And you guys say wemen are difficult!

OneLove
OneLove Posts: 563
edited April 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
Seriously.

Open letter to a certain someone...

Why don't you tell me how beautiful I am, and how much you like me a few more times. Lay it on nice and thick.

*That is sweet but I really don't need to hear it over and over.*

I am not looking to be anyones girlfriend. I was, however, having a good time. I liked you too, when good things happen, you just roll with it.

Then.... poof....... gone.

Douche.

{rant over}
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    huh? :confused:
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    huh? :confused:
    I thought it was me
    what are "wemen"?
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
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  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    huh? :confused:


    Just bitchin about a guy I went on a few great dates with, but who apparently freaked out.
  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    Allie wrote:
    I thought it was me
    what are "wemen"?
    Haha, apparently I can't spell.

    thats what I get for ranting in the 5 minutes I have for lunch (which I have now surpassed).

    Guys bitch about girls all the time, my point is guys are just as big a pain in the ass!
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    OneLove wrote:
    Just bitchin about a guy I went on a few great dates with, but who apparently freaked out.
    Dating sucks.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    Dating sucks.
    agreed
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    OneLove wrote:
    Haha, apparently I can't spell.

    thats what I get for ranting in the 5 minutes I have for lunch (which I have now surpassed).

    Guys bitch about girls all the time, my point is guys are just as big a pain in the ass!
    oh ok, I see now
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    you cats arent a ball of fun by any means :)
  • OneLove
    OneLove Posts: 563
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    you cats arent a ball of fun by any means :)

    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?
  • Stone Is God
    Stone Is God Posts: 1,331
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    you cats arent a ball of fun by any means :)

    Agreed.
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me.
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    quote]
    maybe he was a possessive type and he just did you a favor?
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?
    Because maybe he really liked you and wants to be commited to such a fine person. getting action is all well and good, but to someone who wants more, it can only further the attachment and pain when the person moves on.

    I mean in the end people date for 2 reasons. Those that are searching for a commitment and a future, and those that want a companion for their own amount of time and reasons.

    There is nothing wrong with either.
    9/7/98, 8/3/00, 9/4/00, 4/15/03, 7/1/03, 9/28/04, 9/29/04, 5/24/06, 5/25/06, 6/17/08, 6/22/08, 6/28/08, 6/30/08, 5/17/10, 10/15/13, 10/16/13.
  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    OneLove wrote:
    Seriously.

    Open letter to a certain someone...

    Why don't you tell me how beautiful I am, and how much you like me a few more times. Lay it on nice and thick.

    *That is sweet but I really don't need to hear it over and over.*

    I am not looking to be anyones girlfriend. I was, however, having a good time. I liked you too, when good things happen, you just roll with it.

    Then.... poof....... gone.

    Douche.

    {rant over}
    ...
    ???
    Who needs to hear the compliments, here? Him or her?
    And who doesn't want to hear it over and over again? Him or her?
    ...
    And just a note about most guys... think of us as water. We will follow the path of least resistance.
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    Hail, Hail!!!
  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?


    i guess he wanted a commitment,,which is crazy on his part

    he could of been waxing you scott free ;)

    what a schumck
  • How much for your white wemen?

    do they speak English?
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    and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
    over specific principles, goals, and policies.

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  • nuffingman
    nuffingman Posts: 3,014
    I like wemen from Yemen. :D
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,168
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    Worst case for this guy was he may get a little action out of the deal. Why mess that up?


    perhaps you have those magic boobies and he wanted them all to himself

    :)
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Allie wrote:
    OneLove wrote:
    Maybe not, but... I've never heard of a guy freaking out because I wasn't ready to declare myself his girlfriend. After just a few dates.

    I just got out of a really long relationship (7 months ago). But, I was having a really good time with this guy.

    quote]
    maybe he was a possessive type and he just did you a favor?

    spot on! in my situation that is well...was. :D
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    no so long ago i had a little fling and the guy i was with also almost pushed me into declaring myself his "girlfriend" after only 3 or 4 dates.

    i guess in the end it was all my fault, because i liked him, but i also wanted to have sex.....so i thought "fuck it, i'm not going to say let's be friends for a while, and instead i said ok, fine...yeah, whatever i am your girlfriend"

    and it wasn't even worth it...i didn't even get a lot of action out of the whole fling :( and after going out with him...i don't even know whether relationship is what i'm looking for.
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    I still feel sorry for the guys...I mean we bitch a lot and we say we want one thing and then get mad when we get it because we really wanted another...it's confusing I'm sure!! Maybe that guy was falling "in love" with you....you know that does happen rather you did not want a serious relaitionship or not, you really can't control your feelings that well! I sort of feel sorry for the guy!! :( Sorry...
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."