Fear not. Pretty soon they'll all be going through divorce and then they'll all be available again. I'm telling you, it's easier in your early 30's than when you were younger, if you take care of yourself physically & careerwise.
I dont think there IS really any method... you can meet someone lovely in a bar who you marry and have lots of kids with and live happily ever after... or you could 'bump into' a complete psycho
Basically, anywhere there's people the unexpected can happen
I agree...
These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
I say go out and live your life doing the things that make you happy, and people will naturally gravitate to you. You can't look for some one, they just happen.
I say go out and live your life doing the things that make you happy, and people will naturally gravitate to you. You can't look for some one, they just happen.
It's not always quite that simple. Once you hit your late 20's and have a busy work schedule, it really starts to get harder to meet new people. We all do what we can.
i always met girls at work or school, and now that i'm in a job thats all nerdy guys (except for one lesbian), i am completely at a loss. i hate dating strangers. i always liked to get to know somebody first.
i always met girls at work or school, and now that i'm in a job thats all nerdy guys (except for one lesbian), i am completely at a loss. i hate dating strangers. i always liked to get to know somebody first.
Maybe you should make it a personal goal to turn the lesbian straight by the end of the year
I think the key question is when will one of the Pit members start a PJ dating site?
like pjmatch.com..
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"I play good, hard-nosed basketball.
Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
"I'm gonna beat this guy up."
I met my ex through The Pit. We arranged to meet at a show. I won't get in to details as to what happened from there, but saying she's now my ex should say enough.
An interesting possibility that I've thought about in the past is having a singles ticket sale thread. Singles who have an extra ticket could sell to other singles. I've met some cool people by selling my extra tickets. At the very least, you'd have some company at the show.
hmm... she is kinda cute, or maybe its just that i've barely seen another woman for weeks.
challenge accepted!
Wooho, now this is intriguing, we'll need a new thread for the juicy details though.
I think when I was a teen I used to work with a lesbian at a Taco Bell (out of all the places a lesbian can work at :rolleyes: ) She was really a lesbian, butchy/girlie looking though. Like those raver-club types.
It's not always quite that simple. Once you hit your late 20's and have a busy work schedule, it really starts to get harder to meet new people. We all do what we can.
I know what you mean. I'm 25, in school and work, but I know you'll drive yourself batty looking for someone. I figure if I just live my life to the fullest, thats all I can do to make myself happy. Your right, it is harder to meet new people. The only friends I have are some of the people I knew from high school. I had some friends when I was in the Air Force, but trust was hard to come by with that crowd.
I know what you mean. I'm 25, in school and work, but I know you'll drive yourself batty looking for someone. I figure if I just live my life to the fullest, thats all I can do to make myself happy. Your right, it is harder to meet new people. The only friends I have are some of the people I knew from high school. I had some friends when I was in the Air Force, but trust was hard to come by with that crowd.
I know it's not usually recommended, but work has been quite good to me as of late! As long as you don't have a strict HR dept!
My rule has always been no dating anyone who I work for, works for me or works in the same department. That avoids a lot of the possible unpleasantries that can arise.
My rule has always been no dating anyone who I work for, works for me or works in the same department. That avoids a lot of the possible unpleasantries that can arise.
that philosophy I believe is aka: Don't Poop Where You Eat
"...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
"Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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6/25/08
Free Speedy
and Metsy!
My rule has always been no dating anyone who I work for, works for me or works in the same department. That avoids a lot of the possible unpleasantries that can arise.
I think this is generally a good rule of thumb. However I refuse to listen! Actually, in my line of work (real estate agent) if need be I could be working in a new office within a matter of hours if it ever gets complicated. So I guess unless you're also in the same situation, it probably isn't the best idea!
"The leads are weak!"
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
So I'm hanging out with some friends tonight (drinking) who seem to be amazed that I'm still single, "because of my looks and charm" (I'm flattered).. but got dissed because I resorted to online dating.. And their advise to me was walk around a college campus and "accidently" bump into girls..
Now ladies, is that the best bit of advice to give a few years gone by (I'm 29) post-college grad to meet ladies?..
If I shouldn't be meeting girls online, and I shouldn't be meeting girls at bars, then where the hell should I be meeting them at my tender, still young but almost old age???
I almost agree with them because he girls I've been meeting online have been single for a looong time, and not just because they wanted to be single..
P.S. I've been drinking..
meet them whenever wherever you get a chance if you think there is a chance for you to start a conversation and lure her in then go for it! be it at the bar, college, internet, shop.....
They do this speed dating thing in the local sports matches where the women stay in the seats and the guys switch around every time someone scores, fouls, or whatever.
I say, this needs to happen at a concert. 2 songs, move on. Another 2 songs, move on, etc.
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no, really?
you just might be right...
ace solo show?
I agree...
I agree 110% It's such crap!
Keepin us close, so close... on down the line... sometimes I burn like a dot on the sun
I don't know maybe I just got a thing for sports girls.
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It's not always quite that simple. Once you hit your late 20's and have a busy work schedule, it really starts to get harder to meet new people. We all do what we can.
Maybe you should make it a personal goal to turn the lesbian straight by the end of the year
I'll buy MrSmith a beer if he accomplishes this task I've set for him. Hehehe
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but we don't know. Maybe she's not!
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like pjmatch.com..
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Toronto 2011,Toronto 2011
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"I play good, hard-nosed basketball.
Things happen in the game. Nothing you
can do. I don't go and say,
"I'm gonna beat this guy up."
Very true. We'll need to figure out a new prize that's fitting for the challenge at hand.
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
I met my ex through The Pit. We arranged to meet at a show. I won't get in to details as to what happened from there, but saying she's now my ex should say enough.
An interesting possibility that I've thought about in the past is having a singles ticket sale thread. Singles who have an extra ticket could sell to other singles. I've met some cool people by selling my extra tickets. At the very least, you'd have some company at the show.
hmm... she is kinda cute, or maybe its just that i've barely seen another woman for weeks.
challenge accepted!
I think when I was a teen I used to work with a lesbian at a Taco Bell (out of all the places a lesbian can work at :rolleyes: ) She was really a lesbian, butchy/girlie looking though. Like those raver-club types.
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
I know what you mean. I'm 25, in school and work, but I know you'll drive yourself batty looking for someone. I figure if I just live my life to the fullest, thats all I can do to make myself happy. Your right, it is harder to meet new people. The only friends I have are some of the people I knew from high school. I had some friends when I was in the Air Force, but trust was hard to come by with that crowd.
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
My rule has always been no dating anyone who I work for, works for me or works in the same department. That avoids a lot of the possible unpleasantries that can arise.
"Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
6-01-06
6/25/08
Free Speedy
and Metsy!
I think this is generally a good rule of thumb. However I refuse to listen!
"The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"
"What's your name?"
"FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
meet them whenever wherever you get a chance if you think there is a chance for you to start a conversation and lure her in
fuck rules and regulations :cool:
I say, this needs to happen at a concert. 2 songs, move on. Another 2 songs, move on, etc.