I feel Like a Woman

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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    CityMouse wrote:
    it's just like why do people feel the need to announce this sort of thing? I've literally been AT WORK and someone will say "my husband and I are trying to a baby." I don't walk into a room and go "so my boyfriend and I have been at it like rabits the last two weeks" or "so I masturbated twice last night." Seriously. Nobody cares.

    I wouldn't tell everyone at my work just people I know who would care

    This is a good message board topic...post anonymously

    Come to think of it I may send out a global e-mail

    ;)
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    I care! Was it good? :p

    Seriously though...it's no different than someone saying they are trying to adopt...the focus is on the end result - having a baby and their desire to have one...not necessarily on what they're doing to achieve the goal. For that there's a whole other thread ;) (although I'm not sure that technique would help achieve the goal either) :p

    Yeah...its not the sex part totally

    Its about the baby

    Its different if it just happens...but I guess people want to spread the word to friends that they're trying
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    I care! Was it good? :p

    Seriously though...it's no different than someone saying they are trying to adopt...the focus is on the end result - having a baby and their desire to have one...not necessarily on what they're doing to achieve the goal. For that there's a whole other thread ;) (although I'm not sure that technique would help achieve the goal either) :p



    :D



    i do believe orgasms are said to help a woman achieve pregnancy.






















    (ok, i made that up....just trying to help the wife out)
    :D





    in all seriousness though, i HAVE read that it being 'enjoyable' does indeed help the process. bodily fluids mixing, etc...don't want to get too graphic and ruin a good thread here, my apologies.
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Just don't tell your wife if you take off - she'll want it even more :eek:

    Yeah...she'll mysteriously start coming home for lunch that week

    :cool:
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Yeah...its not the sex part totally

    Its about the baby

    Its different if it just happens...but I guess people want to spread the word to friends that they're trying
    Yeah - totally - it's like anything else that's really important to you and that you hope will happen...you want to share it with friends, etc. It's exciting!

    Btw - good luck! I hope to hear about the arrival of a baby phantom pain in about 9 months or so ;)
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    :D



    i do believe orgasms are said to help a woman achieve pregnancy.






















    (ok, i made that up....just trying to help the wife out)
    :D





    in all seriousness though, i HAVE read that it being 'enjoyable' does indeed help the process. bodily fluids mixing, etc...don't want to get too graphic and ruin a good thread here, my apologies.
    I've heard that too. I'm sure there's some truth to it.

    Keep that in mind PP ;)
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Friends of ours have been saying different techniques to determine the sex of the baby ??

    I drew the line when someone said "Standing on your head" after the fact

    :confused:
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Yeah - totally - it's like anything else that's really important to you and that you hope will happen...you want to share it with friends, etc. It's exciting!

    Btw - good luck! I hope to hear about the arrival of a baby phantom pain in about 9 months or so ;)

    Thank you

    At least its fun trying :)

    The whole pregnancy will be headphones on her belly with PJ playing

    :D
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Friends of ours have been saying different techniques to determine the sex of the baby ??

    I drew the line when someone said "Standing on your head" after the fact

    :confused:



    different times of the month.


    Y sperm swim faster but die off sooner. X sperm are a wee bit slower, but live longer. so basically, it's said if you want a boy, have sex right at the start ofovulation. if you want a girl, have it a couple days ahead of the start of ovulation. if you just want to have a baby. do what you and your wife are doing...go at it like bunnies to increase the likelihood of a pregnancy, period. obviously, none of this is 100% guaranteed....just ups the chances.
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  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Friends of ours have been saying different techniques to determine the sex of the baby ??

    I drew the line when someone said "Standing on your head" after the fact

    :confused:
    Well at least they didn't recommend it DURING the act :eek: That would just be dangerous :p

    I've heard old wives tales about that...not sure how much truth there is to them....but just remember the sex of the baby will be determined by you - so it's all up to you now! :eek:
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    My wife is in full "I want a baby" mode

    Every night we have been doing the deed

    Now I know how she feels when I would hound her all the time

    ;)


    I am truly sorry... about the baby part. No amount of sex is worth that.
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  • rival.
    rival. Chicago Posts: 7,775
    haha. good luck to you both!
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    different times of the month.


    Y sperm swim faster but die off sooner. X sperm are a wee bit slower, but live longer. so basically, it's said if you want a boy, have sex right at the start ofovulation. if you want a girl, have it a couple days ahead of the start of ovulation. if you just want to have a baby. do what you and your wife are doing...go at it like bunnies to increase the likelihood of a pregnancy, period. obviously, none of this is 100% guaranteed....just ups the chances.

    We'll be watching TV and shes on the Laptop all night looking things up

    Different websites and message boards

    Its consuming her !

    We have twins on both sides of the family...I wonder what the likely hood of twins is for us ??
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Well at least they didn't recommend it DURING the act :eek: That would just be dangerous :p

    I've heard old wives tales about that...not sure how much truth there is to them....but just remember the sex of the baby will be determined by you - so it's all up to you now! :eek:

    Yeah we don't want any mishaps ;)

    My family is mainly boys...although my brother broke the trend and has a baby girl
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    eyedclaar wrote:
    I am truly sorry... about the baby part. No amount of sex is worth that.

    I hear ya

    I never thought I would get to this point in my life

    Its Bizarre
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    We'll be watching TV and shes on the Laptop all night looking things up

    Different websites and message boards

    Its consuming her !

    We have twins on both sides of the family...I wonder what the likely hood of twins is for us ??



    well there is a ridiculous amount of information out there! i actually know quite a lot b/c once upon a time i did think i wanted a child, so we did a lot of 'research'....and all, but then sure, we wised up. ;) haha. seriously, j/k....we realized, not for us....but totally HAPPY for those who choose to have a family!


    don't get overwhelmed with it all, just enjoy it. :D truly, you read stuff, talk to doctors, etc.....SOOO much, information overload. honestly, it's said it's a wonder anyone gets pregnant given the small window of time for it to truly happen. but hey, people have been doing so without the help of todays science since, well, the beginning of people.



    and i do hope she's already taking her pre-natal vitamins. :)
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  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,711
    I saw the title and poster's name and was not surprised.
    However, this thread isn't what I was expecting.
    :p

    Enjoy it while it lasts!
  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    haha. good luck to you both!

    Thanks

    I never thought I would have kids or get married

    Now look !!

    ;)
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    well there is a ridiculous amount of information out there! i actually know quite a lot b/c once upon a time i did think i wanted a child, so we did a lot of 'research'....and all, but then sure, we wised up. ;) haha. seriously, j/k....we realized, not for us....but totally HAPPY for those who choose to have a family!


    don't get overwhelmed with it all, just enjoy it. :D truly, you read stuff, talk to doctors, etc.....SOOO much, information overload. honestly, it's said it's a wonder anyone gets pregnant given the small window of time for it to truly happen. but hey, people have been doing so without the help of todays science since, well, the beginning of people.



    and i do hope she's already taking her pre-natal vitamins. :)

    Her and her girlfriend are always talking about it..basically trying at the sametime

    She has started on her Vitamins

    She's telling me what I can and can't do...Like the hot tub on vacation :o
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  • Phantom Pain
    Phantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Rygar wrote:
    I saw the title and poster's name and was not surprised.
    However, this thread isn't what I was expecting.
    :p

    Enjoy it while it lasts!

    You thought this my coming out party ?

    ;)

    We'll settle this in a few months !
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