This situation is REALLY weird...?

MattCameronKicksButt

There might actually be a bit of sense in dunkman's first comment. You probably think about things too much.
If your looking for a serious relationship and you're questioning whether or not to see her then it's probably not meant to be.

Scrap that, I'm not sure. Maybe you should just see her as a friend and be honest about it, see how things go.
From what you've written, it sounds like your wife knows you pretty well and if she thinks it would be a good idea then maybe you should just trust her on that.

Ms. Haiku

Chime wrote:

I don't know if this would be of interest to you and it is based out of the UK but this is a group http://www.guch.org.uk/ for grown up congenital heart patients it may be based too much on those who are having further surgery but may have some things you can relate to

I was hesitant about going to this site because I didn't want to read stories about people who had to have surgeries again about 30 years after their last surgeries. It would scare me. However, last night I finally viewed the site, and the Tetralogy of Fallot stories, and those people KICK ASS! They totally validated my opinion that doctors don't know everything, but sure, modern medicine has it's benefits. One woman with the TET even had a baby! She didn't say the child was adopted or went into a long drawn out explanation so I'm thinking she just gave birth! It was so cool! Thank you, thank you, for showing this site to me!

MattCameronKicksButt

Thank God this is an old thread. I thought maybe you had discovered that she was your sister or something!