    western pearl wrote:
    Well, first off....congratulations. Just be glad it happened now rather than when you were a teenager or something.

    First of all, just be happy. If you love the girl than it'll all work itself out in the end :)

    Thanks !!!
    I really love her. We just bought a flat together, we are in the 4th year of our relationship. It wasn't planned but we always said that if this would happen we would keep the little monster :D
    There's no real problem, we got good jobs, two cars, enough space...and the funniest thing is that I'm not really scared ?!? and that's scaring !!!!
    Beavis : Is this Pearl Jam?
    Butt-head: This guy makes faces like Eddie Vedder.
    Beavis: No, Eddie Vedder makes faces like this guy.
    Butt-head: I heard these guys, like, came first and Pearl Jam ripped them off.
    Beavis: No, Pearl Jam came first.
    Butt-head: Well, they both suck.
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    congrats lux......sometimes when you least expect it......:)
  • luxpjamer
    luxpjamer Posts: 837
    disconnected wrote:
    Concrats
    Ofcourse you will be able to go to concerts...
    I'm 29, a dad and still go to concerts when i like to...
    I still drink beers and wine in the evenings...
    My friend is dad still uses weed...

    Act natural, do what you think is best... Everybody can become a good dad when he's open for it...

    OUF!!!! ;)

    I'm really opened and ready to make brainwashes "listen to pearl jam" :D
    The best thing is that when he/she is 20 I'll be 45.
    Beavis : Is this Pearl Jam?
    Butt-head: This guy makes faces like Eddie Vedder.
    Beavis: No, Eddie Vedder makes faces like this guy.
    Butt-head: I heard these guys, like, came first and Pearl Jam ripped them off.
    Beavis: No, Pearl Jam came first.
    Butt-head: Well, they both suck.
  • luxpjamer
    luxpjamer Posts: 837
    cutback wrote:
    congrats lux......sometimes when you least expect it......:)

    thank you very much...it's a beautiful surprise.

    and psssst you're the firsts to hear about
    Beavis : Is this Pearl Jam?
    Butt-head: This guy makes faces like Eddie Vedder.
    Beavis: No, Eddie Vedder makes faces like this guy.
    Butt-head: I heard these guys, like, came first and Pearl Jam ripped them off.
    Beavis: No, Pearl Jam came first.
    Butt-head: Well, they both suck.
  • luxpjamer
    luxpjamer Posts: 837
    mca47 wrote:
    I'm sorry, or congrats...

    That is one of my biggest fears at this point in my life.
    I can't even imagine!!

    Yikes!

    How old are you ?
    Yeah. It's very weird too imagine that you are gonna be parents and a little child who's your product is growing IN your girlfriend !!!
    In a few months their will be a little person who need protection, education, and love from YOU.
    Beavis : Is this Pearl Jam?
    Butt-head: This guy makes faces like Eddie Vedder.
    Beavis: No, Eddie Vedder makes faces like this guy.
    Butt-head: I heard these guys, like, came first and Pearl Jam ripped them off.
    Beavis: No, Pearl Jam came first.
    Butt-head: Well, they both suck.
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    luxpjamer wrote:
    and the funniest thing is that I'm not really scared ?!? and that's scaring !!!!


    That's a very good sign!

    You gotta get little him/her into the Jam ASAP. :D
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    luxpjamer wrote:
    Thanks !!!
    I really love her. We just bought a flat together, we are in the 4th year of our relationship. It wasn't planned but we always said that if this would happen we would keep the little monster :D
    There's no real problem, we got good jobs, two cars, enough space...and the funniest thing is that I'm not really scared ?!? and that's scaring !!!!
    That is so sweet!!
    Congrats! As long as there is love between you, things will be fine.
    My little one wasn't planned either. I would say this is one of the better surprises in life.
    You don't need to be doing anything now. But understand that your gf will be very tired during the first trimester, most likely. Be understanding because her hormones will be raging and always remember that she is building a little person inside her for you both.
    Best wishes to you!
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    luxpjamer wrote:
    How old are you ?
    Yeah. It's very weird too imagine that you are gonna be parents and a little child who's your product is growing IN your girlfriend !!!
    In a few months their will be a little person who need protection, education, and love from YOU.

    I'm 26.

    lol!

    Still scares the shit outta me! :p
  • Indian Summer
    Indian Summer Posts: 2,296
    Good luck....your life is about to make a 180 degree turn....hang on tight.
    "It's all happening"
  • western pearl
    western pearl Posts: 632
    luxpjamer wrote:
    Thanks !!!
    I really love her. We just bought a flat together, we are in the 4th year of our relationship. It wasn't planned but we always said that if this would happen we would keep the little monster :D
    There's no real problem, we got good jobs, two cars, enough space...and the funniest thing is that I'm not really scared ?!? and that's scaring !!!!


    Good to hear! My girlfriend and i have been together for 6!! years and i can't imagine having a kid. I'm 23, she's 24 and we're just finishing school and trying to find jobs. A couple of years can make all the difference :D
    "Everyone is a patriot in some form or another.... i prefer the intelligent ones."

    "She fell funny"

    "Klaus Daimler, 40, engineer, calm, collected, German"
  • luxpjamer
    luxpjamer Posts: 837
    mca47 wrote:
    That's a very good sign!

    You gotta get little him/her into the Jam ASAP. :D


    My girlfriend already told me that I should not try to "brainwash" our childs, like " yes, that's good music, say Pearl jam !" " do you want a shirt from Bayern München? Daddy has one too" :D

    so no mini-me !!!!
    Beavis : Is this Pearl Jam?
    Butt-head: This guy makes faces like Eddie Vedder.
    Beavis: No, Eddie Vedder makes faces like this guy.
    Butt-head: I heard these guys, like, came first and Pearl Jam ripped them off.
    Beavis: No, Pearl Jam came first.
    Butt-head: Well, they both suck.
  • western pearl
    western pearl Posts: 632
    luxpjamer wrote:
    thank you very much...it's a beautiful surprise.

    and psssst you're the firsts to hear about


    Woohoo. honored :D
    "Everyone is a patriot in some form or another.... i prefer the intelligent ones."

    "She fell funny"

    "Klaus Daimler, 40, engineer, calm, collected, German"
  • luxpjamer
    luxpjamer Posts: 837
    TrixieCat wrote:
    That is so sweet!!
    Congrats! As long as there is love between you, things will be fine.
    My little one wasn't planned either. I would say this is one of the better surprises in life.
    You don't need to be doing anything now. But understand that your gf will be very tired during the first trimester, most likely. Be understanding because her hormones will be raging and always remember that she is building a little person inside her for you both.
    Best wishes to you!

    Thanks!!!
    she was always tired even before getting pregnant :D
    Yes, being the dad means to be patient because you're just waiting and trying to help your gf...and that's going to be very hard because I surely will try to make things perfect and than shit will happen ;)
    Beavis : Is this Pearl Jam?
    Butt-head: This guy makes faces like Eddie Vedder.
    Beavis: No, Eddie Vedder makes faces like this guy.
    Butt-head: I heard these guys, like, came first and Pearl Jam ripped them off.
    Beavis: No, Pearl Jam came first.
    Butt-head: Well, they both suck.
  • luxpjamer
    luxpjamer Posts: 837
    western pearl wrote:
    Good to hear! My girlfriend and i have been together for 6!! years and i can't imagine having a kid. I'm 23, she's 24 and we're just finishing school and trying to find jobs. A couple of years can make all the difference :D

    Oh, yes!! Things are passing by so fast!!!! It's really strange. As child you're just waiting to become an adult and think that times' running too slow and than BOUMMMM!!!! you are working, becoming dad,etc...
    you'll see that by your own ;)
    Beavis : Is this Pearl Jam?
    Butt-head: This guy makes faces like Eddie Vedder.
    Beavis: No, Eddie Vedder makes faces like this guy.
    Butt-head: I heard these guys, like, came first and Pearl Jam ripped them off.
    Beavis: No, Pearl Jam came first.
    Butt-head: Well, they both suck.
  • western pearl
    western pearl Posts: 632
    luxpjamer wrote:
    Oh, yes!! Things are passing by so fast!!!! It's really strange. As child you're just waiting to become an adult and think that times' running too slow and than BOUMMMM!!!! you are working, becoming dad,etc...
    you'll see that by your own ;)


    I'm sure :) Graduation has come awfully quick. From there....who knows :D
    "Everyone is a patriot in some form or another.... i prefer the intelligent ones."

    "She fell funny"

    "Klaus Daimler, 40, engineer, calm, collected, German"
  • TrixieCat
    TrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    luxpjamer wrote:
    My girlfriend already told me that I should not try to "brainwash" our childs, like " yes, that's good music, say Pearl jam !" " do you want a shirt from Bayern München? Daddy has one too" :D

    so no mini-me !!!!
    You don't have to brainwash them. That is one of the really cool things about raising kids. If you like it, they like it. My son is always yelling Pearl Jam!!!!!!!
    And when RVM comes on in any form, he is like, "I love this song!"
    They can be really funny if you give them the chance. Mine is hysterical.
    Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
    And I don't feel right when you're gone away
  • cory
    cory Posts: 736
    *Yawn*

    If I had a dollar everytime I heard the 'ole "I'm pregnant with your child" comment.

    After a while, I became impervious to it.

    Currently, I have 71 children.

    Congrats, by the way;)
    Revive the heart of the heartless...

    Why would you start was has no end?

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