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Which person would you rather live with?

blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
edited July 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
Person 1 – mild OCD, chronic credit debt.
Person 2 – mood swings once every two months. During which is verbally abusive
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  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,301
    #1 as long as they pay the rent on time.
  • EvilMerlinEvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    Roommates? Or partners?
  • FinsburyParkCarrotsFinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    Mood swings once a month, coupled with verbal abuse and threats to strangle? That's an everyday, healthy relationship! :D
  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,783
    Person #1

    I do not tolerate abuse.
  • kcherubkcherub Posts: 961
    Husband, is that you?!?
    I still want you all to "take care"--I am just damn tired of typing it.

    http://www.youtube.com/user/kcherub#p/a/u/0/N-UQprRqSwo
  • Lukin66Lukin66 Posts: 3,063
    EvilMerlin wrote:
    Roommates? Or partners?
    My question too....
    deep, deep blue of the morning
    gets to me every time
  • Cree NationsCree Nations Posts: 2,247
    #2
    everyone needs a little verbal abuse once in a while to keep them on their toes. As long as it is not physical, that should not be tolerated whatsoever.
    >>>>
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  • GraySaturdayGraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    Person 1 – mild OCD, chronic credit debit.
    Person 2 – mood swings once every two months. During which is verbally abusive

    Hey wow, its me (2) and my husband (1) :eek:

    haha.. I kid, I kid..

    we both have credit debt ;)
  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    Person 1 – mild OCD, chronic credit debit.
    Person 2 – mood swings once every two months. During which is verbally abusive


    number 2

    nothing some masking tape and swift punch to the fudd can't sort out. :)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Number 2. Just beat his ass bi-monthly to keep him in check.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • jamie ukjamie uk Posts: 3,812
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    Person 1 – mild OCD, chronic credit debit.
    Person 2 – mood swings once every two months. During which is verbally abusive

    'credit debit' is good though...no? I don't know about 'chronic credit debit', does that mean they're only allowed a low finance arrangement on really crap things?
    Like the bank says, 'we'll lend you £2 to get this months GT magazine, and that's your lot for this decade'.
    I came, I saw, I concurred.....
  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    If I tell who they are, your answer will be bias.

    my life has been in limbo for awile now because i can't make up my mind. it sucks!
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    jamie uk wrote:
    'credit debit' is good though...no? I don't know about 'chronic credit debit', does that mean they're only allowed a low finance arrangement on really crap things?
    Like the bank says, 'we'll lend you £2 to get this months GT magazine, and that's your lot for this decade'.

    they buy whatever they want, when they want. rather if they can afford it or not. whenever i think it's stopped....they've got it under control...they buy buy buy again.
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • EvilMerlinEvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    If I tell who they are, your answer will be bias.

    my life has been in limbo for awile now because i can't make up my mind. it sucks!

    Well I'll answer in my own biased way. :p

    If I was in a relationship, it'd be with Person 1 then. You can always work together and come up with a plan to try and help get out of debt and watch over and help them, and after time I'm sure you'll get used to the OCD aspect. If they were just a roommate, then I wouldn't bother having them around as much as I would person number 2.

    Not when it comes to a financial agreement to live together and holding up your end. At that point, being just roommates, if they hit that period where they're verbally abusive, I'd just leave without having to worry about hurting feelings and having myself brought into the situation as if I were in a relationship with them. It'd be easier to just leave them on their own.

    I hope this helps. :)
  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    EvilMerlin wrote:
    and after time I'm sure you'll get used to the OCD aspect.

    not me.
    been around this person for ten years and i freaking can't stand the OCD.
    they won't get help for it either.....we've talked about it.
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • EvilMerlinEvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    not me.
    been around this person for ten years and i freaking can't stand the OCD.
    they won't get help for it either.....we've talked about it.

    But it's minor isn't it?

    However, if you can't stand it, then quite possibly, you shouldn't live with it if you know for sure you won't get used to it overtime and the other person won't get help for it.

    However, I do still believe an annoyance to oneself is better than being verbally abused by someone.
  • roarroar Posts: 1,116
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    Person 1 – mild OCD, chronic credit debit.
    Person 2 – mood swings once every two months. During which is verbally abusive

    sound like winners...

    personally, I'd go with #2. it depends on the level of abuse, though. i wouldn't wanna have to bust a cap.

    mood swings arrive on a monthly basis for most women. ;) if they only happen every other month...you're golden.

    it's not a good idea to live with someone who has chronic financial issues. you don't want their problem to become yours.
  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    EvilMerlin wrote:
    However, I do still believe an annoyance to oneself is better than being verbally abused by someone.

    this is true.

    As for helping them budget…
    I can’t constantly stand over their shoulder and make sure they do right.
    It’s like a smoking habit. I can’t make somebody quit. They have to do it on their own.

    Got me thinking.
    So thanks.
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • EvilMerlinEvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    this is true.

    As for helping them budget…
    I can’t constantly stand over their shoulder and make sure they do right.
    It’s like a smoking habit. I can’t make somebody quit. They have to do it on their own.

    Got me thinking.
    So thanks.

    You're welcome. Always glad to help. :)

    Good luck on your decision and I hope everything works out.
  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    roar wrote:

    it's not a good idea to live with someone who has chronic financial issues. you don't want their problem to become yours.

    I know right!

    I need to stop thinking about it. every time I do I feel like putting my head thru the wall.

    Being an adult blows!
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    I would go with 2..they could always go on antidepressants or something...friggin chronic credit card debt never goes away.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    libragirl wrote:
    I would go with 2..they could always go on antidepressants or something...friggin chronic credit card debt never goes away.

    they are on pills. lol
    they don't work.
    well i take that back they work 80% of the time.

    I'm up shits creek, aren't I?


    .
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    they are on pills. lol
    they don't work.
    well i take that back they work 80% of the time.

    I'm up shits creek, aren't I?


    .

    this is the person with the mood swings every 2 mos? I don't know I would still take that over mild ocd and credit card debt. I can hold my own and dish the abuse right on back :p.

    But either is are ideal. Im sorry that your dealing with that :(
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • _Crazy_Mary__Crazy_Mary_ Posts: 1,299
    I am no expert on spelling and I make mistakes, too, but 'debit' and 'debt' are two different things...
    Posts can be edited. ;)
    I really screwed that up. I really Schruted it.
  • rival.rival. Chicago Posts: 7,775
    mca47 wrote:
    #1 as long as they pay the rent on time.

    +1
  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    libragirl wrote:
    this is the person with the mood swings every 2 mos? I don't know I would still take that over mild ocd and credit card debt. I can hold my own and dish the abuse right on back :p.

    But either is are ideal. Im sorry that your dealing with that :(


    see that's what i was thinking.
    but this time around it was bad. felt like throwing myself into the lake out back. the person was very ugly. and i can't stand when they finally come around and say sorry. hello, do you realize how many times you've said sorry in the last 6 months?
    and being nasty right back is not my M.O. Kill em with kindness so they feel like jackasses is the way i roll.
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    _Crazy_Mary_ wrote:
    I am no expert on spelling and I make mistakes, too, but 'debit' and 'debt' are two different things...
    Posts can be edited. ;)

    yup, that's me.
    awful speller!
    thanks.
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    see that's what i was thinking.
    but this time around it was bad. felt like throwing myself into the lake out back. the person was very ugly. and i can't stand when they finally come around and say sorry. hello, do you realize how many times you've said sorry in the last 6 months?
    and being nasty right back is not my M.O. Kill em with kindness so they feel like jackasses is the way i roll.


    Well that really isn't good at all. See I'm thinking about me...I have a giant temper and I don't take too much shit. I would probably scare the moodiness out of the S.O.B. It's just the idea of living with someone who has ocd..that is a daily thing that would drive me nuts. And debt to boot..hell no. My sister's husband has ocd's and it's irritating.

    I'm sorry I really don't know what to tell you. When you love someone, you will take a lot but it seems like its getting to be a real problem. Maybe you should consider getting out of the relationship.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    i just probably go off and get old with a cat huh.

    lmao!!!!!!!!!!
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    blondieblue227 wrote:
    i just probably go off and get old with a cat huh.

    lmao!!!!!!!!!!

    awwww..cmon now...a lot of people get the mentality that they won't find anyone better or whatever but you can't stay in a relationship that's abusive if indeed it is.

    But hey....cat's aren't so bad...I think Im gonna get 10 of em and live in a isolated cabin somewhere :p
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
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