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  • iamsampjiamsampj Posts: 784
    i'd like to not worry about other people's feelings so much. i try too much to be the nice girl all of the time...especially at work, i have to do what's best for the business.

    a better memory would be great too. i'm way too forgetful :D
    yes...i do feel like a human. i do not feel like a tree.
  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    Cosmo wrote:
    ...
    Okay... I'm confused... biting your ass is good... right?


    Maybe it is the beer I am having :p

    I just meant that I always think the best of people and so I don't expect them to turn on me .... :o does that make sense???



    And biting??? well sure ;)
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    My OCD is not cool and I would give anything NOT to worry about germs and be so damn anal about EVERYTHING !!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • OffHeGoes29OffHeGoes29 Posts: 1,240
    Sometimes I'm too bad ass........
    BRING BACK THE WHALE
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    OffHeGoes29 wrote:
    Sometimes I'm too bad ass........


    nice...!! :D
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    iamsampj wrote:
    i'd like to not worry about other people's feelings so much. i try too much to be the nice girl all of the time...especially at work, i have to do what's best for the business.

    a better memory would be great too. i'm way too forgetful :D


    The shitty part is often that others don't worry return the favour and worry about your feelings as much you do about theirs. Live for your self and do what makes you happy while trying to be considerate of others. :) At least that is what I am trying to do myself.
  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    iamsampj wrote:
    i'd like to not worry about other people's feelings so much. i try too much to be the nice girl all of the time...especially at work, i have to do what's best for the business.

    a better memory would be great too. i'm way too forgetful :D

    Me too, except for the better memory part and the part about being a girl ;). I have a memory like an elephant.
    NERDS!
  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icr0eW1fRSs
    NERDS!
  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    South of Seattle wrote:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icr0eW1fRSs


    Ahhh but you are already a balla ;):p
  • iamsampjiamsampj Posts: 784
    small town beck wrote:
    The shitty part is often that others don't worry return the favour and worry about your feelings as much you do about theirs. Live for your self and do what makes you happy while trying to be considerate of others. :) At least that is what I am trying to do myself.
    i concur...it's a slow process, but i'm working on it!!
    yes...i do feel like a human. i do not feel like a tree.
  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    small town beck wrote:
    Maybe it is the beer I am having :p

    I just meant that I always think the best of people and so I don't expect them to turn on me .... :o does that make sense???



    And biting??? well sure ;)
    ...
    Oh... okay.
    Don't lose your trust in people... but, you need to learn to recognize sincerity and honesty. It takes a while and people can often mask their true identities... but, you shouldn't deny the good and honest people out there because of a few a-holes. Learn from the assholes in your past and don't keep going there. A basic rule of thumb... if a person tells you he is trustworthy... chances are... he is not. Same goes for 'kindness', 'caring', 'giving', 'selflessness'. Anyone who really are these things... will show you who they are.
    ...
    And a little nibbling 'round the butt... yeah... that's what I figured... it's a good thing.
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  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    not to worry to much
    not getting to be like stress out
    not to be easily afraid
    be much much thinner
    more to know and getting idears how to dress etc.
    learning faster
    looking better
  • MattCameronKicksButtMattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    I wish I had more courage to make important changes in my life. It's like the logical side of my brain can't keep up with my stupid personality. :D

    I was going to start a thread like this the other day! But I changed my mind.
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    tish wrote:
    If you could have one not so pleasant personal characteristic/trait go "poof" and disappear what would it be?
    I'd stop being a sucker cuz i forgive people too easily and never see the badd.
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  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    OffHeGoes29 wrote:
    Sometimes I'm too bad ass........
    dammit i have that same problem.
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

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    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    small town beck wrote:
    I just meant that I always think the best of people and so I don't expect them to turn on me .... :o does that make sense???
    it makes PERFECT sense. Im usually SHOCKED to find out badd things about people cuz i NEVER exxxpect it.
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • goldenegggoldenegg Posts: 371
    SENROCK! wrote:
    I'd stop being a sucker cuz i forgive people too easily and never see the badd.

    We'd all love to believe that all people at inherently good. Unfortunately, that's not the case. The first step is to admit to yourself when warning signs start to appear, then acting on them as appropriate.
  • polarispolaris Posts: 3,527
    i'd like to be more self-motivated ... i got a pretty good work/life balance thing going on now - but at the end of the day ... going to an office and sitting in front of a computer (even if it's just for 40 weeks a year) still doesn't inspire me to get up in the morning ... i need a kick in the ass to do something else ... more meaningful to me ...
  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    Absolutely nothing...:p

    yeah that's not true. There are a few things I would change, people already discussed them.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    goldenegg wrote:
    I'm finding myself being extremely cautious around people after my last relationship. I was extremely emotionally invested, even though there were so many signs I was about to get f'd over (and I did). It's really true that love is blind.

    So I guess what I'd like to change is being able to get close to someone again and be able to trust their feelings for me.
    I got BADLY burned by a girl a little over a year ago. It still bothers me. I treated her like she could do no wrong, deified her in my own mind pretty much. When she let me down, it totally messed with my head. Thing is, I wonder how much I've learned from it. I'm still a pretty emotionally intense person.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    I'd like to be more spontaneous...and to worry less about things. Sometimes I feel like I need to know ALL the answers or ruminate about every possible outcome before making a decision. Sometimes this is a really good thing...but sometimes it gets in my way.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    I'd like to die and be reincarnated as Godzilla. Then me and humanity could have it out once and for all...

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  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Just for once, I'd like to feel like I really know what I'm doing....
    Most of the time I seem to bumble my way through life while other people live theirs around me...
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    eyedclaar wrote:
    I'd like to die and be reincarnated as Godzilla. Then me and humanity could have it out once and for all...

    Go Go Godzilla!

    oh boy..you are cracking me up today.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,681
    Cosmo wrote:
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    But the problem is... you don't know where it will lead.. until you've begun.
    ...
    What you need to do is pick up the signs early in the relationship. If you've been down this shitroad before... STOP! EXIT! Do Not Proceed.
    ...
    But, you shouldn't stop looking.

    Actually, I have intentionally set myself up to fail in relationships, you know, in case the pj boys knock on my door.
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    I'd make myself be less ticklish.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I'd make myself be less ticklish.

    ha..ha..I am so ticklish too. But I was thinking in more in terms of personality traits.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • pearljamgirl07pearljamgirl07 Posts: 792
    I 'd like to stop being so nervous
    "You're the eve of my destruction in the garden of fears"
  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    me being shy.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    libragirl wrote:
    ha..ha..I am so ticklish too. But I was thinking in more in terms of personality traits.

    Well, yeah, but I already posted what I would change about my personality.


    In addition, I'd give myself PERFECT 20/20 vision. I *hate* having to deal with glasses/contacts.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

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