What would you like to change about yourself?

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  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    small town beck wrote:
    Maybe it is the beer I am having :p

    I just meant that I always think the best of people and so I don't expect them to turn on me .... :o does that make sense???



    And biting??? well sure ;)
    ...
    Oh... okay.
    Don't lose your trust in people... but, you need to learn to recognize sincerity and honesty. It takes a while and people can often mask their true identities... but, you shouldn't deny the good and honest people out there because of a few a-holes. Learn from the assholes in your past and don't keep going there. A basic rule of thumb... if a person tells you he is trustworthy... chances are... he is not. Same goes for 'kindness', 'caring', 'giving', 'selflessness'. Anyone who really are these things... will show you who they are.
    ...
    And a little nibbling 'round the butt... yeah... that's what I figured... it's a good thing.
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  • ladygooddiva
    ladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    not to worry to much
    not getting to be like stress out
    not to be easily afraid
    be much much thinner
    more to know and getting idears how to dress etc.
    learning faster
    looking better
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    I wish I had more courage to make important changes in my life. It's like the logical side of my brain can't keep up with my stupid personality. :D

    I was going to start a thread like this the other day! But I changed my mind.
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    tish wrote:
    If you could have one not so pleasant personal characteristic/trait go "poof" and disappear what would it be?
    I'd stop being a sucker cuz i forgive people too easily and never see the badd.
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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    OffHeGoes29 wrote:
    Sometimes I'm too bad ass........
    dammit i have that same problem.
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  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    small town beck wrote:
    I just meant that I always think the best of people and so I don't expect them to turn on me .... :o does that make sense???
    it makes PERFECT sense. Im usually SHOCKED to find out badd things about people cuz i NEVER exxxpect it.
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  • goldenegg
    goldenegg Posts: 371
    SENROCK! wrote:
    I'd stop being a sucker cuz i forgive people too easily and never see the badd.

    We'd all love to believe that all people at inherently good. Unfortunately, that's not the case. The first step is to admit to yourself when warning signs start to appear, then acting on them as appropriate.
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    i'd like to be more self-motivated ... i got a pretty good work/life balance thing going on now - but at the end of the day ... going to an office and sitting in front of a computer (even if it's just for 40 weeks a year) still doesn't inspire me to get up in the morning ... i need a kick in the ass to do something else ... more meaningful to me ...
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    Absolutely nothing...:p

    yeah that's not true. There are a few things I would change, people already discussed them.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    goldenegg wrote:
    I'm finding myself being extremely cautious around people after my last relationship. I was extremely emotionally invested, even though there were so many signs I was about to get f'd over (and I did). It's really true that love is blind.

    So I guess what I'd like to change is being able to get close to someone again and be able to trust their feelings for me.
    I got BADLY burned by a girl a little over a year ago. It still bothers me. I treated her like she could do no wrong, deified her in my own mind pretty much. When she let me down, it totally messed with my head. Thing is, I wonder how much I've learned from it. I'm still a pretty emotionally intense person.
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    I'd like to be more spontaneous...and to worry less about things. Sometimes I feel like I need to know ALL the answers or ruminate about every possible outcome before making a decision. Sometimes this is a really good thing...but sometimes it gets in my way.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    I'd like to die and be reincarnated as Godzilla. Then me and humanity could have it out once and for all...

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  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Just for once, I'd like to feel like I really know what I'm doing....
    Most of the time I seem to bumble my way through life while other people live theirs around me...
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    eyedclaar wrote:
    I'd like to die and be reincarnated as Godzilla. Then me and humanity could have it out once and for all...

    Go Go Godzilla!

    oh boy..you are cracking me up today.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • Spunkie
    Spunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    Cosmo wrote:
    ...
    But the problem is... you don't know where it will lead.. until you've begun.
    ...
    What you need to do is pick up the signs early in the relationship. If you've been down this shitroad before... STOP! EXIT! Do Not Proceed.
    ...
    But, you shouldn't stop looking.

    Actually, I have intentionally set myself up to fail in relationships, you know, in case the pj boys knock on my door.
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    I'd make myself be less ticklish.
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I'd make myself be less ticklish.

    ha..ha..I am so ticklish too. But I was thinking in more in terms of personality traits.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • pearljamgirl07
    pearljamgirl07 Posts: 792
    I 'd like to stop being so nervous
    "You're the eve of my destruction in the garden of fears"
  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    me being shy.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    libragirl wrote:
    ha..ha..I am so ticklish too. But I was thinking in more in terms of personality traits.

    Well, yeah, but I already posted what I would change about my personality.


    In addition, I'd give myself PERFECT 20/20 vision. I *hate* having to deal with glasses/contacts.
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