Shit! Those went to you?!? They were intended for Dunk. So Dunk, I guess you got the pics of me in an exact replica of Mary Lou Retton's 1984 olympic gym suit? Well enjoy. Just know it wasn't intended for you!!!
that was you!!! that close-up was horrendous!!! i thought it was two otters trapped in a leotard...
oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
Back on thread topic... I can't think of anyone though who's been mean to me on the board and nice in pm's or vice versa I can't see how that would work.
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Back on thread topic... I can't think of anyone though who's been mean to me on the board and nice in pm's or vice versa I can't see how that would work.
I actually experienced that once.
It was on another board. There was this one girl who, for no particular reason, decided she didn't like me. And then she became friends with another girl on the board (with whom I happened to be friendly). Well, after a while, the girl that I'd originally been friends with started being really bitchy outwardly to me, but then try to make nice in PM's and in chat, whenever her friend wasn't looking..lol. She was all about putting on a show for her new "BFF"...lol. It was full-on fucking 13 year old behavior. The thing is, these girls were in their mid-to-late 20s...lol.
I give people the benefit of the doubt for a while, but eventually I can't tolerate behavior like that. It's fucking stupid and a waste of everyone's time.
It was on another board. There was this one girl who, for no particular reason, decided she didn't like me. And then she became friends with another girl on the board (with whom I happened to be friendly). Well, after a while, the girl that I'd originally been friends with started being really bitchy outwardly to me, but then try to make nice in PM's and in chat, whenever her friend wasn't looking..lol. She was all about putting on a show for her new "BFF"...lol. It was full-on fucking 13 year old behavior. The thing is, these girls were in their mid-to-late 20s...lol.
I give people the benefit of the doubt for a while, but eventually I can't tolerate behavior like that. It's fucking stupid and a waste of everyone's time.
They were probably just as ridiculous in real life, if they had one.
It was on another board. There was this one girl who, for no particular reason, decided she didn't like me. And then she became friends with another girl on the board (with whom I happened to be friendly). Well, after a while, the girl that I'd originally been friends with started being really bitchy outwardly to me, but then try to make nice in PM's and in chat, whenever her friend wasn't looking..lol. She was all about putting on a show for her new "BFF"...lol. It was full-on fucking 13 year old behavior. The thing is, these girls were in their mid-to-late 20s...lol.
I give people the benefit of the doubt for a while, but eventually I can't tolerate behavior like that. It's fucking stupid and a waste of everyone's time.
if you're in the right frame of mind shit like that can be funny... there's a lot of adolescent behaviour going on here too... from grown ups I put it down to boredom and not being happy with their silly lives... not jealousy!
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And I agree. It's very funny. Though, depressing at times that people stoop so low, just to "take you down a notch", you know? How sad!?
I know... some even go so far as to try and get you banned and stuff like that... why? What goes on in their little heads to make them so... what's the word? Pathetic?
If it's not jealousy, what is it?
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I think almost all of the world's problems are a result of insecurity. Unfortunately, I think it's just human nature to be insecure. So the problems will go on and on and on until the sun burns out. *sigh*
I think almost all of the world's problems are a result of insecurity. Unfortunately, I think it's just human nature to be insecure. So the problems will go on and on and on until the sun burns out. *sigh*
I'd agree with insecurity... sometimes also it might just be cos they're arseholes!
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or the people who act like they are such great, open minded, thoughtful, kind people on the board , and then in PM's, um, yeah, not so much
this could be me.
well i don't think i am that....but sure, i can be different in PMs. actually, not truly 'different'...but can truly say/be *me*, fully. i absolutely respect the rules of the board/forum, and thus try and behave appropriately out on the board. i am also a very private person, and also respect the privacy of others. some things, a lot of things, should not be out on the board, a public forum...and much should be left/discussed in PMs. so i respect that.
if i have a difference of opinion with someone and feel the need/desire to take it further, i take it to PMs. sometimes you just need to argue more, say more...and sure, tell someone to fuck off. also, i do not like to embarass people on the board, so if i think it might be too personal or whatever, again...to PMs. so yes...i DO consider myself a very open-minded person, and i do try and be kind.....but beyond that, no one can always be kind, and i like to be honest in discussion. sometimes that necessitates private convo off the board.
most of the time though, PMs are simply FUN banter inappropriate for the board. kinda like a public/private self. as much as i am *me* publicly, i don't share my 'whole self' with everyone. however, basically, what you see here is overall who i am elsewhere. i just can't be bothered with falsehoods and board personas.
I presume you're talking about me we're both really quiet people and there were WAY too many awkward silences
Absolutely you are One of the few people I've met who I'd say that about.
Exactly!!! I expected awesomeness from you in person and you far exceeded it! I have to dig up my fave pic of us - we're hugging and you're leaning at an alarming angle with your flag wrapped around you Priceless!
There were others that I expected to have a big personality and were just really shy...and stayed that way which was surprising. On the flip side, I met quite a few that seem shy on here but were louder than hell in person.
Overall I think people are more expressive and forthcoming in PM's, just because of the private nature of them..
most of the time though, PMs are simply FUN banter inappropriate for the board. kinda like a public/private self. as much as i am *me* publicly, i don't share my 'whole self' with everyone. however, basically, what you see here is overall who i am elsewhere. i just can't be bothered with falsehoods and board personas.
That's exactly what I wanted to say, but I didn't get round to it.
I am me on here, but I don't show all of myself to everyone...probably not to anyone. People choose to share different aspects of themselves with other people, and not everyone.
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Exactly!!! I expected awesomeness from you in person and you far exceeded it! I have to dig up my fave pic of us - we're hugging and you're leaning at an alarming angle with your flag wrapped around you Priceless!
There were others that I expected to have a big personality and were just really shy...and stayed that way which was surprising. On the flip side, I met quite a few that seem shy on here but were louder than hell in person.
Overall I think people are more expressive and forthcoming in PM's, just because of the private nature of them..
I don't know that picture... an alarming angle? But thank you... and same goes for you of course. I hadn't chatted to you MUCH on the board so it was great meeting ya
And yep, exactly about the shyness of some people! There have been some people who I thought 'nah, surely it's an imposter' but strangely, it wasn't
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I've only gotten a couple of not-so-nice PMs...a while ago...presumably from people speculating about the details of a situation and making up drama for their own entertainment. I didn't really take it personally since there are only a few people on the board that I would consider friends...and since I've chosen to put certain aspects of my life out there so in some ways it's human nature for people to speculate. I just assumed that they're viewing my situation through their own filter of experiences/insecurities/fears and let them continue to carry that rather than taking it on for them. Overall I've had very positive interactions with people both publicly on the board and in private...and the people I've gotten to know very well I like very much
I've only gotten a couple of not-so-nice PMs...a while ago...presumably from people speculating about the details of a situation and making up drama for their own entertainment. I didn't really take it personally since there are only a few people on the board that I would consider friends...and since I've chosen to put certain aspects of my life out there so in some ways it's human nature for people to speculate. I just assumed that they're viewing my situation through their own filter of experiences/insecurities/fears and let them continue to carry that rather than taking it on for them. Overall I've had very positive interactions with people both publicly on the board and in private...and the people I've gotten to know very well I like very much
really? wow! (the first bit that is )
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yeah...nothing really mean...just kind of like "where did you come up with this shit???" It was mildly amusing/mildly hurtful...but I didn't really understand where it was coming from and so it seemed pointless to get wrapped up in it.
some even go so far as to try and get you banned and stuff like that... why?
You're still here??? My requests obviously aren't being taken seriously.
I'm kidding of course. Someone would really have to be going out of their way to try and get someone else banned. There are a few posters I can see why someone would want them out, but those are the extreme (and obviously so) types.
I've only gotten a couple of not-so-nice PMs...a while ago...presumably from people speculating about the details of a situation and making up drama for their own entertainment. I didn't really take it personally since there are only a few people on the board that I would consider friends...and since I've chosen to put certain aspects of my life out there so in some ways it's human nature for people to speculate. I just assumed that they're viewing my situation through their own filter of experiences/insecurities/fears and let them continue to carry that rather than taking it on for them. Overall I've had very positive interactions with people both publicly on the board and in private...and the people I've gotten to know very well I like very much
amen sista... i just dont really care.. i mean if you like me thats cool and i have met some really awesome people on here that i would consider friends till the end.. but if you dont like me for whatever reason.. thats cool. i just think there are some people who live to make their lives miserable.. they just want to see life how they think it should be and feel the need to opress that opinions on others... either that or people just take this board way too seriously hahah.
yeah...nothing really mean...just kind of like "where did you come up with this shit???" It was mildly amusing/mildly hurtful...but I didn't really understand where it was coming from and so it seemed pointless to get wrapped up in it.
A lot of that stuff seemingly stems from Person A's inability, or complete lack of attempt, to grasp Person B's perspective. Person A being a jerk doesn't help matters, either.
yeah...nothing really mean...just kind of like "where did you come up with this shit???" It was mildly amusing/mildly hurtful...but I didn't really understand where it was coming from and so it seemed pointless to get wrapped up in it.
wow... but yeh, I know what ya mean... I guess people can either take you at face value... or not! But yep, pointless is a great word.
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hell he's have to grow manboobs just to fit into that!
that was you!!! that close-up was horrendous!!! i thought it was two otters trapped in a leotard...
When did amazon start selling those and what is the cost (both financial and medical)?
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i don't know just random picture i've found. if i were to buy something really sexy/treat for my boyfriend i would use this web site instead
http://www.eroticlothing.co.uk
actually this shop is pretty pricey....so for me to do so, that guy should be very special to me
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cause they're freaking screwballs
I actually experienced that once.
It was on another board. There was this one girl who, for no particular reason, decided she didn't like me. And then she became friends with another girl on the board (with whom I happened to be friendly). Well, after a while, the girl that I'd originally been friends with started being really bitchy outwardly to me, but then try to make nice in PM's and in chat, whenever her friend wasn't looking..lol. She was all about putting on a show for her new "BFF"...lol. It was full-on fucking 13 year old behavior. The thing is, these girls were in their mid-to-late 20s...lol.
I give people the benefit of the doubt for a while, but eventually I can't tolerate behavior like that. It's fucking stupid and a waste of everyone's time.
Off topic I like your potty mouth.
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Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
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Yes, that is most definitely true.
and lol
I need to work on the potty mouth! The little one is really into repeating everything I say.
Yes...definitely.
And I agree. It's very funny. Though, depressing at times that people stoop so low, just to "take you down a notch", you know? How sad!?
lol
If it's not jealousy, what is it?
Verona??? it's all surmountable
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Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
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insecurity
I think almost all of the world's problems are a result of insecurity. Unfortunately, I think it's just human nature to be insecure. So the problems will go on and on and on until the sun burns out.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
this could be me.
well i don't think i am that....but sure, i can be different in PMs. actually, not truly 'different'...but can truly say/be *me*, fully. i absolutely respect the rules of the board/forum, and thus try and behave appropriately out on the board. i am also a very private person, and also respect the privacy of others. some things, a lot of things, should not be out on the board, a public forum...and much should be left/discussed in PMs. so i respect that.
if i have a difference of opinion with someone and feel the need/desire to take it further, i take it to PMs. sometimes you just need to argue more, say more...and sure, tell someone to fuck off.
most of the time though, PMs are simply FUN banter inappropriate for the board. kinda like a public/private self. as much as i am *me* publicly, i don't share my 'whole self' with everyone. however, basically, what you see here is overall who i am elsewhere. i just can't be bothered with falsehoods and board personas.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
Exactly!!!
There were others that I expected to have a big personality and were just really shy...and stayed that way which was surprising. On the flip side, I met quite a few that seem shy on here but were louder than hell in person.
Overall I think people are more expressive and forthcoming in PM's, just because of the private nature of them..
This is my kind of love...
♥♥♥
That's exactly what I wanted to say, but I didn't get round to it.
I am me on here, but I don't show all of myself to everyone...probably not to anyone. People choose to share different aspects of themselves with other people, and not everyone.
I don't wanna think, I wanna feel
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And yep, exactly about the shyness of some people! There have been some people who I thought 'nah, surely it's an imposter' but strangely, it wasn't
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
I'm kidding of course. Someone would really have to be going out of their way to try and get someone else banned. There are a few posters I can see why someone would want them out, but those are the extreme (and obviously so) types.
amen sista... i just dont really care.. i mean if you like me thats cool and i have met some really awesome people on here that i would consider friends till the end.. but if you dont like me for whatever reason.. thats cool. i just think there are some people who live to make their lives miserable.. they just want to see life how they think it should be and feel the need to opress that opinions on others... either that or people just take this board way too seriously hahah.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you