Yeah, I'm still kicking myself over letting too many golden opportunities slip by because I thought I was in love or something ridiculous. It's a damn shame... they're so hot and easy in those days! Once you graduate though, you're pretty much on the outside looking in. Now they want you to be serious and have a job and a career and personality and substance!
Yeah, looking back at opportunities missed out on is never a fun thing to do.
Every year some friends and I who went to school together go back to the college town for a weekend and a football game. Every year I feel older and older. Haha! Girls that are 19 look like they are 13. When did THAT happen?!?!
It can still work out nicely as not only do I look like I'm still in college, but I make a lot of money now. Win-win!
1 i don't know how to date, in fact i'm confused how to go about things.
2 i think i just scared off a guy, because i wanted to know what he wanted, and suggested for him to be my boyfriend only because...i could and now i'm freaking waiting for him to text me because we are supposed to be going out tomorrow and he is not texting me back......which is fine, if he wants to play that game, if he doesn't reply anything back today, i will ignore him.
Yeah, looking back at opportunities missed out on is never a fun thing to do.
Every year some friends and I who went to school together go back to the college town for a weekend and a football game. Every year I feel older and older. Haha! Girls that are 19 look like they are 13. When did THAT happen?!?!
It can still work out nicely as not only do I look like I'm still in college, but I make a lot of money now. Win-win!
Yeah, aside from a receding hairline, I don't look too old. I'll be heading back to my alma mater for some games next year when I've got $$ and I plan to get my licks in... literally!
1 i don't know how to date, in fact i'm confused how to go about things.
2 i think i just scared off a guy, because i wanted to know what he wanted, and suggested for him to be my boyfriend only because...i could and now i'm freaking waiting for him to text me because we are supposed to be going out tomorrow and he is not texting me back......which is fine, if he wants to play that game, if he doesn't reply anything back today, i will ignore him.
Maybe you didn't sleep with the guys, but you were still partying and hooking up. Every girl does it, even the ones who claim it's bad.
that post said she was single when she did it?
i'm not the type to sleep around with guys i barely know or i just meet at parties, but i don't hold it against other girls who are comfortable with that. it's when they have a boyfriend i don't think that's right...
yah? i'm in University and maybe i'm just different... most of my friends don't hook up with random guys on a weekly basis...
that post said she was single when she did it?
i'm not the type to sleep around with guys i barely know or i just meet at parties, but i don't hold it against other girls who are comfortable with that. it's when they have a boyfriend i don't think that's right...
maybe i'm just a dull university student?
no, youre not dull, cheating is just a shit and unnecessary thing to do.
Regardless of how often/many/early you sleep with someone, cheating is just shite....unless both people in the couple are openly ok with sleeping with other people of course.
no, youre not dull, cheating is just a shit and unnecessary thing to do.
Regardless of how often/many/early you sleep with someone, cheating is just shite....unless both people in the couple are openly ok with sleeping with other people of course.
yah? i'm in University and maybe i'm just different... most of my friends don't hook up with random guys on a weekly basis...
that post said she was single when she did it?
i'm not the type to sleep around with guys i barely know or i just meet at parties, but i don't hold it against other girls who are comfortable with that. it's when they have a boyfriend i don't think that's right...
maybe i'm just a dull university student?
No, not at all.
You're not dull you just have principles and you stick to them. I find that admirable.
Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
yah? i'm in University and maybe i'm just different... most of my friends don't hook up with random guys on a weekly basis...
that post said she was single when she did it?
What difference did that make? My post didn't say all college girls cheat. I said girls in college go through a phase where they hook up with as many people as they can. I didn't say that they all had sex with those guys or that they all cheat on boyfriends, just that those are both common parts of it.
Every attractive girl I knew in college or know that is in college now went through a phase where she went to parties, got drunk weekly, and hooked up with a different guy, usually without telling her bf. Nothing wrong with it. I'm just jealous because I made the poor decision of staying faithful to a pointlessly seriously relationship for the first 3 years of college and missed out on taking advantage of said phase
Then I dated a younger girl and watched her go through it behind my back :(
At the time did you atleast like the girl that you were dating, and enjoyed the sex with her? I was also in a three year relationship in college that fell apart, but I believe it was worth it because we were both in love and had sex ALL the time. I didn't even feel the need to go out and find those girls in "said phase".
After I broke up with her though... you better believe I took advantage of the fact that I worked at a bar. They would get drunk and hit on me all night, and then tell me where afterhours was.;) That period of my college life was just as satisfying as the relationship part.:D No regrets on anything.
and HELL NO.. I'm not telling you where she is going or what bars she is frequenting!
Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
At the time did you atleast like the girl that you were dating, and enjoyed the sex with her? I was also in a three year relationship in college that fell apart, but I believe it was worth it because we were both in love and had sex ALL the time. I didn't even feel the need to go out and find those girls in "said phase".
After I broke up with her though... you better believe I took advantage of the fact that I worked at a bar. They would get drunk and hit on me all night, and then tell me where afterhours was.;) That period of my college life was just as satisfying as the relationship part.:D No regrets on anything.
and HELL NO.. I'm not telling you where she is going or what bars she is frequenting!
No. I stayed in the relationship for almost a year and a half after I knew it wasn't working and I didn't want to be with her and wanted to be out nailing freshmen There were a variety of bad reasons for that, but so it goes. I tried to make up for it as best I could, but I still wish I'd seen the light sooner!
And that's not nice... you had fun with your wild bar nights, are you going to deprive your sister of the same fulfilling college experience??
It's not a mistake if you just want to have sex with the person... but if you really like the guy and want to have a relationship with him, then imo yeah it's not good. I've never had a relationship with any girl that has slept with me after the first date. I've had extended booty calls... but something about a girl that sleeps with me that easily turns me off to the whole relationship thing. Maybe other guys are different.. but that's how I view it.
Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
And that's not nice... you had fun with your wild bar nights, are you going to deprive your sister of the same fulfilling college experience??
I'm not going to deprive my sister of anything! I'm definitely not a controlling big brother... I'm protective of her... but in a good way. I would never think of interfering with her life.
Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
What difference did that make? My post didn't say all college girls cheat. I said girls in college go through a phase where they hook up with as many people as they can. I didn't say that they all had sex with those guys or that they all cheat on boyfriends, just that those are both common parts of it.
um, the "usually without telling her bf" part was what made the difference...
no, i know its not always.
just that the sentence went a little like, *some* girls cheat, and there's nothing wrong with it.
whether hooking up constitutes having sex with someone or just making out is debatable i guess, but even if it is just making out i find that kind of low and cheap to do if a girl is committed to a boyfriend... and i think there is something wrong with that.... is all i'm saying...
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Yeah, looking back at opportunities missed out on is never a fun thing to do.
Every year some friends and I who went to school together go back to the college town for a weekend and a football game. Every year I feel older and older. Haha! Girls that are 19 look like they are 13. When did THAT happen?!?!
It can still work out nicely as not only do I look like I'm still in college, but I make a lot of money now. Win-win!
A few days ago I dreamed that you two announced on the pit that you were getting married :eek: :eek:
1 i don't know how to date, in fact i'm confused how to go about things.
2 i think i just scared off a guy, because i wanted to know what he wanted, and suggested for him to be my boyfriend only because...i could
3 nope, no sex on the fist date
Yeah, aside from a receding hairline, I don't look too old. I'll be heading back to my alma mater for some games next year when I've got $$ and I plan to get my licks in... literally!
Probably, though it wasn't intentional!
That's a lyric from the best song about teen angst ever... Sloan's "Underwhelmed."
He gets a kiss.
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
Sex on the first date is always a mistake!
Ahem...I mean I love you all, but I think I should tell my parents first!...
Wembley 18/06/07
If there was a reason, it was you.
O2 Arena 18/09/09
A french kiss you say?
Very nice! :cool:
Wembley 18/06/07
If there was a reason, it was you.
O2 Arena 18/09/09
You would not know each other if not for us.
:mad:
But if you think telling your parents first is the right thing to do...
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
Wembley 18/06/07
If there was a reason, it was you.
O2 Arena 18/09/09
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
i'm not the type to sleep around with guys i barely know or i just meet at parties, but i don't hold it against other girls who are comfortable with that. it's when they have a boyfriend i don't think that's right...
maybe i'm just a dull university student?
Oh, you're a tease!
please share!
no, youre not dull, cheating is just a shit and unnecessary thing to do.
Regardless of how often/many/early you sleep with someone, cheating is just shite....unless both people in the couple are openly ok with sleeping with other people of course.
I agree!! Cheating is never ever acceptable!
No, not at all.
You're not dull you just have principles and you stick to them. I find that admirable.
... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
What difference did that make? My post didn't say all college girls cheat. I said girls in college go through a phase where they hook up with as many people as they can. I didn't say that they all had sex with those guys or that they all cheat on boyfriends, just that those are both common parts of it.
At the time did you atleast like the girl that you were dating, and enjoyed the sex with her? I was also in a three year relationship in college that fell apart, but I believe it was worth it because we were both in love and had sex ALL the time. I didn't even feel the need to go out and find those girls in "said phase".
After I broke up with her though... you better believe I took advantage of the fact that I worked at a bar. They would get drunk and hit on me all night, and then tell me where afterhours was.;) That period of my college life was just as satisfying as the relationship part.:D No regrets on anything.
and HELL NO.. I'm not telling you where she is going or what bars she is frequenting!
No. I stayed in the relationship for almost a year and a half after I knew it wasn't working and I didn't want to be with her and wanted to be out nailing freshmen
And that's not nice... you had fun with your wild bar nights, are you going to deprive your sister of the same fulfilling college experience??
It's not a mistake if you just want to have sex with the person... but if you really like the guy and want to have a relationship with him, then imo yeah it's not good. I've never had a relationship with any girl that has slept with me after the first date. I've had extended booty calls... but something about a girl that sleeps with me that easily turns me off to the whole relationship thing. Maybe other guys are different.. but that's how I view it.
I'm not going to deprive my sister of anything! I'm definitely not a controlling big brother... I'm protective of her... but in a good way. I would never think of interfering with her life.
Usually is not always.
just that the sentence went a little like, *some* girls cheat, and there's nothing wrong with it.
whether hooking up constitutes having sex with someone or just making out is debatable i guess, but even if it is just making out i find that kind of low and cheap to do if a girl is committed to a boyfriend... and i think there is something wrong with that.... is all i'm saying...