The "I'm Actually in a Fucking Healthy and Happy Relationship/Marriage." Thread

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  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    meme wrote:
    Champ... we were all in a fucking healthy and happy relationship/marriage a few weeks after our wedding ;)

    I started this prior and have fortunately been in this fucking happy and healthy relationship for many years ;)....but I know what you are saying..and might I add that lately the sex has decreased some..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • Touchofgray16
    Touchofgray16 Posts: 639
    The Champ wrote:
    HOOKER wrote:

    There is nothing I hate more than a fucked up quote attempt ;)..

    Yes, I believe you once corrected me and I thank you for that ;)

    The hubby and I will be married 25 years. We raised three girls and soon we will be alone - together - again. We heard about so many divorces taking place after the kids were gone, so a year ago we made a conscious decision to re-discover each other. We took a look at the issues that had accumulated over the years when our focus was more on parenting, finances, careers and those things other than our couplehood. Fortunately for us, we found we still enjoy each other's company A LOT. We discuss our future in terms of things to do together and continue to compromise. Shit, he even came to see Eddie with me and enjoyed the show so much he wants to see PJ next tour. I, on the other hand, prefer to not go camping, but will get on a plane :eek: for a vacation. The journey continues and I feel lucky.
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    "Chirp"
  • Touchofgray16
    Touchofgray16 Posts: 639
    Oh, and about our sex life...of course that is ever-evolving and right now it is much healthier (more frequent and satisfying) than it was five years ago when all three of our girls were teenagers. Just saying. Marriage is not the end of sex for everyone. It is, as I've discovered, ever-changing, evolving and to be with the same man who knew me in my 20's as well as my 50's makes it that much more special.
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    "Chirp"
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    it is ok ...

    It better be okay, she certainly makes fun of my white pasty skin enough ;)..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    Touchofgray16 wrote:
    Yes, I believe you once corrected me and I thank you for that ;)

    The hubby and I will be married 25 years. We raised three girls and soon we will be alone - together - again. We heard about so many divorces taking place after the kids were gone, so a year ago we made a conscious decision to re-discover each other. We took a look at the issues that had accumulated over the years when our focus was more on parenting, finances, careers and those things other than our couplehood. Fortunately for us, we found we still enjoy each other's company A LOT. We discuss our future in terms of things to do together and continue to compromise. Shit, he even came to see Eddie with me and enjoyed the show so much he wants to see PJ next tour. I, on the other hand, prefer to not go camping, but will get on a plane :eek: for a vacation. The journey continues and I feel lucky.

    Lol, you fucked it up again..It looks like Hooker said what you quoted not me ;)..oh man..

    Edit: You can edit and correct the problem by erasing Hooker's name and only leave my name with the quotes..:)..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    Touchofgray16 wrote:
    Oh, and about our sex life...of course that is ever-evolving and right now it is much healthier (more frequent and satisfying) than it was five years ago when all three of our girls were teenagers. Just saying. Marriage is not the end of sex for everyone. It is, as I've discovered, ever-changing, evolving and to be with the same man who knew me in my 20's as well as my 50's makes it that much more special.

    Good post, both of them ;)..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • Touchofgray16
    Touchofgray16 Posts: 639
    The Champ wrote:
    Lol, you fucked it up again..It looks like Hooker said what you quoted not me ;)..oh man..

    Edit: You can edit and correct the problem by erasing Hooker's name and only leave my name with the quotes..:)..

    Actually, I noticed that, but decided to leave it for you to correct me again :)
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    "Chirp"
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    Touchofgray16 wrote:
    Actually, I noticed that, but decided to leave it for you to correct me again :)

    Fair enough ;)..It really is a pet peeve of mine...I need to get out more..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    The Champ wrote:
    I started this prior and have fortunately been in this fucking happy and healthy relationship for many years ;)....but I know what you are saying..and might I add that lately the sex has decreased some..


    thats cos you've now been snared and trapped by her... why give you the action when she has you now... the only ring you'll be poking into is gold one on your finger.. etc etc

    mind you me and mrs dunk have a better sex life now than we did 5 years ago... but thats because i was in jail ... or going through a homosexual phase.. i forget which..
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • The Champ
    The Champ Posts: 4,063
    dunkman wrote:
    thats cos you've now been snared and trapped by her... why give you the action when she has you now... the only ring you'll be poking into is gold one on your finger.. etc etc

    mind you me and mrs dunk have a better sex life now than we did 5 years ago... but thats because i was in jail ... or going through a homosexual phase.. i forget which..

    Lol..nah, we're just saving up for our 5 day Vegas trip next weekend..oh man, I feel sorry for the maid already ;)....and nice to hear about you and the mrs...
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • Steve Dunne
    Steve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    dunk is full of it. any married guy who's been married longer than 6 months knows he lying. ;)
    I love to turn you on
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    Steve Dunne wrote:
    dunk is full of it. any married guy who's been married longer than 6 months knows he lying. ;)


    shhhhhh.. i'm fucking with him... which if he'd been married as long as me he'd be grateful for aforementioned fucking ;)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • Steve Dunne
    Steve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    dunkman wrote:
    shhhhhh.. i'm fucking with him... which if he'd been married as long as me he'd be grateful for aforementioned fucking ;)

    very very true!!
    I love to turn you on
  • robowski
    robowski Posts: 143
    there is no such thing as a healthy/happy relationship /marriage - unless your wife is a smoking hot deaf mute who likes to stay home, cook, clean house, and bang on command - oh and bring you beer and watch football lol
    As you live your life in sometimes quiet desperation, facing adversity and tragedy: if you have hope and love, that mixture helps you overcome that tragedy and go on with the rest of your life.”
    --Jack Lengyel
  • Enkidu
    Enkidu So Cal Posts: 2,996
    I was until Monday. Now I want to kill my husband. Marriage is hard work.
  • Who Princess
    Who Princess out here in the fields Posts: 7,305
    Touchofgray16 wrote:
    Marriage is not the end of sex for everyone. It is, as I've discovered, ever-changing, evolving and to be with the same man who knew me in my 20's as well as my 50's makes it that much more special.
    I liked reading this.
    My husband and I just had our 30th anniversary. In some ways that doesn't seem possible, because I can hardly tell where the years have gone. In other ways it feels very good because our marriage has stood the test of time.

    There have been plenty of rough times and difficulties. For us, being friends and communicating honestly has been key. We have fun together. At the same time, we've always given each other a lot of space.

    But I liked reading Touchofgray's post because there is something really wonderful that I can't even describe about being with someone who has known you for so long. That kind of intimacy is unique. When I first got married I was in love but I didn't really know how to anticipate the years ahead. After all this time I'm still pretty crazy about my husband. I'm still looking forward to the future.

    BTW I guess none of you would believe me if I tried telling you that we were mere children when we got married and we are still EXTREMELY young. :p;)
    "The stars are all connected to the brain."
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    My husband doesn't make sense, I don't make sense, so togther we make sense!! ;)
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • Touchofgray16
    Touchofgray16 Posts: 639
    whoprincess wrote:

    But I liked reading Touchofgray's post because there is something really wonderful that I can't even describe about being with someone who has known you for so long. That kind of intimacy is unique. When I first got married I was in love but I didn't really know how to anticipate the years ahead. After all this time I'm still pretty crazy about my husband. I'm still looking forward to the future.

    It really is something special. Congratulations on 30 years together.
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    "Chirp"
  • Marbles
    Marbles Posts: 49
    robowski wrote:
    there is no such thing as a healthy/happy relationship /marriage - unless your wife is a smoking hot deaf mute who likes to stay home, cook, clean house, and bang on command - oh and bring you beer and watch football lol
    Not all men like football!
  • Who Princess
    Who Princess out here in the fields Posts: 7,305
    Touchofgray16 wrote:
    It really is something special. Congratulations on 30 years together.
    Thanks! And congratulations on your 25 years of marriage. May you have many more happy years together! :)
    "The stars are all connected to the brain."

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