What would you like to change about yourself?

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  • PearlsGirl
    PearlsGirl Posts: 257
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    I wish I stopped getting so emotionally invested in things/people that are bound not to come through for me.

    But I won't. It's just my nature.

    I wish I could stop this as well, it is my biggest set back in life. I let it get the best of me and dwell on the negative for so long. I actually want to stop this because I want to be a much more stronger person who can take care of herself. I know for a fact that I will probably never be married, so I have to learn to take care of myself, may be even better than what my parents have.
    Don't let the world bring you down, not everyone here is that fucked up and cold. Remember why you came and while you're alive, experience the warmth before you grow old.

    Best two days of my life: Oasis at MSG and Pearl Jam at the Gorge.
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    I want to have a baby.
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • PearlsGirl
    PearlsGirl Posts: 257
    Allie wrote:
    I want to have a baby.

    aw, i'm sure you'd be a great mom. babies are wonderful, as i am the auntie to a 7 mo. old. she's my world! i wish you all the luck in finding in the right person to have one with :o)
    Don't let the world bring you down, not everyone here is that fucked up and cold. Remember why you came and while you're alive, experience the warmth before you grow old.

    Best two days of my life: Oasis at MSG and Pearl Jam at the Gorge.
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    PearlsGirl wrote:
    aw, i'm sure you'd be a great mom. babies are wonderful, as i am the auntie to a 7 mo. old. she's my world! i wish you all the luck in finding in the right person to have one with :o)
    thank you very much, I appreciate that.

    Congrats on being an auntie, that is wonderful!
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • brain of c
    brain of c Posts: 5,213
    Allie wrote:
    I want to have a baby.

    pm me.
    d'oh!!!!!!

    http://www.myspace.com/brain_of_c
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    I'd love to be more open to people and live in the present tense, not dwell so much of my past mistakes/problems.
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • goldenegg
    goldenegg Posts: 371
    Cosmo wrote:
    ...
    But the problem is... you don't know where it will lead.. until you've begun.
    ...
    What you need to do is pick up the signs early in the relationship. If you've been down this shitroad before... STOP! EXIT! Do Not Proceed.
    ...
    But, you shouldn't stop looking.

    For me, it's not that I've stopped looking. I'm just finding it really hard to trust people right now. It's just going to take time.
  • small town beck
    small town beck Posts: 6,691
    Sometimes my thinking the best of people bites in me in the ass :o Not usually but when it does... it stings.

    That and I would like to have a WHOLE lot more..... ;):p
  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    goldenegg wrote:
    For me, it's not that I've stopped looking. I'm just finding it really hard to trust people right now. It's just going to take time.
    ...
    Remember... all men(women) are not the same... unless all you ever pick out is the same person... over and over and over again.
    If that's the case... then, yeah, you are the problem... not them.
    Allen Fieldhouse, home of the 2008 NCAA men's Basketball Champions! Go Jayhawks!
    Hail, Hail!!!
  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    small town beck wrote:
    Sometimes my thinking the best of people bites in me in the ass :o Not usually but when it does... it stings.

    That and I would like to have a WHOLE lot more..... ;):p
    ...
    Okay... I'm confused... biting your ass is good... right?
    Allen Fieldhouse, home of the 2008 NCAA men's Basketball Champions! Go Jayhawks!
    Hail, Hail!!!
  • iamsampj
    iamsampj Posts: 784
    i'd like to not worry about other people's feelings so much. i try too much to be the nice girl all of the time...especially at work, i have to do what's best for the business.

    a better memory would be great too. i'm way too forgetful :D
    yes...i do feel like a human. i do not feel like a tree.
  • small town beck
    small town beck Posts: 6,691
    Cosmo wrote:
    ...
    Okay... I'm confused... biting your ass is good... right?


    Maybe it is the beer I am having :p

    I just meant that I always think the best of people and so I don't expect them to turn on me .... :o does that make sense???



    And biting??? well sure ;)
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    My OCD is not cool and I would give anything NOT to worry about germs and be so damn anal about EVERYTHING !!!
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • OffHeGoes29
    OffHeGoes29 Posts: 1,240
    Sometimes I'm too bad ass........
    BRING BACK THE WHALE
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    OffHeGoes29 wrote:
    Sometimes I'm too bad ass........


    nice...!! :D
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • small town beck
    small town beck Posts: 6,691
    iamsampj wrote:
    i'd like to not worry about other people's feelings so much. i try too much to be the nice girl all of the time...especially at work, i have to do what's best for the business.

    a better memory would be great too. i'm way too forgetful :D


    The shitty part is often that others don't worry return the favour and worry about your feelings as much you do about theirs. Live for your self and do what makes you happy while trying to be considerate of others. :) At least that is what I am trying to do myself.
  • South of Seattle
    South of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    iamsampj wrote:
    i'd like to not worry about other people's feelings so much. i try too much to be the nice girl all of the time...especially at work, i have to do what's best for the business.

    a better memory would be great too. i'm way too forgetful :D

    Me too, except for the better memory part and the part about being a girl ;). I have a memory like an elephant.
    NERDS!
  • South of Seattle
    South of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icr0eW1fRSs
    NERDS!
  • small town beck
    small town beck Posts: 6,691
    South of Seattle wrote:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icr0eW1fRSs


    Ahhh but you are already a balla ;):p
  • iamsampj
    iamsampj Posts: 784
    small town beck wrote:
    The shitty part is often that others don't worry return the favour and worry about your feelings as much you do about theirs. Live for your self and do what makes you happy while trying to be considerate of others. :) At least that is what I am trying to do myself.
    i concur...it's a slow process, but i'm working on it!!
    yes...i do feel like a human. i do not feel like a tree.

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