"I'm hotter then my significant other"

kh65

I'm too sexy for my shirt.

Oh wait, wrong message board.

comebackwoman

GraySaturday wrote:

Zoso is 23? I did not know this. I think you guys are cute together from the pictures you've posted. Honestly, I had no idea you were older then him. I'd say you were both very evenly matched.

Thank you - yeah he'll be 24 in August...so we're a bit more than 10 1/2 years apart. Usually I forget about the age difference...unless he's just shaved...then he looks YOUNG! I feel like we fit together...even if it's not an even match.

PJPixie

EvilMerlin wrote:

I dated a girl who thought I was better than her once, when we first started it was the other way around. I never said anything out loud to her, but I was just like "wow, why's she talking to me?" Then as it progressed she would just say things like I'm better looking than her, outgoing personality, etc etc and would just completely put herself in a funk. It was hard to get over for her and ended up taking its toll on me. I hated talking about it every other day.

Also I've had a few girls who, it's not the same, but a little on topic, would get insecure and complain that girls ALWAYS stare at me wherever we go. I try telling them no matter where I go, I get stared at. I walk into a room, I'm noticed. I'm 6'9" I'm always going to be stared at. But then they'd argue, "no, it's different the way girls look at you than how the guys do." Ugh. so frustrating sometimes.

But when I've dated someone that I felt was better looking than my capabilities, I thought it was cool. I didn't mind, I figured it was just complimentary to a cool person and saw that as a nice plus. I guess some people just deal with it differently.

6'9".............DROOLS................I HAVE IT BAD FOR TALL GUYS!

EvilMerlin

PJPixie wrote:

6'9".............DROOLS................I HAVE IT BAD FOR TALL GUYS!

DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE! You're supposed to be ambiguous. If you're going to start being straight forward and what not I can't reply to your posts anymore! You're taking the fun out of it all. Sheeesh.

And yeah, I hear that a lot too, then they go off and date someone that's 6'2" or something and I'm like, Psh, that's not tall! And then they go "yes it is, you're just freakin tall!" And I'm like, "oh yeah...gotta bring the freak into it." :(

PJPixie

EvilMerlin wrote:

DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE! You're supposed to be ambiguous. If you're going to start being straight forward and what not I can't reply to your posts anymore! You're taking the fun out of it all. Sheeesh.

And yeah, I hear that a lot too, then they go off and date someone that's 6'2" or something and I'm like, Psh, that's not tall! And then they go "yes it is, you're just freakin tall!" And I'm like, "oh yeah...gotta bring the freak into it." :(

Ooooppsss.........sorry. (wipes the messy drool up)



I should be taller, I have big feet. I got ripped off :(

kh65

EvilMerlin wrote:

DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE! You're supposed to be ambiguous. If you're going to start being straight forward and what not I can't reply to your posts anymore! You're taking the fun out of it all. Sheeesh.

And yeah, I hear that a lot too, then they go off and date someone that's 6'2" or something and I'm like, Psh, that's not tall! And then they go "yes it is, you're just freakin tall!" And I'm like, "oh yeah...gotta bring the freak into it." :(

Freaks are generally cool. Until you hit the bedroom and the the weird bondage shit is lying around.

rebornFixer

My wife is model-hot (albeit she eats, so is of normal weight) ... I, however, look like any other kid from the prairies ... Average at best.

This is not a problem, though. The people would would comment on this cannot see us anyhow, what with their sunglasses that are around 8 times larger than their faces.

iluvcats

reborncareerist wrote:

My wife is model-hot (albeit she eats, so is of normal weight) ... I, however, look like any other kid from the prairies ... Average at best.

This is not a problem, though. The people would would comment on this cannot see us anyhow, what with their sunglasses that are around 8 times larger than their faces.

quit lying. you know you look like orlando bloom and your hair is vedderesque.

EvilMerlin

kh65 wrote:

Freaks are generally cool. Until you hit the bedroom and the the weird bondage shit is lying around.

LOL very true. I just tend to kick it all under the bed really quick.

Stone Is God

EvilMerlin wrote:

I dated a girl who thought I was better than her once, when we first started it was the other way around. I never said anything out loud to her, but I was just like "wow, why's she talking to me?" Then as it progressed she would just say things like I'm better looking than her, outgoing personality, etc etc and would just completely put herself in a funk. It was hard to get over for her and ended up taking its toll on me. I hated talking about it every other day.

Also I've had a few girls who, it's not the same, but a little on topic, would get insecure and complain that girls ALWAYS stare at me wherever we go. I try telling them no matter where I go, I get stared at. I walk into a room, I'm noticed. I'm 6'9" I'm always going to be stared at. But then they'd argue, "no, it's different the way girls look at you than how the guys do." Ugh. so frustrating sometimes.

But when I've dated someone that I felt was better looking than my capabilities, I thought it was cool. I didn't mind, I figured it was just complimentary to a cool person and saw that as a nice plus. I guess some people just deal with it differently.

Someone else who feels my pain. I also stand at 6 foot 9 and I think that the girls stare at us more because of the "myths" of the tall people. I think the problem that we have is girls always want to come up to us and touch us like we're some sort of circus clown.

My girlfriend is far better looking than I am even though she says that I'm hot. I usually tell her to stop lying.

EvilMerlin

Stone Is God wrote:

Someone else who feels my pain. I also stand at 6 foot 9 and I think that the girls stare at us more because of the "myths" of the tall people. I think the problem that we have is girls always want to come up to us and touch us like we're some sort of circus clown.

My girlfriend is far better looking than I am even though she says that I'm hot. I usually tell her to stop lying.

YES! Thank you. At least I know someone else out there knows about this too.

Oh how many times I've also heard, "You're not a girl, so you don't know the look. I do, you don't understand." Ugh...even though when we first met you looked at me the same way everyone does that's not used to seeing someone 6'9" duck his head and walk through a doorway. Geeez.

Stone Is God

EvilMerlin wrote:

YES! Thank you. At least I know someone else out there knows about this too.

Oh how many times I've also heard, "You're not a girl, so you don't know the look. I do, you don't understand." Ugh...even though when we first met you looked at me the same way everyone does that's not used to seeing someone 6'9" duck his head and walk through a doorway. Geeez.

Holy shit, I'm laughing my ass off over here. I just had this conversation with my girl and a buddy of mine the other night.

It's really bad when you have a girl with no self confidence (even though she might be smoking) and she thinks every girl is looking at you.

My usual reply was to tell her everyone was looking at me because I just almost scalped myself walking into the bar.

I've always felt that 95% of the girls I've dated have been better looking than me although I've never had a problem with talking to girls who are.

EvilMerlin

Stone Is God wrote:

Holy shit, I'm laughing my ass off over here. I just had this conversation with my girl and a buddy of mine the other night.

It's really bad when you have a girl with no self confidence (even though she might be smoking) and she thinks every girl is looking at you.

My usual reply was to tell her everyone was looking at me because I just almost scalped myself walking into the bar.

I've always felt that 95% of the girls I've dated have been better looking than me although I've never had a problem with talking to girls who are.

LOL that's the greatest. And yeah I've had the same situations with girls as well. It's nice to know someone out there that understands lol.

I don't have anymore tall friends. The ones I played football and basketball with are all married now so we only get together a couple times a year and don't really go out much anymore. So they say I'm paranoid and think those kind of looks were only back in the day of high school and college and that people get used to it. So even THEY don't understand anymore haha. Man they need to get out more.

failedpersephone

kh65 wrote:

Freaks are generally cool. Until you hit the bedroom and the the weird bondage shit is lying around.

you an' me can't be frien's

OffHeGoes29

It can be a true, I'm pretty much the best looking guy this side of the Hudson.

decides2dream

GraySaturday wrote:

NO, this is not my statement.

So I am watching a show, I won't admit what it is But the topic is having a significant other that is better looking then you. And I think this is interesting, because they are discussing how feeling "less than" in a physical sense can hurt a relationship and cause stress.

Does anyone have experience with this? I know my mom will always say, "Oh, she is better looking for a girl then he is for a guy" or vice versa.

interesting....


there was an episode of sex and the city when miranda was dating the MUCH hotter guy, i think a police detective. he was crazy about her, thought the world of her..obviously did not think of himself as better-looking, etc...and yet miranda still couldn't take it.


overall, i think MOST couples are pretty 'compatible' looks wise. i think those that aren't there are other factors that more than likely m,ake up for it. id' like to say personality os the main reason...but it seems more probably that power/prestige/money have more to do with it. either way, there always seems to be leveling factors. however, looking around...it really does seem the average couple pretty well matched physically. sure, one may be a wee bit better looking, but still close.


me...i think most of my BFs...and my husband.....we're all pretty much on the same level of attractiveness. dead sexy of course. haha.

Zoso

comebackgirl wrote:

My fiance is better looking than me...but I'm almost 11 years older than him...so makes sense - it's hard to compete with youth. I don't feel like we're mismatched though...we seem to complement each other...and he's one of those people who don't realize how hot they are...so it all works in the end.

Zoso is 23 yes but c'mon people here have looked at pics of us and seen that I have the most beautiful girl ever... seriously. It's no contest I have a hotter fiancee for sure!!

jecica

http://www.hotchickswithdouchebags.com/

ForestBrain

I'm sorry, but those women aren't hot, they're trash.

in_hiding79

Brain of J.Lo wrote:

My husband says that I'm the better looking one but I think we are evenly matched. He's much more attractive than he realizes. Even as he ages, I think he looks more attractive. Anyway, if he truly believes that I'm more attractive, then I would hope it wouldn't damage him!!!

As my husband gets older he gets more and more handsome. He is definitely the one with the looks...he is a cutie! He wakes up looking good....it takes me about two hours and then maybe I'm ready...