women on dating in 2008

looking for women's perspective only...
what are you looking for in the dating pool?
what have you found of recent?
sex on the first date.. yes / no?
what are you looking for in the dating pool?
what have you found of recent?
sex on the first date.. yes / no?
"This here's a REQUEST!"
EV intro to Chloe Dancer / Crown of Thorns
10/25/13 Hartford
EV intro to Chloe Dancer / Crown of Thorns
10/25/13 Hartford
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exactly..relationships/dating is a pain...
To keep you clear of the sun
You've been burned more than once
You don't think much of trust
*sigh* FINE...where we meeting
9/24/96 MD. 9/28/96 Randalls. 8/28-29/98 Camden. 9/8/98 NJ. 9/18/98 MD. 9/1-2/00 Camden. 9/4/00 MD. 4/28/03 Philly. 7/5-6/03 Camden. 9/30/05 AC.
10/3/05 Philly. 5/27-28/06 Camden. 6/23/06 Pitt. 6/19-20/08 Camden. 6/24/08 MSG. 8/7/08 EV Newark, NJ. 6/11-12/09 EV Philly, PA. 10/27-28-30-31/09 Philly, PA., 5/15/10 Hartford,5/17/10 Boston, 5/18/10 Newark, 5/20-21/10 MSG
I'm not looking now but I was about 14 months ago. I was looking for a long term relationship starting with a few dates. Specifically I wanted someone made me feel special but without sacrificing himself.
The guys I 'dated', before I found what I was looking for, were very shallow. A LOT wanted just to sleep with me but I wasn't looking for that. One guy who didn't just want to sleep with and was actually quite smitten with me, became quite scary. Another met me in a pub and booked a hotel the same night! I had to let a few down....
I found that the guys I attracted and the guys I liked were often, two completely different ends of the spectrum. I wanted a gentle soul who loved little dates and taking things slowly... I attracted brutish men's men who just wanted to shag.
I found that men don't always admit their emotions (like we didn't know that anyway :rolleyes: ) and that they're more likely to admire you from a far and lose out than to take the plunge and say something for fear of rejection.
Luckily, my boyfriend said something
No. Not for me.
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
Here at my work.. in the bathroom.
Looks like the women have finally come around to the male way of thinking. It was only a matter of time...
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haha...done
9/24/96 MD. 9/28/96 Randalls. 8/28-29/98 Camden. 9/8/98 NJ. 9/18/98 MD. 9/1-2/00 Camden. 9/4/00 MD. 4/28/03 Philly. 7/5-6/03 Camden. 9/30/05 AC.
10/3/05 Philly. 5/27-28/06 Camden. 6/23/06 Pitt. 6/19-20/08 Camden. 6/24/08 MSG. 8/7/08 EV Newark, NJ. 6/11-12/09 EV Philly, PA. 10/27-28-30-31/09 Philly, PA., 5/15/10 Hartford,5/17/10 Boston, 5/18/10 Newark, 5/20-21/10 MSG
Sounds something similar to me.
I HATE dating…it’s really just an awful experience. I had no interest in it while I was in my 20’s, and now that I’m 34 I’d like to meet someone and I’m looking for a long term thing, I’ve done all my playing
It appears that I’ve waited too long though, and it’s really hard to meet people where I live. I tried an online thing, but the guys there are serial daters I think lol! Set ups are awkward – it’s hard to tell someone their friend/relative isn’t for you.
I’ve mostly happily accepted that I’ll just be single, because the thought of trying again makes me ill, I just don’t have the patience for the games and whatever rules there are that I just don’t get or see the point of. You’re either interested or not, let's move this thing along is my attitude, but I think that’s too uncomplicated for today’s dating world…I feel like a relic:)
As for the sex on the first date thing – can’t say it’s never happened, but it most likely won't happen again…as I said, I’ve gotten the player out of my blood:)
So no one catches you?
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
sweet! :cool:
LOL you shouldn't feel like a relic! Your turn will come and probably at the most unexpected moment
I will admit though, dating today is hard and although the internet has made it easier it's also, for some, made it more complex.
That's the reason I said no. I did it once and never again. I used to be out all weekends drinking and enjoying being single (*ahem*
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
That is an absolutely wonderful way to put it
I know exactly where you're coming from and it's the most incredible feeling in the world
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
I thought you were talking about me!
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
Yeah.. my little sister is a hornball.:eek: I really hope she doesn't turn into a slut when she goes to college next year. haha
edit: not that there's anything wrong with sluts;)... just not my little sister
Im mad at you! You flaked on me!
I came out of a 15 year marriage and was most definitely not looking for anyone. But someone became a very good friend, a shoulder to cry on and a huge support for me. I resisted hard at first, but their persistance and constancy paid off and I realised this was a person that I could love and rely on.
Wembley 18/06/07
If there was a reason, it was you.
O2 Arena 18/09/09
Well, if you hadn't been so forceful I might have woken up in your arms and made you breakfast the next morning! :mad:
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
You like.... Syrup with your pancakes?
ohhhhh yeahhhhh :cool:
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
I didnt flake! I need directions!
9/24/96 MD. 9/28/96 Randalls. 8/28-29/98 Camden. 9/8/98 NJ. 9/18/98 MD. 9/1-2/00 Camden. 9/4/00 MD. 4/28/03 Philly. 7/5-6/03 Camden. 9/30/05 AC.
10/3/05 Philly. 5/27-28/06 Camden. 6/23/06 Pitt. 6/19-20/08 Camden. 6/24/08 MSG. 8/7/08 EV Newark, NJ. 6/11-12/09 EV Philly, PA. 10/27-28-30-31/09 Philly, PA., 5/15/10 Hartford,5/17/10 Boston, 5/18/10 Newark, 5/20-21/10 MSG
Directions from where? I will google it. Please add a phone number just in case you get lost
Man, is there a thread on this where eventually you two are not virtual reality making out
Your boyfriends are soooo lucky
why South Jersey of course
9/24/96 MD. 9/28/96 Randalls. 8/28-29/98 Camden. 9/8/98 NJ. 9/18/98 MD. 9/1-2/00 Camden. 9/4/00 MD. 4/28/03 Philly. 7/5-6/03 Camden. 9/30/05 AC.
10/3/05 Philly. 5/27-28/06 Camden. 6/23/06 Pitt. 6/19-20/08 Camden. 6/24/08 MSG. 8/7/08 EV Newark, NJ. 6/11-12/09 EV Philly, PA. 10/27-28-30-31/09 Philly, PA., 5/15/10 Hartford,5/17/10 Boston, 5/18/10 Newark, 5/20-21/10 MSG
Trying to tell my wife that, but she ain't biting