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  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    JordyWordy wrote:
    no, youre not dull, cheating is just a shit and unnecessary thing to do.

    Regardless of how often/many/early you sleep with someone, cheating is just shite....unless both people in the couple are openly ok with sleeping with other people of course.

    I agree!! Cheating is never ever acceptable!
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    yah? :confused: i'm in University and maybe i'm just different... most of my friends don't hook up with random guys on a weekly basis...
    that post said she was single when she did it?

    i'm not the type to sleep around with guys i barely know or i just meet at parties, but i don't hold it against other girls who are comfortable with that. it's when they have a boyfriend i don't think that's right...

    maybe i'm just a dull university student?

    No, not at all.

    You're not dull you just have principles and you stick to them. I find that admirable. :)
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  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    yah? :confused: i'm in University and maybe i'm just different... most of my friends don't hook up with random guys on a weekly basis...
    that post said she was single when she did it?

    What difference did that make? My post didn't say all college girls cheat. I said girls in college go through a phase where they hook up with as many people as they can. I didn't say that they all had sex with those guys or that they all cheat on boyfriends, just that those are both common parts of it.
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    unifiedscene wrote:
    Every attractive girl I knew in college or know that is in college now went through a phase where she went to parties, got drunk weekly, and hooked up with a different guy, usually without telling her bf. Nothing wrong with it. I'm just jealous because I made the poor decision of staying faithful to a pointlessly seriously relationship for the first 3 years of college and missed out on taking advantage of said phase ;)

    Then I dated a younger girl and watched her go through it behind my back :(

    At the time did you atleast like the girl that you were dating, and enjoyed the sex with her? I was also in a three year relationship in college that fell apart, but I believe it was worth it because we were both in love and had sex ALL the time. I didn't even feel the need to go out and find those girls in "said phase".

    After I broke up with her though... you better believe I took advantage of the fact that I worked at a bar. They would get drunk and hit on me all night, and then tell me where afterhours was.;) That period of my college life was just as satisfying as the relationship part.:D No regrets on anything.

    and HELL NO.. I'm not telling you where she is going or what bars she is frequenting!
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    Trailer wrote:
    At the time did you atleast like the girl that you were dating, and enjoyed the sex with her? I was also in a three year relationship in college that fell apart, but I believe it was worth it because we were both in love and had sex ALL the time. I didn't even feel the need to go out and find those girls in "said phase".

    After I broke up with her though... you better believe I took advantage of the fact that I worked at a bar. They would get drunk and hit on me all night, and then tell me where afterhours was.;) That period of my college life was just as satisfying as the relationship part.:D No regrets on anything.

    and HELL NO.. I'm not telling you where she is going or what bars she is frequenting!

    No. I stayed in the relationship for almost a year and a half after I knew it wasn't working and I didn't want to be with her and wanted to be out nailing freshmen ;) There were a variety of bad reasons for that, but so it goes. I tried to make up for it as best I could, but I still wish I'd seen the light sooner!

    And that's not nice... you had fun with your wild bar nights, are you going to deprive your sister of the same fulfilling college experience?? ;)
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    pearljamjen wrote:
    Sex on the first date is always a mistake!

    It's not a mistake if you just want to have sex with the person... but if you really like the guy and want to have a relationship with him, then imo yeah it's not good. I've never had a relationship with any girl that has slept with me after the first date. I've had extended booty calls... but something about a girl that sleeps with me that easily turns me off to the whole relationship thing. Maybe other guys are different.. but that's how I view it.
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    unifiedscene wrote:
    And that's not nice... you had fun with your wild bar nights, are you going to deprive your sister of the same fulfilling college experience?? ;)

    I'm not going to deprive my sister of anything! I'm definitely not a controlling big brother... I'm protective of her... but in a good way. I would never think of interfering with her life.
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    unifiedscene wrote:
    What difference did that make? My post didn't say all college girls cheat. I said girls in college go through a phase where they hook up with as many people as they can. I didn't say that they all had sex with those guys or that they all cheat on boyfriends, just that those are both common parts of it.
    um, the "usually without telling her bf" part was what made the difference...
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  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    um, the "usually without telling her bf" part was what made the difference...

    Usually is not always.
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    no, i know its not always.
    just that the sentence went a little like, *some* girls cheat, and there's nothing wrong with it.

    whether hooking up constitutes having sex with someone or just making out is debatable i guess, but even if it is just making out i find that kind of low and cheap to do if a girl is committed to a boyfriend... and i think there is something wrong with that.... is all i'm saying...
    live pearl jam is best pearl jam
  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    no, i know its not always.
    just that the sentence went a little like, *some* girls cheat, and there's nothing wrong with it.

    whether hooking up constitutes having sex with someone or just making out is debatable i guess, but even if it is just making out i find that kind of low and cheap to do if a girl is committed to a boyfriend... and i think there is something wrong with that.... is all i'm saying...

    I was saying there's nothing wrong with the "girls gone wild" phase, not that there's nothing wrong with cheating. They're young, they're hot, they're not married, they're having fun. Nothing wrong with that. It happens. It was in response to someone wondering what their sister would do in college. And an informational heads up for the guys... be careful of trusting your heart to a girl going through this phase, as it could be broken; and look for the girls going through it so you can reap the benefits from it ;)
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • locked
    locked Boston Posts: 4,048
    bump..
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