What would you like to change about yourself?

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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Well, yeah, but I already posted what I would change about my personality.


    In addition, I'd give myself PERFECT 20/20 vision. I *hate* having to deal with glasses/contacts.

    ah..sorry didn't see that.

    Well yeah Im blind as a bat. I cannot wear contacts so I would like to have that surgery one day.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • nfanel
    nfanel Posts: 2,558
    i'm too indecisive about little things. i purchased the first car i test drove and thought nothing of making a snap decision to fly to germany... but when it comes to picking out a sandwich for lunch....forget it.
  • goldenegg
    goldenegg Posts: 371
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    I got BADLY burned by a girl a little over a year ago. It still bothers me. I treated her like she could do no wrong, deified her in my own mind pretty much. When she let me down, it totally messed with my head. Thing is, I wonder how much I've learned from it. I'm still a pretty emotionally intense person.

    My experience made me do something I never thought I'd do ... see a therapist.

    I ended up questioning every decision I made about the relationship, even turning things that were clearly her fault on me. During my sessions, we discussed the entire relationship from beginning to end and I was completely honest about all my actions. It made me feel much better when the therapist agreed with my actions and had some very choice words about my ex.

    When I got back together with her months later, he was concerned about her intentions. I should have followed my gut and listened to him. I've since cut all contact with her and moved back to Toronto (I was living in Boston at the time). The only chance I have of bumping in to her is at a PJ show and hopefully that won't happen (with my luck, we'll end up sitting next to each other).

    After I finally got myself out of that relationship earlier this year, I took time to reflect and try to note the warning signs I clearly avoided. I'd like to think I learned enough not to get myself in the same situation again. The one question I've been unable to answer is why I was (am?) so drawn to her, which I find a little concerning.

    Oh well ... no one said life would be easy. I just wish that mine would stop existing in extremes. I'd love for things to just be 'normal' for at least a short period of time.
  • stickman jay
    stickman jay Posts: 44
    where live if that counts
  • covered in bliss
    covered in bliss chi-caw-go Posts: 1,332
    stickman jay wrote:
    where live if that counts


    where -you- live?

    Other than Bonnaroo, I can't imagine what Manchester, TN has going for it.

    I can't wait to move, too. No diversity in the burbs and you have to drive everywhere. Bleh.
  • given2fly10
    given2fly10 Posts: 485
    lose weight
    get rid of the hair on my body, i've always hated it
    And he still gives his love, he just gives it away, The love he receives is the love that is saved, And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky, A human being that was given to fly

    no bed=no brian

    coke sucks
  • Slip Kid
    Slip Kid Posts: 1,175
    brain of c wrote:
    pm me.

    Hahahaha!
    I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

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