And you guys say wemen are difficult!

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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    i guess he wanted a commitment,,which is crazy on his part

    he could of been waxing you scott free ;)

    what a schumck

    agreed.....girl just wants to hang out, have fun....isn't that how it should be? ;):D:D
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    nuffingman wrote:
    I like wemen from Yemen. :D


    hehehehehehehehehe ;)
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    cutback wrote:
    agreed.....girl just wants to hang out, have fun....isn't that how it should be? ;):D:D


    totally he could of been all up in that with no strings :eek: lol
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    I still feel sorry for the guys...I mean we bitch a lot and we say we want one thing and then get mad when we get it because we really wanted another...it's confusing I'm sure!! Maybe that guy was falling "in love" with you....you know that does happen rather you did not want a serious relaitionship or not, you really can't control your feelings that well! I sort of feel sorry for the guy!! :( Sorry...

    I don't, like the other poster said he might have turned out to be possessive later on. The guy i went with started getting possessive too.

    Falling in love?? love at first sight?? it's more like lust at first sight.

    and btw....i think both sexes are equal in their bitching about opposite sex.
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?

    Sound like my kinda girl! ;)
  • Drew263
    Drew263 Birmingham, AL Posts: 602
    Pretty much..I think people in general are just crazy. Women, men, men now women, women now men.....everyone's nuts.
  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    Drew263 wrote:
    Pretty much..I think people in general are just crazy. Women, men, men now women, women now men.....everyone's nuts.


    DEEP THOUGHTS by drew263 lol
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    genie wrote:
    The guy i went with started getting possessive too.




    :eek: That is a whole other story...some guys are just freaks!!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    mca47 wrote:
    Sound like my kinda girl! ;)

    what about me?

    i'm at a point in my life where i think i want to have fun but also stay safe and keep my dignity, therefore i would like to have sex everynow with only one guy but with no strings attached and nothing serious. sort of like someone i could have a beer with and then have sex and then to speak to each other again to repeat the same :D
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    genie wrote:
    what about me?

    i'm at a point in my life where i think i want to have fun but also stay safe and keep my dignity, therefore i would like to have sex everynow with only one guy but with no strings attached and nothing serious. sort of like someone i could have a beer with and then have sex and then to speak to each other again to repeat the same :D

    Yeah, that's pretty much where I'm at now too. I was with this girl for about a year. Towards the end it was getting rough and I just wanted to be single and have a little fun (while I'm still young) before I'm "tied down" to someone.

    Seems like 95% of the girls I meet are all looking for some sort of relationship. The other 5% are out there but I just don't know them/haven't met them. :p
  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    mca47 wrote:
    Yeah, that's pretty much where I'm at now too. I was with this girl for about a year. Towards the end it was getting rough and I just wanted to be single and have a little fun (while I'm still young) before I'm "tied down" to someone.

    Seems like 95% of the girls I meet are all looking for some sort of relationship. The other 5% are out there but I just don't know them/haven't met them. :p


    street walkers :)
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    mca47 wrote:
    Yeah, that's pretty much where I'm at now too. I was with this girl for about a year. Towards the end it was getting rough and I just wanted to be single and have a little fun (while I'm still young) before I'm "tied down" to someone.

    Seems like 95% of the girls I meet are all looking for some sort of relationship. The other 5% are out there but I just don't know them/haven't met them. :p

    I started off by wanting to be in relationship and be loved, but after i've read and been in few flings myself...i understood that relationship would probably be too much for me right now.

    so yeah, i mean i don't do one night stands, and i don't do different men. but i sure wouldn't mind doing the same guy everytime i need to have sex with no strings attached.

    but then i'd have to get someone outside my circle of friends, cause i still would want to keep my good rep :D:)
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Drew263 wrote:
    Pretty much..I think people in general are just crazy. Women, men, men now women, women now men.....everyone's nuts.



    exactly.
    i don't think either gender corners the market on crazy....each can be fantastic, and each can be utterly shite. male or female, it happens.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    street walkers :)

    they cost money, try happy drunk girls instead, but then i cannot guarantee you that they won't give you STDs, or shout "rape" after the deed is done ;)
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    genie wrote:
    they cost money, try happy drunk girls instead, but then i cannot guarantee you that they won't give you STDs, or shout "rape" after the deed is done ;)



    LMAO!!! hehehehe ;):p
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    genie wrote:
    I don't, like the other poster said he might have turned out to be possessive later on. The guy i went with started getting possessive too.

    Falling in love?? love at first sight?? it's more like lust at first sight.

    and btw....i think both sexes are equal in their bitching about opposite sex.

    actually, i fell in love with my ex-wife , not at first sight, but over the first 2 nights. she was friends of a friend of the girl i was living with. she came to our place for a weekend party. by the 2 night, i was in love. for sure.

    didnt do anything about it for 2 years, we would wind up being together for 13 years b4 we divorced. it does happen sometimes.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    I don't know wether to feel bad for the guy, or be angry with him. I just don't have that much patience for people who say they will call, but don't. Maybe something just came up this weekend. It just seems strange given the good times we'd had over the past few weeks.

    I guess I just don't see any reason for him not to call.

    FYI we also have mututal friends (he is close with one of my closest guy friends since high school). So it dosn't seem like he would just dip out for no reason.

    Maybe you all are right, he just got scared.
  • Drew263
    Drew263 Birmingham, AL Posts: 602
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    DEEP THOUGHTS by drew263 lol


    lmao..seriously. :)

    OneLove...how long has it been since he hasn't called? What's the timeframe here?
  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    Drew263 wrote:
    lmao..seriously. :)

    OneLove...how long has it been since he hasn't called? What's the timeframe here?

    I haven't spoken with him over the phone since sunday morning before last (a week ago). we did talk briefly over email (last thursday), where I invited him out to a gathering of mutual friends (last saturday). he said he wanted to come, and would call me to confirm plans for the weekend.
    I don't have the kind of job where I can make phone calls during the day... but I was expecting a call sometime over the weekend.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    I'm sorry that happened. All I have to say is that people just suck sometimes.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.

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