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OK so why the fuck can't people be who they say they are?
harmless_little_f***
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My ex wife is now with another guy - one of my friends, as it happens. I've said 'Fuck it, you know, he's a good guy, he'll make you happier than I was ever going to.' i.e. I've given them my blessing. You've got to understand that I was so fucking fed up of trying to make someone so high maitenance and full of baggage, happy. So I just told my friend it's not worth losing his friendship over, as well as my wife.
So after weeks and weeks of him and her giving me 'space' (translated as not contactiing me) my friend says hey, we need to clear the air. You need your computer looked at. What time can you get in from work and I'll come over, look at it, hang out. I had the impression he was bringing her with him... whatever. I said if you're still here at 6, we'll hang out.
Just got home. Looking forward to seeing my friend, I don't hold grudges. Looked around. They've both been here, it's obvious. They've turned all the lights off that I'd left on. They've taken one of the double beds, the old computer (not that I mind - I'm on a laptop) and fucked off. And they've left the house an even bigger shit hole than it was in the first place with my atrocious housekeeping skills.
Why the fuck are people NEVER who they claim to be? Friends? Life-long soulmates? Any fucking thing?
Just someone give me some fucking honesty..... Why is there no honesty in this world.
So after weeks and weeks of him and her giving me 'space' (translated as not contactiing me) my friend says hey, we need to clear the air. You need your computer looked at. What time can you get in from work and I'll come over, look at it, hang out. I had the impression he was bringing her with him... whatever. I said if you're still here at 6, we'll hang out.
Just got home. Looking forward to seeing my friend, I don't hold grudges. Looked around. They've both been here, it's obvious. They've turned all the lights off that I'd left on. They've taken one of the double beds, the old computer (not that I mind - I'm on a laptop) and fucked off. And they've left the house an even bigger shit hole than it was in the first place with my atrocious housekeeping skills.
Why the fuck are people NEVER who they claim to be? Friends? Life-long soulmates? Any fucking thing?
Just someone give me some fucking honesty..... Why is there no honesty in this world.
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
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Try not to let them get to you (change the locks).
Good luck man.
That's incredibly fucked up. I'm really sorry.
I don't know you well, but from what I gather, you really seriously deserve better than that. I wish I had an answer for why people can't be who they claim to be...because that question has plagued me throughout my life. I don't.
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
Why can't you borrow money from a crab?
Because he's shellfish.
Sorry.
You're a better man than I. I would have kicked the shit outta my friend for hooking up with my girl, no matter how high maintenance!
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
HE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!!!
I lost a good friend during the 06 tour, he messed around with my girl and then started dating her while I was on a ski vacation in Colorado... I do not talk to this prick anymore, and I could care less about him... Nobody really likes him anymore, which makes me happy!
This is good advice!
Gotta take some control, stop letting people push you around, and where the fuck is my cider??
He's right, Mark. ^^^ I'm really angry now AND really upset.
I can't answer your question as to why people aren't always what they say they are..
but I do know this - not all people are like that.
that might sound crappy at the moment but I know you know it's true.
KICK HIS ASS SEABASS!!!!!
Freaks....dude you're better off. What you're describing sounds similar to someone I used to know.
and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
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No.. sorry, I don't. I really don't. Not at the moment. The only people I trust are people who'll just stay away and not tell me a fucking thing about themselves. Then we've got something to work with. We're both oblivious and we can get on with it. That's how relationships work isn't it.
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
Perspective is everything, guys. Hopefully there were no kids (HOPEfully! ?) and you'll be able to move on and recover. Gotta say, revenge may be good short term, but will not really get it done in the end. I'd go the zen route : write a letter, then burn it, along with all your animosity. Sounds gay and fluffy, but it can work. Good luck, dude.
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Get the cops involved (get that Strongbow into you, already!) Wait...leave the Strongbow till after you call the cops...
Are you serious????
wth is wrong with people.
And why does she still have keys to your apt.
They just went in and took stuff???? So was he calling to see that you would not be there and just went in???
Unbelievable...
I am very sorry that you were treated like that.
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
She only took her stuff... I'm more just pissed off that the guy fucking chickened out - completely lost his nerve - before I got home. He said he wanted to 'clear the air with me' but he hasn't even got the fucking knackers to do it without pissing off before I arrive home.
Thanks everyone for the concern.
I just don't know who to listen to anymore. It sounds stupid but I'm having such a fucking existential crisis right now. I mean I can't be in a town/country/world that's so horrible to people all the time. All I wanted was to share my life with someone - love them - do what I could for them. And I get shat on. Where is the fucking justice and what place do people like me have on this piece of shit earth.
- the great Sir Leo Harrison
I'm really sorry m'dear, tis a shit buzz :(
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No present for her! heh heh *nervous laugh*
that is beyond sad. you're the bigger/better person harmless. i am continually amazed by ex-wife/husband stories. i cannot imagine loving someone enough to MARRY them, and then treating them so horrifically if the marriage doesn't work.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
Okay I totally take back my present comment in another thread, bitch is lucky if she gets a calender.
Not everyone is a shit head. Really.. they though, yes are shit heads.
OK, forget the stuff.
Forget the guy. Forget the girl.
Change the locks, move, whatever. You need to distance yourself from these people cause all their doing, and probably ever going to do, is bring you down.
Ok, now I'm seeing the situation. In the next day or two, tell her you need the space, and she needs to pick up the remainder of her stuff asap (if she hasn't already). You're not a storage facility (but don't exactly say that...hehe). Just the same, change the locks. It's your place, and you're the boss. They'll make each other miserable soon enough...heh
Chin up.
and reveling in it's loyalty. It's made by forming coalitions
over specific principles, goals, and policies.
http://i36.tinypic.com/66j31x.jpg
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sounds like what happened to my brother when his wife left (not that he was an angel)> He comes home early from work and she and her family and taking all the furniture, etc.!
HLF---do you have any immediate family close to you?
Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
Yeah. They're being supportive. They're the only people I know right now to be honest.
- the great Sir Leo Harrison