women on dating in 2008

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  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    You make me sound like a spoilt needy brat :D
    It was meant in a loving way :p
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  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    locked wrote:
    looking for women's perspective only...

    what are you looking for in the dating pool?

    what have you found of recent?

    sex on the first date.. yes / no?
    all ive got to say is it's weird what you think you want and then what you end up falling for...
    what i mean is, if my friends were to describe to me my perfect guy... probably a pearl jam or radiohead fan, scruffy jesus hair, rock t-shirts and most likely equipped with some kind of accent- scottish or english or something.
    next thing you know i'm rollin up in a car with hip hop playing and a clean-cut canadian-raised hispanic beside me :D
    so what i've found recently: gangsta love ;):D
    (haha i'm kidding he doesnt dress like a gangsta thank GOD- i draw the line at gold teeth)



    and no sex on the first date.
    live pearl jam is best pearl jam
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    urbanhippie wrote:
    It was meant in a loving way :p

    I know :D

    I love you
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    comebackgirl wrote:
    among other things : D Gets a little sticky - but so much fun! :eek:

    Sticky is good... :cool:
    Black Diamond wrote:
    Man, is there a thread on this where eventually you two are not virtual reality making out : D

    Your boyfriends are soooo lucky : )

    Only in your dreams... ;)

    and of course our boyfriend's are lucky, they have us! :D:p
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Cos we're only on here when we're not getting it :D;):p

    Speak for yourself! ;) I'm only on inbetween audiodave and comebackgirl :cool:
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    Trailer wrote:
    Yeah.. my little sister is a hornball.:eek: I really hope she doesn't turn into a slut when she goes to college next year. haha

    edit: not that there's anything wrong with sluts;)... just not my little sister

    Guaranteed she will. Every college girl goes through a slut phase. Where's she going and what bars might she be hanging out at?
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    unifiedscene wrote:
    Guaranteed she will. Every college girl goes through a slut phase. Where's she going and what bars might she be hanging out at?
    not every girl :rolleyes:
    live pearl jam is best pearl jam
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    not every girl :rolleyes:

    The majority.
  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    not every girl :rolleyes:

    Every attractive girl I knew in college or know that is in college now went through a phase where she went to parties, got drunk weekly, and hooked up with a different guy, usually without telling her bf. Nothing wrong with it. I'm just jealous because I made the poor decision of staying faithful to a pointlessly seriously relationship for the first 3 years of college and missed out on taking advantage of said phase ;)

    Then I dated a younger girl and watched her go through it behind my back :(
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    all ive got to say is it's weird what you think you want and then what you end up falling for...
    what i mean is, if my friends were to describe to me my perfect guy... probably a pearl jam or radiohead fan, scruffy jesus hair, rock t-shirts and most likely equipped with some kind of accent- scottish or english or something.
    next thing you know i'm rollin up in a car with hip hop playing and a clean-cut canadian-raised hispanic beside me :D
    so what i've found recently: gangsta love ;):D
    (haha i'm kidding he doesnt dress like a gangsta thank GOD- i draw the line at gold teeth)

    and no sex on the first date.

    I swear to God, I was scrolling down quickly and read "anal sex only on the first date." I might be developing dyslexia.
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    unifiedscene wrote:
    Every attractive girl I knew in college or know that is in college now went through a phase where she went to parties, got drunk weekly, and hooked up with a different guy, usually without telling her bf. Nothing wrong with it. I'm just jealous because I made the poor decision of staying faithful to a pointlessly seriously relationship for the first 3 years of college and missed out on taking advantage of said phase ;)

    Then I dated a younger girl and watched her go through it behind my back :(

    Call me old fashioned, but I think there is something wrong with that.
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    Call me old fashioned, but I think there is something wrong with that.

    You just said above that you did it.

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showpost.php?p=6037659&postcount=12

    Maybe you didn't sleep with the guys, but you were still partying and hooking up. Every girl does it, even the ones who claim it's bad.
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,813
    unifiedscene wrote:
    I swear to God, I was scrolling down quickly and read "anal sex only on the first date." I might be developing dyslexia.
    maybe wishful thinking!
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  • angie76
    angie76 Posts: 646
    locked wrote:
    looking for women's perspective only...

    what are you looking for in the dating pool?

    what have you found of recent?

    sex on the first date.. yes / no?

    Im just looking for what everyone else is looking for. Someone that i can relate to, good personality, good sense of humor..etc.

    Yeah I would never do the deed on the first date.
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  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,337
    unifiedscene wrote:
    Every attractive girl I knew in college or know that is in college now went through a phase where she went to parties, got drunk weekly, and hooked up with a different guy, usually without telling her bf. Nothing wrong with it. I'm just jealous because I made the poor decision of staying faithful to a pointlessly seriously relationship for the first 3 years of college and missed out on taking advantage of said phase ;)

    Then I dated a younger girl and watched her go through it behind my back :(


    Yeah, I'm just a few years out of college and that was very much the case. I found that most chicks hit that phase around early sophmore year and it lasted to about mid- junior year...well for most girls.
    As a guy, I was well aware of this phenomenon while in college. :)
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    unifiedscene wrote:
    You just said above that you did it.

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showpost.php?p=6037659&postcount=12

    Maybe you didn't sleep with the guys, but you were still partying and hooking up. Every girl does it, even the ones who claim it's bad.

    i think she's saying she may have enjoyed being single ... which means she wasn't dating anyone which is what she thinks is wrong ...

    in any case ... there's no formula to this stuff ...
  • unifiedscene
    unifiedscene Posts: 462
    mca47 wrote:
    Yeah, I'm just a few years out of college and that was very much the case. I found that most chicks hit that phase around early sophmore year and it lasted to about mid- junior year...well for most girls.
    As a guy, I was well aware of this phenomenon while in college. :)

    Yeah, I'm still kicking myself over letting too many golden opportunities slip by because I thought I was in love or something ridiculous. It's a damn shame... they're so hot and easy in those days! Once you graduate though, you're pretty much on the outside looking in. Now they want you to be serious and have a job and a career and personality and substance! :)
    she was underwhelmed, if that's a word
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    pearljamjen wrote:
    I'm glad 2008 is almost over :D
    was it that bad of a year?

    no hook ups on the PJ tour? ;)
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,813
    unifiedscene wrote:
    Now they want you to be serious and have a job and a career and personality and substance! :)
    ok that statement plus your sig, is there a connection?




    J/K!!!!
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    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    LongRd. wrote:
    was it that bad of a year?

    no hook ups on the PJ tour? ;)

    Actually it was a good year. :) 2007 was probably the worst year of my life, so 2008 was all about new beginnings and fresh starts...but it is a long process.

    So 2009 will be even better; I know this for sure!!!! :D

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