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HailHailVitalogyHailHailVitalogy Posts: 5,414
edited May 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
Ok so if there is anyone willing to give me advice, now is the time. Please read the whole thing if you are kind enough to give your advice.

7 more days and I leave school to go back home for the summer.

When school began I found a group of people that branched off a little bit. Within this group was a girl named Brittney, and she was absolutely gorgeous and she had this southern personality that was attractive for a northerner like me. She had a boyfriend since senior year of high school that she was dating. She still dated him up until 3 weeks ago, when they broke up. During the time they were dating we were kind of the "opposite sex best friends".

She began spending time with another guy, that she got into a big fight two nights ago and I don't know whats going on with that. Since her and her boyfriend broke up, we have been going out to get food and going out together a little more. She always comes to me with her problems that she doesn't tell anyone. Then she suggests that me and her go on a "fake date" and get dressed up and do something because she's been stressed and wants to be taken out by a nice guy.

Many people would read into that as her asking me out...but most likely is what she said, a fake date. That happens this Friday night.

I like this girl a lot, and I'm not one for expressing my feelings out face to face because I'm worried about the outcome. I was thinking of writing her a letter and leaving it in her room on her desk...i don't know

It's so confusing, this girl is absolutely amazing. I've never really felt this way about any other girl that I have met. I mean sometimes she flirts with me a lot and does really cute things. For example, last week I went to get food with her and a few friends, and I locked my keys in the car and i was really ticked off...she walks away and buys me ice cream and brings it back....the little things in life!!

I don't really know what advice I'm seeking...I guess how to go about this? She's staying the summer at school and taking classes while I'm home...this timing sucks! But I am coming back down for a week in June and then August...
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  • MerkingBoyMerkingBoy Posts: 249
    tell hur u luv hur & want 2 4ter da relachin ship n2 a mo oph BF/GF typ.
  • HailHailVitalogyHailHailVitalogy Posts: 5,414
    ok eminem...english? lol
    2003: Uniondale, MSG x2 | 2004: Reading | 2005: Gorge, Vancouver, Philly | 2006: East Rutherford x2, Gorge x2, Camden 1, Hartford | 2008: MSG x2, VA Beach | 2009: Philly x3 | 2010: MSG x2, Bristow | 2011: Alpine Valley x2 | 2012: MIA Philly | 2013: Wrigley, Charlottesville, Brooklyn 2 | 2014: Milan, Amsterdam 1 | 2016: MSG x2, Fenway x2, Wrigley 2 | 2018: Rome, Krakow, Berlin, Wrigley 2 | 2021: Sea Hear Now | 2022: San Diego, LA x2, MSG, Camden, Nashville, St. Louis, Denver | 2023: St. Paul 1, Chicago x2, Fort Worth x2, Austin 2 | 2024: Las Vegas 1, Seattle x2, Indy, MSG x2, Philly x2, Baltimore, Ohana 2
  • harmless_little_f***harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Just swallow it up and ask her out man! I don't know how old you are but letters on desks are a bit early 90's/ Saved by the Bell. ;)
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  • MerkingBoyMerkingBoy Posts: 249
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    ok eminem...english? lol
    dat'z how I tawk 2 a gurl n pursin. str8 gangsta. tey lyk it!
  • restlesssoulrestlesssoul Posts: 6,951
    in the words of tupac : " now tell me, is it cool to fuck?"




    but seriously, it sounds like you were her 3rd choice, she's just rebounding and i dont think she cares for you the way you do about her. just because its cruel doesnt mean its not true. dont do anything but leave, and if you see her when you go back, see what happens then. trust me, time is on your side.
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  • stylo17stylo17 Posts: 1,001
    MerkingBoy wrote:
    dat'z how I tawk 2 a gurl n pursin. str8 gangsta. tey lyk it!

    MOVING ON....


    dude I've done both things. 1) tell her how you feel, or 2) don't tell her how you feel and enjoy every minute with her. depending on the girl, she may react well or poorly to you telling her how you really feel. some girls will see it as "awkward" that their best friend likes them, and it can ruin the friendship you two have because she wants a friendship and you want more. or some girls will say "no let's stay friends" and move on and keep the relationship the same it was prior to you saying that. but some girls will give you a shot and go out with you, even if you were previously good friends. obviously, that's what we're hoping for here.

    if you DON'T tell her how you feel, you know that at least you will stay close friends, but nothing more. and that, over time, can really eat away at you. and that's completely normal. yes you want to include yourself in her life in a different way but you also don't want to lose her friendship. really, if you don't tell her, you may end up driving yourself crazy, and not wanting to talk to her or be with her anymore because it makes you miserable (especially when she tells you about the other guys involved in her life).

    Timing is another issue. it doesn't seem like there has been a lot of time between her past relationship, take that into consideration. only you can gauge how she feels about that relationship.

    Oh, I also wouldn't really do the letter thing, I would just say it to her in person. pick the right occasion (go get ice cream or grab a bite) and just look her in the eye and say it. say whatever comes out, be natural, you don't want her to like someone you really aren't.

    whatever you decide, good luck. personal recommendation: tell her. you only live once, with no regrets, and you never want to think years down the road "if only I had said something."
    6/11/08 WPB


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    ♬♪♫ cause a soldier's death is so much better than defeat just hanging around
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Which thread do you see most on here:

    People regretting telling their friend how they feel years later?

    Or

    People regretting the one that got away years later?

    Just off hand... I'd go with the latter. Treat it as a fake date at first but treat her really well and show her what she COULD have with you.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • MerkingBoyMerkingBoy Posts: 249
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    Which thread do you see most on here:

    People regretting telling their friend how they feel years later?

    Or

    People regretting the one that got away years later?

    Just off hand... I'd go with the latter. Treat it as a fake date at first but treat her really well and show her what she COULD have with you.
    :(
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    MerkingBoy wrote:
    :(
    :( I'm sorry... but it just wasn't meant to be though, eh? I've had two that got away... but I'm now with somebody amazing so if I could turn back the clock and change things... absolutely no chance in fucking hell :o . You'll find your one too! I know it doesn't feel like it and you're probably hating me right now for even saying it... but I'm always right ;)
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • MerkingBoyMerkingBoy Posts: 249
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    :( I'm sorry... but it just wasn't meant to be though, eh? I've had two that got away... but I'm now with somebody amazing so if I could turn back the clock and change things... absolutely no chance in fucking hell :o . You'll find your one too! I know it doesn't feel like it and you're probably hating me right now for even saying it... but I'm always right ;)
    Pahlus(+),
    Dis 1 got ah way 2 dis gigh
  • westsidepiewestsidepie Posts: 627
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    Which thread do you see most on here:

    People regretting telling their friend how they feel years later?

    Or

    People regretting the one that got away years later?

    Just off hand... I'd go with the latter. Treat it as a fake date at first but treat her really well and show her what she COULD have with you.

    I agree with Helen. Be there as you always were, and let the light come on for her. In other words, see if it becomes her idea to change the nature of the relationship. I would give her some time by keeping your relationship going, but at some point you have to say how you feel. I would also probably phrase it something like, "lately I have started to see you in a different way, and my feelings for you have changed." Don't do this by letter.
    To pie I will reply
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  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    restlesssoul wrote:
    in the words of tupac : " now tell me, is it cool to fuck?"




    but seriously, it sounds like you were her 3rd choice, she's just rebounding and i dont think she cares for you the way you do about her. just because its cruel doesnt mean its not true. dont do anything but leave, and if you see her when you go back, see what happens then. trust me, time is on your side.

    I have to go with restlesssoul here. She's rebounding and looking to avoid being alone. A lot of women, especially young women, tend to jump from one lily pad to the next and almost always do it with a "safety guy" in mind. Men do it too but it's more common with women. I do say you should tell her you care about her, like her but that you're headed home for the summer and you'll see her in the fall. Yes, time is on your side.
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

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  • electronblueelectronblue WPB Florida Posts: 3,460
    if you have to go..you could leave her some beautiful poetic pearl jam verses such as the ones below...~
    :)


    Is there room enough for both of us?
    Both of us apart?
    Are we bound out of obligation?
    Is that all we've got?
    Get the words, and then I get to thinkin'
    I don't wanna think, I wanna feel
    How do I feel?
    How do I?...

    If you're the only one, will I never be enough?
    Hail, hail the lucky ones, I refer to those in love

    Swore I'd love you till the day I die, ah and beyond...
    Are we going to the same place? If so, can I come?
    It's egg rolling thick and heavy
    All the past you carry
    Oh, I could be new... you underestimate me

    If you're the only one, will I never be enough?
    Hail, hail the lucky ones, I refer to those in love

    Sometimes realize, I could only be as good as you'll let me
    Are you woman enough to be my man?
    Bandaged hand in hand

    I find it on the run in a race that can't be won
    All hail the lucky ones, I refer to those in love, yeah
    If you're my only one, so could you only one?
    I want to be your one, enough...
    Your one...your one...your one...
    ********************************
    "Forgive every being,
    the bad feelings 
    it's just me"


  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    restlesssoul wrote:
    in the words of tupac : " now tell me, is it cool to fuck?"
    'how do you want it? how do you need it?'
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Been there mate, exact same situation, even down to the fake date, although that happened when she was still seeing her boyfriend and he just couldn't make it to a formal event so I went with her since we were such good friends that her boyfriend referred to me as her "other boyfriend" jokingly. When they broke up, I started having really strong feelings for her, basically fell for her and she started showing an interest. At the end of the day, it was a rebound thing for her and she wasn't really interested but I was totally in love, blah di blah, I told her how I felt, she freaked out, our friendship was never the same, I sunk into an 8 month on-off depression over the loss of my best friend/girl I loved.

    Moral of the story is, even though it wouldn't necessarily be the same for you, you might live happily ever after if you tell her how you feel, for me, and our stories sound VERY similar, it all went to shit and I regularly think about how much I regret it. I don't even care about the loss of the romantic prospects anymore, that fades and yours would too, I just wish I still had her as a friend. I would therefore think very carefully about whether or not you want to risk that because no matter how much you think you know this girl, you never know how a situation like this will pan out. I never thought in a million years that my friend would just cut me out completely, I thought if she knocked me back our friendship would hold up. I guess I was naive :) But you live and learn. Just be careful.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    SENROCK! wrote:
    'how do you want it? how do you need it?'
    'I love the way you activate your hips n' push your ass out'


    what an opening line :p
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    'I love the way you activate your hips n' push your ass out'


    what an opening line :p
    DAMN i LOVE this song!!!!!
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • markymark550markymark550 Columbia, SC Posts: 5,173
    Like a lot of others here, I've been through a similar situation. Mine never got to the "fake date" part as I told the girl how I felt before it got to that point. Needless to say, it was hard to stay friends and eventually our friendship dissolved. Rejection hurt, depression ensued, same old story....thankfully, I met the woman I would fall in love with and would marry not too much long after being rejected.

    Basically, you've got a choice between romance and friendship. If your romantic feelings outweigh the friendship, then you should tell her how you feel. She might feel the same way and you two could have a great romantic relationship. However, if losing her as a friend is not an acceptable outcome if she doesn't feel the same way, then don't risk losing the friendship. Don't be naive to think that you two can remain friends if you tell her and she rejects you. I hate to say it, but in most cases it just doesn't work out like that.
  • Fortunate Son1Fortunate Son1 Posts: 89
    Hey dude...I know how you feel because I'm a pretty shy pretty shy guy too and its hard for me to say what I feel sometimes, but I say you gotta talk to her and let you know how you feel....don't wait for her to find out, for 2 reasons:
    1) You'll show a 'take charge' attitude.....chicks dig that
    2) You gotta do it for yourself, instead of waiting for her, because at the end of the day, nobody looks out for you but yourself. If some other dude digs her, he's not gonna hold back because of your feelings for her.
    And sometimes is seen a strange spot in the sky...A human being that was giveeeeeeeeeeeeen to flllllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
  • stickboystickboy Posts: 2,981
    you need to step up son. Show her why youre the guy thats not gonna treat her like the rest of these guys do. I do agree with Whizbang and restless..its like Chris Rock said about women and Platonic relationships
    you know what a Platonic Friend is to a woman? Its like a D**k in a glass case! In case of emergency...BREAK GLASS!

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVIWW0k3qaI&feature=related


    hey ROCKY... Comin up as a nigga in the cash game
    livin in the fast lane; I'm for real
    :D
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
    ************************************
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    stickboy wrote:


    hey ROCKY... Comin up as a nigga in the cash game
    livin in the fast lane; I'm for real
    :D
    WOOHOOO!!! that is one of my favorite lines in there!!!! :D
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • stickboystickboy Posts: 2,981
    SENROCK! wrote:
    WOOHOOO!!! that is one of my favorite lines in there!!!! :D
    hahaha well you guys thanx, cause I got that song stuck in my head for good now! Soon as I read ya posts up there it was the 1st thing that came to mind and I had to continue it, lol


    but that Chris Rock shit is so true tho about some women
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
    ************************************
  • GreenTeaDiseaseGreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    Ok so if there is anyone willing to give me advice, now is the time. Please read the whole thing if you are kind enough to give your advice.

    7 more days and I leave school to go back home for the summer.

    When school began I found a group of people that branched off a little bit. Within this group was a girl named Brittney, and she was absolutely gorgeous and she had this southern personality that was attractive for a northerner like me. She had a boyfriend since senior year of high school that she was dating. She still dated him up until 3 weeks ago, when they broke up. During the time they were dating we were kind of the "opposite sex best friends".

    She began spending time with another guy, that she got into a big fight two nights ago and I don't know whats going on with that. Since her and her boyfriend broke up, we have been going out to get food and going out together a little more. She always comes to me with her problems that she doesn't tell anyone. Then she suggests that me and her go on a "fake date" and get dressed up and do something because she's been stressed and wants to be taken out by a nice guy.

    Many people would read into that as her asking me out...but most likely is what she said, a fake date. That happens this Friday night.

    I like this girl a lot, and I'm not one for expressing my feelings out face to face because I'm worried about the outcome. I was thinking of writing her a letter and leaving it in her room on her desk...i don't know

    It's so confusing, this girl is absolutely amazing. I've never really felt this way about any other girl that I have met. I mean sometimes she flirts with me a lot and does really cute things. For example, last week I went to get food with her and a few friends, and I locked my keys in the car and i was really ticked off...she walks away and buys me ice cream and brings it back....the little things in life!!

    I don't really know what advice I'm seeking...I guess how to go about this? She's staying the summer at school and taking classes while I'm home...this timing sucks! But I am coming back down for a week in June and then August...


    Actually, I think the the timing is perfect, and here's why.

    first of all, if a girl asks you to go on a "fake date" she probably wants to go on a real date with you but is too nervous to ask, or she thinks that you just see her as a friend and doesn't want to muddle that up. she's thinking of you in a "dating" context, but she's not sure how she feels (understandable in her position of just breaking up) or she's not sure how you feel. Secondly, if she brings you ice cream, she likes you. That's totally the kind of thing I did for guy friends in college who I kinda sorta liked a little more than friends. except for me it was cookies. Girls like the idea of "taking care" of guys they like (to a certain degree, no one wants to be your mom).

    anyway, it's good timing because 1) she has the summer to sort out getting over breaking up and whatnot 2) you make a move or say something to her at the end of the year, she's got the summer to think about it and then when you get back in the fall, all smoochie smoochie. OR if it doesn't go well and she's really not into...no problem! she'll forget about it over the summer and when you come back to school you can just kinda patch it up and be friends again, you can claim you don't feel that way anymore. perfect! (I timed something like this out my junior year of college, except I made the fatal error of that the guy in question was a SENIOR and NOT coming back...)
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    Girls like the idea of "taking care" of guys they like (to a certain degree, no one wants to be your mom).
    :confused: I got that one backwards... in school I used to fight with the boys I liked :o never quite figured out why. Think it was so I'd prove that I WASN'T into them... and for some reason that made perfect sense at the time :cool:
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • SnakeSnake Posts: 2,605
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    :confused: I got that one backwards... in school I used to fight with the boys I liked :o never quite figured out why. Think it was so I'd prove that I WASN'T into them... and for some reason that made perfect sense at the time :cool:
    This is why girls are so weird.
    Pirates had democracy too.

    "Its a secret to everybody."
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Snake wrote:
    This is why girls are so weird.
    well if you make it clear you're into them and they're not into you and everyone knows... it can be embarrassing... but that never happened me though :) the boys used to do it too in fairness.

    there was one that I regretted... but I got 'closure' on that one years later ;) so no regrets.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • SnakeSnake Posts: 2,605
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    well if you make it clear you're into them and they're not into you and everyone knows... it can be embarrassing... but that never happened me though :) the boys used to do it too in fairness.

    there was one that I regretted... but I got 'closure' on that one years later ;) so no regrets.
    Yea theres a difference in just teasing the guy and actually making fun of him or fighting. Along time ago (in this galaxy) There was this one girl who liked me alot (why? I dont know) she barley knew me. But she actually made fun of me, and it was both annoying and embarrassing. But she was really immature and all.
    SO yea, but I like teasing girls that I like. Its fun and they seem to like it too.
    Pirates had democracy too.

    "Its a secret to everybody."
  • GreenTeaDiseaseGreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    well if you make it clear you're into them and they're not into you and everyone knows... it can be embarrassing... but that never happened me though :) the boys used to do it too in fairness.
    ]

    I did that kind of thing too. I guess it depended on the guy. I had a crush on this one guy all through college, but EVERYONE including him new about it. It was so freaking embarrassing. at one point a guy friend of mine came up to visit...we went to a party and pretended to be a couple infront of this guy, I even introduced him as my boyfriend. pretty much my one goal in life was to make this guy think I wasn't interested in him :). I guess it was just embarrassing to like someone when you knew there was no chance in hell they'd feel the same. I envisioned him making fun of me with his friends behind my back, though I don't think he was the type of person to do something like that in retrospect.

    man, he was cute. I wonder what he's up to these days...
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    I did that kind of thing too. I guess it depended on the guy. I had a crush on this one guy all through college, but EVERYONE including him new about it. It was so freaking embarrassing. at one point a guy friend of mine came up to visit...we went to a party and pretended to be a couple infront of this guy, I even introduced him as my boyfriend. pretty much my one goal in life was to make this guy think I wasn't interested in him :).

    man, he was cute too. I wonder what he's up to these days...


    how the hell are u ?
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    I did that kind of thing too. I guess it depended on the guy. I had a crush on this one guy all through college, but EVERYONE including him new about it. It was so freaking embarrassing. at one point a guy friend of mine came up to visit...we went to a party and pretended to be a couple infront of this guy, I even introduced him as my boyfriend. pretty much my one goal in life was to make this guy think I wasn't interested in him :).

    man, he was cute too. I wonder what he's up to these days...
    Hahaha... yeh, I'd this crush on a guy I worked with a few years back and my 'friend' told him :mad: so he said it to me but I got really embarrassed and jokingly told him not to be so bigheaded that I wouldn't touch him with a barge pole... and my housemate at the time saw what was happening and came up behind me and put his arms around me. I was soooo grateful and thought it was a job well done that I convinced this guy I didn't like him :confused: what a fucking weirdo I was :D
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
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