Afraid of the dark...at 28 years old.

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  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Normally, I would step in and defend my area here, but a few weeks ago a woman in the neighborhood was killed in her home in the middle of the day, so I'll just shut up and go check to make certain that my windows are locked. :(
    :( Oh sorry to hear that happened. I'd be very cautious and scared as well. Is the person(s) captive? if not, I'd be worried as well. Hopefully, there'll be justice for the poor woman.
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  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    Yeah, I mean...I was like this before, but, I'll admit this made it much worse.

    I'm glad you weren't home when you were robbed!
    Me too! Thanks!
    Plus you have the little one at home, I would imagine that makes you even more concerned??
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  • Brain of J.LoBrain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    LongRd. wrote:
    :( Oh sorry to hear that happened. I'd be very cautious and scared as well. Is the person(s) captive? if not, I'd be worried as well. Hopefully, there'll be justice for the poor woman.

    As far as I know, they still don't know who did it. It was a bit of a sketchy situation, however, and apparently she had been hosting card games (where money changed hands) in her house and it was known throughout her circle that she kept a large amount of cash in her house. They believe that money was the motive.

    It's a bit of a relief, but it really makes me sad to think that it was probably someone who knew her and that she had invited into her home.
  • Brain of J.LoBrain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    Allie wrote:
    Me too! Thanks!
    Plus you have the little one at home, I would imagine that makes you even more concerned??

    Yeah, it does. Everything that used to worry me does so much more after becoming a mom and having to be concerned about her well-being too!
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    As far as I know, they still don't know who did it. It was a bit of a sketchy situation, however, and apparently she had been hosting card games (where money changed hands) in her house and it was known throughout her circle that she kept a large amount of cash in her house. They believe that money was the motive.

    It's a bit of a relief, but it really makes me sad to think that it was probably someone who knew her and that she had invited into her home.
    ugh
    that's horrible and so creepy!
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  • Brain of J.LoBrain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    Allie wrote:
    ugh
    that's horrible and so creepy!

    I know. It freaked me the hell out, too, that I had been out walking in the neighborhood with the baby (in the stroller) and walked right by that house within like minutes of when they believe it happened. And it's just sad. :(
  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    As far as I know, they still don't know who did it. It was a bit of a sketchy situation, however, and apparently she had been hosting card games (where money changed hands) in her house and it was known throughout her circle that she kept a large amount of cash in her house. They believe that money was the motive.

    It's a bit of a relief, but it really makes me sad to think that it was probably someone who knew her and that she had invited into her home.
    Yeah that seem to be the case most of the time that it's someone the victim knew. Still very sad and scare regardless.

    In this case, it's still unsolved so I don't blame you for being timid. Just hope they solve the mystery for your neighbor's relief.
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  • covered in blisscovered in bliss chi-caw-go Posts: 1,332
    Not necessarily afraid of the dark but afraid of being by myself.

    Hubby and I share a cottage in NE WI with our in-laws and I get VERY afraid when I'm by myself with the kids and dog. The fact that we were robbed last August doesn't help.

    Oh yeah, I'm 40! :eek: I can deal with deer and bears but a toothless monger creeps me out. It's all in my head but I can't help it!

    Kinda like your fear! :)
  • Brain of J.LoBrain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    LongRd. wrote:
    Yeah that seem to be the case most of the time that it's someone the victim knew. Still very sad and scare regardless.

    In this case, it's still unsolved so I don't blame you for being timid. Just hope they solve the mystery for your neighbor's relief.

    I hope they solve it, too.
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    I know. It freaked me the hell out, too, that I had been out walking in the neighborhood with the baby (in the stroller) and walked right by that house within like minutes of when they believe it happened. And it's just sad. :(
    Oh God. :eek:
    Wow.
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  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    Not necessarily afraid of the dark but afraid of being by myself.

    Hubby and I share a cottage in NE WI with our in-laws and I get VERY afraid when I'm by myself with the kids and dog. The fact that we were robbed last August doesn't help.

    Oh yeah, I'm 40! :eek: I can deal with deer and bears but a toothless monger creeps me out. It's all in my head but I can't help it!

    Kinda like your fear! :)
    You! :)
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    I'm sorry you guys were robbed! Are you ok?

    Go back to the Porch, I sort of agree w/you a little bit. The story about the show is now being posted online! :eek:
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
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  • you areyou are Posts: 1,651
    i'm 29 and just recently got used to the dark in my own place. but i don't like the darkness when i'm outside. i'm not too bad indoors, but i do have moments when i freak myself out. at my parents house i still get a bit scared in the dark because that house is just scary, but i'm not as scared as i used to be.
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  • covered in blisscovered in bliss chi-caw-go Posts: 1,332
    Allie wrote:
    You! :)
    Thread Integrity:
    I'm sorry you guys were robbed! Are you ok?

    Go back to the Porch, I sort of agree w/you a little bit. The story about the show is now being posted online! :eek:

    wtf are you typing about? thread integrity? Here? online?

    we were robbed... the thieves left the television on the front porch. I drove up ahead of hubby and the kids... skipped around the corner to see my television sitting on the stairs!!! I called 911 and it took 30 minutes for someone to arrive! I balled like a baby ( good thing the officer was smoking hot!)---

    yeah, I'm afriad of the dark when my screams for help would go unnoticed. Sleeping with a thick knife helps. :)
  • I'm still afraid of the dark. It shows no signs of stopping.
    Stop following me, I do not know where I am going.
  • roarroar Posts: 1,116
    I'm 24 and sleep with a light on. :)
  • Urban HikerUrban Hiker Posts: 1,312
    I'm 33 and terrified of the dark, because of what I cannot see.

    I tell myself it is irrational, but my heart rate continues to climb as I search for a light switch.

    Hell, I've nearly been in tears when I've been the last to leave an office - shutting out all of the lights, looking down long dark hallways then running to a car in a desolate parking lot.

    I also torture myself by watching scary movies. If a movie looks really scary, I'll go to the theater by myself to see it, just to make things that much worse. :o:p
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  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Is anyone else kind of still afraid of the dark just a little bit? : o

    I'm ok most of the time, but then sometimes I just get freaked out when I have to turn off the lights and go upstairs and go to bed. :rolleyes: :D
    :o yeh me too. Even if I'm not watching telly, when I decide to switch off the light and go to sleep, I turn on the telly so I can have that light on the way back to my bed... which is approximately 2 steps away :rolleyes: I'm fine most of the time but the odd time I just get this sudden case of the shivers and freak out a bit and jump into bed and pull the covers over my head til I calm down :D WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF???
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  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    yeah, I'm afriad of the dark when my screams for help would go unnoticed. Sleeping with a thick knife helps. :)
    :D I keep a hurling stick beside the bed... just for peace of mind... cos one night I was alone and heard noises and was looking around thinking there's nothing here I could even use... so now generally it's not just the hurling stick... there are a few items beside my bed that could also serve as a blunt object :)
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • OffHeGoes29OffHeGoes29 Posts: 1,240
    I'm afraid of nothing, the boogy man is afraid of me.
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  • CollinCollin Posts: 4,931
    No, my dad made sure I wasn't afraid of the dark early on.


    "Go walk in the dark gloomy scary woods, son. I'm right behind you."
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  • SwanSwan Posts: 350
    i have Nyctophobia too.

    it doesn't go well with my love of horror movies.

    "the dark is it's own thing."
    I'm the only Hell Mama ever raised.
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    Is anyone else kind of still afraid of the dark just a little bit? :o

    I'm ok most of the time, but then sometimes I just get freaked out when I have to turn off the lights and go upstairs and go to bed. :rolleyes: :D

    i feel strongest in the dark. i embrace it and it never lets me down.
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  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    Is anyone else kind of still afraid of the dark just a little bit? :o

    I'm ok most of the time, but then sometimes I just get freaked out when I have to turn off the lights and go upstairs and go to bed. :rolleyes: :D

    yes it bothers me still
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  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    I'm afraid of nothing, the boogy man is afraid of me.

    Chuck Norris is that you!?????
  • EvilMerlinEvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    I'm not afraid of the dark, but at 25, I'm still afraid of mirrors most of the time.
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    I'm 34 and afraid of the dark. I've always been. I refuse to watch scary movies cause I just freak myself out all night long if I do. Ever since my ex and I split I've starting leaving the lights on downstairs when I go to bed...which is crazy cause if there ever was an intruder I'm the one that would have had to protect us anyway :p I sleep much better during the day.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    I'm 34 and afraid of the dark. I've always been. I refuse to watch scary movies cause I just freak myself out all night long if I do. Ever since my ex and I split I've starting leaving the lights on downstairs when I go to bed...which is crazy cause if there ever was an intruder I'm the one that would have had to protect us anyway :p I sleep much better during the day.
    it's the same for me. I think my electricity bill has gone up since he left cause of al the lights I leave on. And for some reason it's more peaceful to sleep during the day...even thought I guess the same things could happen.
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  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    i like the dark. soothing. quiet.
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  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    it's the same for me. I think my electricity bill has gone up since he left cause of al the lights I leave on. And for some reason it's more peaceful to sleep during the day...even thought I guess the same things could happen.
    I like having the background noise of other people awake and doing things during the day. At night it helps me to have the tv on. The quiet creeps me out unless I'm up and doing things...then I love it
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • HushBullHushBull Posts: 996
    That is pretty embarrassing

    So is enjoying Oasis.
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