2nd date advice needed..

LikeAnOcean

Edit:.. See my post..

Drowned Out

Def have something (preferably involving alcohol) planned for after. But don't ask if she's down until you're both comfortable...and give her the option of choosing something to do before you spring the "plan". I dunno. Sounds good, but who am I to say?

Man...we could write a book on your dating adventures from your threads.

LikeAnOcean

Drowned Out wrote:

Def have something (preferably involving alcohol) planned for after. But don't ask if she's down until you're both comfortable...and give her the option of choosing something to do before you spring the "plan". I dunno. Sounds good, but who am I to say?

Man...we could write a book on your dating adventures from your threads.

Haha.. can't you tell I hate dating? lol. Relationships for me are usually people I've already known through school or work.. meeting complete strangers seems to be a task for me. :cool:

SPEEDY MCCREADY

LikeAnOcean wrote:

I'm going on a second date tomorrow with a girl I really admire so far..

The plan is going out for dinner.

Is that plenty for a second date or should I have something planned after? Or should I have the dinner conversation decide that???

I don't want to under do it or over do it with this one..

blowoff dinner and take her straight to the bar....

make her pound about 7-10 jaegerbombs......

and then see what she is in the mood for.....hehehehehe

LikeAnOcean

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

blowoff dinner and take her straight to the bar....

make her pound about 7-10 jaegerbombs......

and then see what she is in the mood for.....hehehehehe

I saw you responded, and some how, I wasn't surprised by your response. lol.

SPEEDY MCCREADY

LikeAnOcean wrote:

I saw you responded, and some how, I wasn't surprised by your response. lol.

where are you thinking of going for dinner???

LikeAnOcean

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

where are you thinking of going for dinner???

Either an Italian or American restaurant.. like Leona's, Goose Island, maybe Angelina's Ristorante.. Nothing too fancy, but not fast food.

pjoasisrule

Make romance explosion on her.

LikeAnOcean

pjoasisrule wrote:

Make romance explosion on her.

I will make romance on her face if need be.

SPEEDY MCCREADY

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Either an Italian or American restaurant.. like Leona's, Goose Island, maybe Angelina's Ristorante..

fuck leonas....

you ever been to tuscany??? right across from wrigley????? good italian....

there are a couple other locations....

LikeAnOcean

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

fuck leonas....

you ever been to tuscany??? right across from wrigley????? good italian....

there are a couple other locations....

How expensive? She is a Sox fan.. Is parking easy?.. I don't want to over due it.. Speedy, you are the key to getting me laid tomorrow! Don't blow it!!!

LONGRD

LikeAnOcean wrote:

How expensive? She is a Sox fan.. Is parking easy?.. I don't want to over due it.. Speedy, you are the key to getting me laid tomorrow! Don't blow it!!!

Shouldn't you wait
for at least one or two "female" advice?

LikeAnOcean

LongRd. wrote:

Shouldn't you wait
for at least one or two "female" advice?

lol, I'm getting tired.. need my rest, I'm check back tomorrow for ladies ideas.. :cool:

SPEEDY MCCREADY

LikeAnOcean wrote:

How expensive? She is a Sox fan.. Is parking easy?.. I don't want to over due it.. Speedy, you are the key to getting me laid tomorrow! Don't blow it!!!

i havent been laid in 3 years.....

you are in BIG TROUBLE if you are listening to me!!!!!

hehehehehehehehehehehehehe.....................

Drowned Out

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Haha.. can't you tell I hate dating? lol. Relationships for me are usually people I've already known through school or work.. meeting complete strangers seems to be a task for me. :cool:

I hear ya man...I'm the same. I SUCK at 'picking girls up'...For me, it might be cause I hate small talk, and trying to find common ground with a stranger...plus, I am a total chickenshit on approach, and I think the lack of confidence is evident (we all know the 'I like a man with confidence' cliche is almost as big as the "who'll treat me like a princess" one). Makes it a bitch to meat women. I usually do well when introduced, so it's frustrating.


And ya....second dates were made for alcohol, but don't overdo it...OR let her overdo it!

Cateeto

I would just take things as they come. Have dinner with her and like someone else said, see where the conversation goes. Come up with a conclusion together and feel her out and see what she's interested in. And just be at ease and cool. Things will fall into place just fine.

You're thinking things out too much. Be comfortable

LONGRD

Cateeto wrote:

I would just take things as they come. Have dinner with her and like someone else said, see where the conversation goes. Come up with a conclusion together and feel her out and see what she's interested in. And just be at ease and cool. Things will fall into place just fine.

You're thinking things out too much. Be comfortable

True. Don't stress or be nervous too much.
She might think you're just want to hit the sack.
My only advice is just have fun and have a good time.

aNiMaL

Have a plan, my friend. And, also have a back-up plan.



That's solid advise right there.

genie

Drowned Out wrote:

'I like a man with confidence'

i find it kind of sweet if a guy is not confident when talking to me at first, but later on ( say like after 3/4 dates ) of course he must get his act together

Drowned Out wrote:

"who'll treat me like a princess"

not really just someone who will treat me like another human being and not presume to have knowledge of who i am.

genie

LikeAnOcean wrote:

I'm going on a second date tomorrow with a girl I really admire so far..

The plan is going out for dinner.

Is that plenty for a second date or should I have something planned after? Or should I have the dinner conversation decide that???

I don't want to under do it or over do it with this one..

you know what your problem is? you worry to much, and probably give away hidden signals that you worry and in turn that puts women off.

so what she is a stranger? she will be easy to break up than a friend or work mate.chill out man, do you ever see me make threads about stressing over dates? no...because i don't care, well i do and i don't.

thank god you're not taking her to fast food place! yes, do go to resturant with her, and then just walk around town with her?! or go to a cheap gig?! ( cause that's something i would want ) walk by the river?!

and anyway why should a guy come up with something? why? let her do some work!

Heineken Helen

Awww... well first off, good luck on the date and i hope it goes well

Secondly can you try and find somewhere that doesn't involve driving so you could have a drink too?

Dinner's great... it would be good to have a reservation for say 8 or something and meet her at 7, go for a drink first to relax and then in for the meal... throughout the meal you can suss out how late she can stay out or how much she can drink... it would obviously be great to just go for a couple of drinks afterwards... can ya think of any nice cosy bars you could bring her to?