And you guys say wemen are difficult!

OneLoveOneLove Posts: 563
edited April 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
Seriously.

Open letter to a certain someone...

Why don't you tell me how beautiful I am, and how much you like me a few more times. Lay it on nice and thick.

*That is sweet but I really don't need to hear it over and over.*

I am not looking to be anyones girlfriend. I was, however, having a good time. I liked you too, when good things happen, you just roll with it.

Then.... poof....... gone.

Douche.

{rant over}
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    huh? :confused:
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    huh? :confused:
    I thought it was me
    what are "wemen"?
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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  • OneLoveOneLove Posts: 563
    huh? :confused:


    Just bitchin about a guy I went on a few great dates with, but who apparently freaked out.
  • OneLoveOneLove Posts: 563
    Allie wrote:
    I thought it was me
    what are "wemen"?
    Haha, apparently I can't spell.

    thats what I get for ranting in the 5 minutes I have for lunch (which I have now surpassed).

    Guys bitch about girls all the time, my point is guys are just as big a pain in the ass!
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    OneLove wrote:
    Just bitchin about a guy I went on a few great dates with, but who apparently freaked out.
    Dating sucks.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    Dating sucks.
    agreed
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    OneLove wrote:
    Haha, apparently I can't spell.

    thats what I get for ranting in the 5 minutes I have for lunch (which I have now surpassed).

    Guys bitch about girls all the time, my point is guys are just as big a pain in the ass!
    oh ok, I see now
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    you cats arent a ball of fun by any means :)
  • OneLoveOneLove Posts: 563
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    you cats arent a ball of fun by any means :)

    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?
  • Stone Is GodStone Is God Posts: 1,331
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    you cats arent a ball of fun by any means :)

    Agreed.
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me.
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    quote]
    maybe he was a possessive type and he just did you a favor?
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?
    Because maybe he really liked you and wants to be commited to such a fine person. getting action is all well and good, but to someone who wants more, it can only further the attachment and pain when the person moves on.

    I mean in the end people date for 2 reasons. Those that are searching for a commitment and a future, and those that want a companion for their own amount of time and reasons.

    There is nothing wrong with either.
    9/7/98, 8/3/00, 9/4/00, 4/15/03, 7/1/03, 9/28/04, 9/29/04, 5/24/06, 5/25/06, 6/17/08, 6/22/08, 6/28/08, 6/30/08, 5/17/10, 10/15/13, 10/16/13.
  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    OneLove wrote:
    Seriously.

    Open letter to a certain someone...

    Why don't you tell me how beautiful I am, and how much you like me a few more times. Lay it on nice and thick.

    *That is sweet but I really don't need to hear it over and over.*

    I am not looking to be anyones girlfriend. I was, however, having a good time. I liked you too, when good things happen, you just roll with it.

    Then.... poof....... gone.

    Douche.

    {rant over}
    ...
    ???
    Who needs to hear the compliments, here? Him or her?
    And who doesn't want to hear it over and over again? Him or her?
    ...
    And just a note about most guys... think of us as water. We will follow the path of least resistance.
    Allen Fieldhouse, home of the 2008 NCAA men's Basketball Champions! Go Jayhawks!
    Hail, Hail!!!
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?


    i guess he wanted a commitment,,which is crazy on his part

    he could of been waxing you scott free ;)

    what a schumck
  • How much for your white wemen?

    do they speak English?
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    and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
    over specific principles, goals, and policies.

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  • nuffingmannuffingman Posts: 3,014
    I like wemen from Yemen. :D
  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,179
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?


    perhaps you have those magic boobies and he wanted them all to himself

    :)
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    Allie wrote:
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    quote]
    maybe he was a possessive type and he just did you a favor?

    spot on! in my situation that is well...was. :D
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    no so long ago i had a little fling and the guy i was with also almost pushed me into declaring myself his "girlfriend" after only 3 or 4 dates.

    i guess in the end it was all my fault, because i liked him, but i also wanted to have sex.....so i thought "fuck it, i'm not going to say let's be friends for a while, and instead i said ok, fine...yeah, whatever i am your girlfriend"

    and it wasn't even worth it...i didn't even get a lot of action out of the whole fling :( and after going out with him...i don't even know whether relationship is what i'm looking for.
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    I still feel sorry for the guys...I mean we bitch a lot and we say we want one thing and then get mad when we get it because we really wanted another...it's confusing I'm sure!! Maybe that guy was falling "in love" with you....you know that does happen rather you did not want a serious relaitionship or not, you really can't control your feelings that well! I sort of feel sorry for the guy!! :( Sorry...
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    i guess he wanted a commitment,,which is crazy on his part

    he could of been waxing you scott free ;)

    what a schumck

    agreed.....girl just wants to hang out, have fun....isn't that how it should be? ;):D:D
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    nuffingman wrote:
    I like wemen from Yemen. :D


    hehehehehehehehehe ;)
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    cutback wrote:
    agreed.....girl just wants to hang out, have fun....isn't that how it should be? ;):D:D


    totally he could of been all up in that with no strings :eek: lol
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    I still feel sorry for the guys...I mean we bitch a lot and we say we want one thing and then get mad when we get it because we really wanted another...it's confusing I'm sure!! Maybe that guy was falling "in love" with you....you know that does happen rather you did not want a serious relaitionship or not, you really can't control your feelings that well! I sort of feel sorry for the guy!! :( Sorry...

    I don't, like the other poster said he might have turned out to be possessive later on. The guy i went with started getting possessive too.

    Falling in love?? love at first sight?? it's more like lust at first sight.

    and btw....i think both sexes are equal in their bitching about opposite sex.
  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,291
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?

    Sound like my kinda girl! ;)
  • Drew263Drew263 Birmingham, AL Posts: 602
    Pretty much..I think people in general are just crazy. Women, men, men now women, women now men.....everyone's nuts.
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    Drew263 wrote:
    Pretty much..I think people in general are just crazy. Women, men, men now women, women now men.....everyone's nuts.


    DEEP THOUGHTS by drew263 lol
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    genie wrote:
    The guy i went with started getting possessive too.




    :eek: That is a whole other story...some guys are just freaks!!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    mca47 wrote:
    Sound like my kinda girl! ;)

    what about me?

    i'm at a point in my life where i think i want to have fun but also stay safe and keep my dignity, therefore i would like to have sex everynow with only one guy but with no strings attached and nothing serious. sort of like someone i could have a beer with and then have sex and then to speak to each other again to repeat the same :D
  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,291
    genie wrote:
    what about me?

    i'm at a point in my life where i think i want to have fun but also stay safe and keep my dignity, therefore i would like to have sex everynow with only one guy but with no strings attached and nothing serious. sort of like someone i could have a beer with and then have sex and then to speak to each other again to repeat the same :D

    Yeah, that's pretty much where I'm at now too. I was with this girl for about a year. Towards the end it was getting rough and I just wanted to be single and have a little fun (while I'm still young) before I'm "tied down" to someone.

    Seems like 95% of the girls I meet are all looking for some sort of relationship. The other 5% are out there but I just don't know them/haven't met them. :p
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