And you guys say wemen are difficult!

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  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    libragirl wrote:
    I'm sorry that happened. All I have to say is that people just suck sometimes.


    You never know whats going on in someone elses head I suppose.

    I'm just surprised.
  • PaperPlates
    PaperPlates Posts: 1,745
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Dating sucks.


    amen.


    and its not that men are difficult.
    or that women are difficult.
    PEOPLE can be difficult.


    Chin up.


    The "one" is out there. You'll probably find em when you stop looking.


    Least thats what gets me through. :)
    Why go home

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  • edvedder913
    edvedder913 Posts: 1,810
    PaperPlates wrote:
    amen.


    and its not that men are difficult.
    or that women are difficult.
    PEOPLE can be difficult.


    Chin up.


    The "one" is out there. You'll probably find em when you stop looking.


    Least thats what gets me through. :)

    so well put!!!!!!
  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    edvedder913 wrote:
    so well put!!!!!!


    Agreed.

    I suppose the single game has changed from the time I was 21 (now 29). I've noticed people are alot more damaged now. Not that they aren't good people, just jaded by the dating scene.

    Ugh. Anyway, thanks for the support. :)
  • Drew263
    Drew263 Birmingham, AL Posts: 602
    OneLove wrote:
    I haven't spoken with him over the phone since sunday morning before last (a week ago). we did talk briefly over email (last thursday), where I invited him out to a gathering of mutual friends (last saturday). he said he wanted to come, and would call me to confirm plans for the weekend.
    I don't have the kind of job where I can make phone calls during the day... but I was expecting a call sometime over the weekend.

    hmmm..so he emailed and said he'd call and then you never heard from him?

    I'd email one more time and say, "wtf dude?" Then if no response...see ya.

    But I'd hate to say "see ya" and later find out something happened to him.
  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    Drew263 wrote:
    hmmm..so he emailed and said he'd call and then you never heard from him?

    I'd email one more time and say, "wtf dude?" Then if no response...see ya.

    But I'd hate to say "see ya" and later find out something happened to him.

    Probably a sound approach (one more email). We do have a mutual friend... so I would like to keep things from being wierd.

    thanks for the advice!
  • Drew263
    Drew263 Birmingham, AL Posts: 602
    OneLove wrote:
    Probably a sound approach (one more email). We do have a mutual friend... so I would like to keep things from being wierd.

    thanks for the advice!

    No problem..I just speak from experience where I said "Fuck off" and later found out there was a good reason for whatever happened.

    Now I just wait patiently to tell people to Fuck off. ;)
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    OneLove wrote:
    Just bitchin about a guy I went on a few great dates with, but who apparently freaked out.

    yeah guys'll do that.it happens when they start to think and then it's all over red rover. :(
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • writersu
    writersu Posts: 1,867
    OneLove wrote:
    Seriously.

    Open letter to a certain someone...

    Why don't you tell me how beautiful I am, and how much you like me a few more times. Lay it on nice and thick.

    *That is sweet but I really don't need to hear it over and over.*

    I am not looking to be anyones girlfriend. I was, however, having a good time. I liked you too, when good things happen, you just roll with it.

    Then.... poof....... gone.

    Douche.



    {rant over}


    such a beautiful love poem........
    Baby, You Wouldn't Last a Minute on The Creek......


    Together we will float like angels.........

    In the moment that you left the room, the album started skipping, goodbye to beauty shared with the ones that you love.........
  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    Drew263 wrote:
    No problem..I just speak from experience where I said "Fuck off" and later found out there was a good reason for whatever happened.

    Now I just wait patiently to tell people to Fuck off. ;)


    I suppose I will have to learn to be patient as well.

    Oh well :) Thanks again
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    OneLove wrote:
    You never know whats going on in someone elses head I suppose.

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    yep..I have learned I have come to learn that.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • goldenegg
    goldenegg Posts: 371
    libragirl wrote:
    OneLove wrote:
    You never know whats going on in someone elses head I suppose.

    yep..I have learned I have come to learn that.


    And this is exactly why it's important for people to communicate in a relationship. You shouldn't have to sit there guessing what's on your partner's mind.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    goldenegg wrote:
    And this is exactly why it's important for people to communicate in a relationship. You shouldn't have to sit there guessing what's on your partner's mind.

    That's if both people choose to communicate.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • goldenegg
    goldenegg Posts: 371
    libragirl wrote:
    That's if both people choose to communicate.

    ... and there lies the problem. Communication should not be optional.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    goldenegg wrote:
    ... and there lies the problem. Communication should not be optional.

    I agree.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    Drew263 wrote:
    hmmm..so he emailed and said he'd call and then you never heard from him?

    I'd email one more time and say, "wtf dude?" Then if no response...see ya.

    But I'd hate to say "see ya" and later find out something happened to him.

    I emailed him, and he emailed me back immediately.

    He didnt' apoligize for not calling.... but he did clue me in on some personal stuff that is going on with him. Kinda makes sense now.

    I am still not sure I am up for teaching someone how to communicate though. Thats a hard job :)

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