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GreenTeaDisease

I don't get this "friend" person, who tells someone they can move in with them and then disappears?

maybe she had an accident? have you checked the hospitals?

brainofPJ

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

I don't get this "friend" person, who tells someone they can move in with them and then disappears?

maybe she had an accident? have you checked the hospitals?

i thought the same thing.

people just assume they got the shaft and that their friend won't get back with them.

but speaking from personal experience, consider that something else could have happened.

GreenTeaDisease

AmentsChick wrote:

I think it totally matters. Well, ok...maybe it doesn't. But, it would explain it.

I agree, might not "matter" in terms of being statistically significant, but it could explain a lot...1 year isn't very long...I think I'd need AT LEAST 2-3 years.

JOEJOEJOE

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

I agree, might not "matter" in terms of being statistically significant, but it could explain a lot...1 year isn't very long...I think I'd need AT LEAST 2-3 years.

Funny how a fella in need starts a thread out of desparation, and it turns into people doing an analysis of his relationship!

aNiMaL

lucehifener wrote:

I talked to her lawyer, and even he said, "I've known this family for years, and Les, she wasn't ready. You probably didn't do anything wrong."

I would inform that lawyer that she was an adult that entered into a legal agreement with you. If she did that out of personal error, then she should be responsible to you for severely putting a damper on your life situation. Basically, the bitch should be paying you for being a snot nosed little bitch.

lucehifener

aNiMaL wrote:

I would inform that lawyer that she was an adult that entered into a legal agreement with you. If she did that out of personal error, then she should be responsible to you for severely putting a damper on your life situation. Basically, the bitch should be paying you for being a snot nosed little bitch.

If I could pick the outcome, it would be no divorce, and we would get on with our lives. I can't stand that she's done this.

lucehifener

Lukin66 wrote:

I just read your post, and I gotta say, I'm sorry. Keep strong and try not to get too bitter. I live in the u-district, and while I don't have a couch you could crash on, I'd like to help you out. PM me if you need anything

Dude, I'll PM you. I don't really need much other than someone to be around. One of the hardest parts of this situation has been that I've been completely fucking alone.

I'm not going to sit around and whine about the whole thing. I just think it would be really cool if I had some people to be around at this point.

lucehifener

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

I don't get this "friend" person, who tells someone they can move in with them and then disappears?

maybe she had an accident? have you checked the hospitals?

I think she's fine. If it was something like that, her stepdad would have returned a phone call to my One thing she said to me on the phone was that she had just gotten out of a 1 and a half year relationship herself. I have a suspicion that she got back with her ex, and doesn't want to be tied to me.

She obviously isn't much of a friend for doing this.

Trujeeper

First of all, I have been there...homeless...with my husband and ten year old daughter...no real help in sight...slept in the car...and I have a degree!

The Catholic church is excellent about helping people regardless of religious affiliation or lack thereof. (I'm Catholic...it is part of what we believe!)

The job is great news, for some landlords that is enough. If that church will help you establish a housing situation, that is the best news. We now live in Woodland....south on I-5 about two hours or so, you can't miss it...if you need local friends, I mean I know we are a good bit south of you but we are friendly. My husband and I have befriended hundreds, we have opened our home to dozens, for the night up to a year.

Personally, I am ashamed that not one person on here offered you a couch. If you had been here, you'd have been offered a room! I really expected more of my fellow PJamily.

Best wishes. Trujeeper (Margie)

lucehifener

Trujeeper wrote:

First of all, I have been there...homeless...with my husband and ten year old daughter...no real help in sight...slept in the car...and I have a degree!

The Catholic church is excellent about helping people regardless of religious affiliation or lack thereof. (I'm Catholic...it is part of what we believe!)

The job is great news, for some landlords that is enough. If that church will help you establish a housing situation, that is the best news. We now live in Woodland....south on I-5 about two hours or so, you can't miss it...if you need local friends, I mean I know we are a good bit south of you but we are friendly. My husband and I have befriended hundreds, we have opened our home to dozens, for the night up to a year.

Personally, I am ashamed that not one person on here offered you a couch. If you had been here, you'd have been offered a room! I really expected more of my fellow PJamily.

Best wishes. Trujeeper (Margie)

Well, I understand that people have their own lives, and their own problems. It's the fact that people care enough to say something that gives me hope. As I wait to find out what the church is going to do, my main concern is not being alone. Being alone definitely doesn't help.

I appreciate your kindness greatly, and I hope we can meet sometime. Woodland seems like a beautiful place.

Trujeeper

Woodland is a young town (literally only a hundred years old) and it doesn't want to grow up.

I'm from the east coast. When we moved out here in mid-'06, we slept in the car. The dog kept us safe.

Life should not be so hard.

PM me if you want. I'm not on here that often.

(M)

Heineken Helen

ajedigecko wrote:

that is good news.......take care and be safe.

also....would you be willing to explain to your new boss what your situation is? he/she may be willing to help....you never know.

yep, this is excellent news. I used to work in a HR department in a hotel... and people get 'subs' more often than you'd believe... even people just starting work. I understand it's the last thing you wanna say to your new boss but if it comes to it, it's worth a try!

Things are starting to look up for ya though. It may not seem like a good thing right now... but you've been shoved into a brand new fresh start in life. It's just hard in the beginning but it can be quite exciting if you think of it that way. You've already got a couple of people willing to meet you too.

Trujeeper... not many people are in a position to offer a couch. If you're living at home or sharing a house, it's not a decision for you to make at all .

Lukin66

Indeed.....especially in the u-district, which is the college part of town. We're all broke and educated though!