I feel Like a Woman

Rygar

Phantom Pain wrote:

You thought this my coming out party ?



We'll settle this in a few months !

hehehe!

RolandTD20Kdrummer

cmon...time to make the baby...

talk about ruining the mood...

decides2dream

Phantom Pain wrote:

Her and her girlfriend are always talking about it..basically trying at the sametime

She has started on her Vitamins

She's telling me what I can and can't do...Like the hot tub on vacation

oh yea....and please, boxers or boxer-briefs.


it's a great time so enjoy, and obviously...be supportive. especially if she has friends who are also 'trying'. i know for many women it can be frustrating if it doesn't happen right away, if a fiend gets pregnant first, etc. people, and women especially, seem to stress themselves out unnecessarily about it all, which in turn, really isn't conducive to good sex, and pregnancy. it'll happen when it happens, at it's own pace. i believe for those under 30 it's said to try for a soldi year before seeking medical advice/intervention and over the age of 30 try 6 months first. i think the odds for most are good, and manage all on their own.

nick1977

Enjoy! lol

When my wife and I decided to have a baby she wanted it all the time. She stressed out about it, which was annoying, but understandable. My attitude was stop taking the pill, and we will see what happens. It took us about 12-18 months to get pregnant. No "help" from doctors.

If we had gone 18 months to a year, we might have consulted the doctor; however, we had already decided to adopt if pregnancy did not happen. At any rate, we now have a beautiful, friendly, and fun baby girl.....almost 8 months old!

I would try to discourage her obsession in getting pregnant. It will happen when it happens. The most I would recomend is taking ovulation tests and figuring out on which days she ovulates. Make sure to do the deed during those days. Other days it really does not matter, and obsession beyond that is not healthy. I know...easier said to quash this obsession than done.

Phantom Pain

decides2dream wrote:

oh yea....and please, boxers or boxer-briefs.


it's a great time so enjoy, and obviously...be supportive. especially if she has friends who are also 'trying'. i know for many women it can be frustrating if it doesn't happen right away, if a fiend gets pregnant first, etc. people, and women especially, seem to stress themselves out unnecessarily about it all, which in turn, really isn't conducive to good sex, and pregnancy. it'll happen when it happens, at it's own pace. i believe for those under 30 it's said to try for a soldi year before seeking medical advice/intervention and over the age of 30 try 6 months first. i think the odds for most are good, and manage all on their own.

I'm sure we'll hit some bumps along the way

She's overly excited right now

Yeah, they're already talking about who's first

My buddy and I just roll are eyes

decides2dream

Phantom Pain wrote:

I'm sure we'll hit some bumps along the way

She's overly excited right now

Yeah, they're already talking about who's first

My buddy and I just roll are eyes

make the most of that while you can.


and absolutely let us know when the joyful news arrives! love to hear about other people having babies! seriously, it is a joy to hear of others' joys......:)

Phantom Pain

nick1977 wrote:

Enjoy! lol

When my wife and I decided to have a baby she wanted it all the time. She stressed out about it, which was annoying, but understandable. My attitude was stop taking the pill, and we will see what happens. It took us about 12-18 months to get pregnant. No "help" from doctors.

If we had gone 18 months to a year, we might have consulted the doctor; however, we had already decided to adopt if pregnancy did not happen. At any rate, we now have a beautiful, friendly, and fun baby girl.....almost 8 months old!

I would try to discourage her obsession in getting pregnant. It will happen when it happens. The most I would recomend is taking ovulation tests and figuring out on which days she ovulates. Make sure to do the deed during those days. Other days it really does not matter, and obsession beyond that is not healthy. I know...easier said to quash this obsession than done.

Thanks for the advice !

Congrats on the baby !

She's plotting this thing like a game plan on how to beat the Patriots

Rygar

Phantom Pain wrote:

Thanks for the advice !

Congrats on the baby !

She's plotting this thing like a game plan on how to beat the Patriots

No video cameras in the bedroom, huh?

Phantom Pain

Rygar wrote:

No video cameras in the bedroom, huh?

HaHa !!

Not that she knows aboot

Phantom Pain

decides2dream wrote:

make the most of that while you can.


and absolutely let us know when the joyful news arrives! love to hear about other people having babies! seriously, it is a joy to hear of others' joys......:)

I'm sure I'll have more stories !!

Thanks for the good wishes and advice

decides2dream

Phantom Pain wrote:

I'm sure I'll have more stories !!

Thanks for the good wishes and advice

i bet you will!
:eek:






eh, as long as you get your happy ending....meaning, a BABY ....those stories will become precious and funny memories for you both!


and you're welcome.
from the childless by choice poster.